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Dudes! I went out last night to the usual mid-week venue I frequent with a wing, it can be hit or miss after a bank holiday but it was very busy and was a very good night. It was very busy early on where it usually starts of quiet but it was a nice change of pace.
Wardrobe / Venue / Attention Grab / Socialising
I was wearing a tight fitting green top, black skinny jeans, converse shoes, and for accessories a dog tag necklace and black leather bracelets. The venue is a small club which is just one long room, there's a small dance floor at the bottom of the room and a few secluded seating booths down the side which are filled with groups which somewhat isolates them. It mostly plays indie and pop songs but they're fairly mixed and include some rap and generally a bit of everything. Other than the booths the whole place becomes a dancefloor throughout the night. It’s fairly dark with a lot of flashing lights with a lot of high energy on the dancefloor which tapers throughout the night.
Me and my wing arrive fairly early in the night and its much busier than it usually is, I greet the bouncers that I'm friendly with at the door, shake their hands, talk to them for a bit and talk to the owner and girl on the door before walking into the club, pausing briefly with a subtle pose as an attention grab. We get a drink and post up towards the door. It's a good spot out the high energy of the dancefloor to socialise and hang with a lot of footfall/traffic passing by to notice and be noticed by people coming in.
Similar to me and my wings subtle attention grab a group of hot girls come in all dressed up in the Sabrina Short n Sweet style clothes, dresses or tops and skirts. They've just entered the club and end up standing not to far away from us. They're a seemingly closed of group as its early and they're still in pack mentality. We stay where we are and keep socialising a bit before moving around the venue.
Socialising / Approached / Pre Selection / Approach
Throughout the night me and my wing socialised together and met and talked to other people picking up social momentum. I was approached a couple of times by cute girls while I was just posting up which added to the social momentum and it was fun socialising in general. I go to the bar with my wing, the group of girls from earlier are at the bar, while we're waiting to be served I'm enjoying the music singing along, I look to my left and lock eyes with this girl with long blonde wavy hair, wearing a pink sleeveless top and pink layered ruffle skirt, both enjoying the song singing it together from a couple feet apart. We drift closer, I take her hand and give her a twirl and we start dancing together as I pull her in close kissing her creating a huge its on moment.
Group dynamic
She puts her hand on my chest as if stopping herself as she gets close, taking a second for herself. We start talking and her friends turn around from the bar, I ask her who she's with and she introduces me to her friends, I introduce them to my wing and ask them about their outfits, it was one of the girls birthday and she's a huge Sabrina fan. The outfits was a perfect "opener" and a way to be social and integrate with the group. I mostly talked to two of the group and my target, my wing didn't stick in set long, he went to the gents and didn't come back. After talking to him today he ejected early because he thought he had no chance.
I keep in set and dance with my target and all of her friends, I've won over her friends keeping them included but still keeping my attention on my target. The night club is getting quieter as the night is coming to a close, I dance with my target to the last song turning her back to the group making it feel like it was just us. The song ends and one of her friends comes over to us and starts talking telling us we have to go. I walk outside with the group of girls and they stand around talking outside. The friend that came over and got us keeps talking to me and I keep involved with the group.
Logistics / Extraction
They start talking about taxis and ubers, there's too many for a taxi/uber so they decide on whos sharing what taxis. My target and her friend that came to get us at the end asked if I wanted to get in a taxi with them, I asked where they were going. It wasn't too far from the venue to which I offer to drop them off. Two of the girls that lived furthest away were sharing a taxi and that left me with my target and her two friends from earlier.
The taxi for the two girls turns up and they say their goodbyes, one of the girls that was left then asked if I booked a taxi for us to drop them off, I told them I'd be dropping them off, my cars just parked up the road. We walk to the car and I ask where they're all going to establish who I'm dropping off. It's decided I'll drop my target of last, I've won over her friends as they ask me to make sure she gets home safe.
Resistance / Reassurance
I drop her friends off and take my target to her place. She thanks me for the lift and things get a little hot in the car. She sheepishly stops and says she can't, but it was lovely meeting me. I remain calm and tell her it was lovely meeting her, she thanks me for the lift again but stays there. This repeats a couple of times to which she giggles to break the awkward tension. I take the pressure of her from leaving and say come on I'll walk you to the door. At the door we start kissing again and I push the escalation. She's all hot and bothered while breathing heavily tells me I can come in for 5 minutes but nothing is going to happen.
We go into the living room and she puts the TV on, and sits next to me. We're casually talking before we start kissing and pushing the escalation again. It was a repeat of the car, where she'd stop and act sheepish but we'd pick up where we left of as she felt comfortable and submitted to her desires
Wardrobe / Venue / Attention Grab / Socialising
I was wearing a tight fitting green top, black skinny jeans, converse shoes, and for accessories a dog tag necklace and black leather bracelets. The venue is a small club which is just one long room, there's a small dance floor at the bottom of the room and a few secluded seating booths down the side which are filled with groups which somewhat isolates them. It mostly plays indie and pop songs but they're fairly mixed and include some rap and generally a bit of everything. Other than the booths the whole place becomes a dancefloor throughout the night. It’s fairly dark with a lot of flashing lights with a lot of high energy on the dancefloor which tapers throughout the night.
Me and my wing arrive fairly early in the night and its much busier than it usually is, I greet the bouncers that I'm friendly with at the door, shake their hands, talk to them for a bit and talk to the owner and girl on the door before walking into the club, pausing briefly with a subtle pose as an attention grab. We get a drink and post up towards the door. It's a good spot out the high energy of the dancefloor to socialise and hang with a lot of footfall/traffic passing by to notice and be noticed by people coming in.
Similar to me and my wings subtle attention grab a group of hot girls come in all dressed up in the Sabrina Short n Sweet style clothes, dresses or tops and skirts. They've just entered the club and end up standing not to far away from us. They're a seemingly closed of group as its early and they're still in pack mentality. We stay where we are and keep socialising a bit before moving around the venue.
Socialising / Approached / Pre Selection / Approach
Throughout the night me and my wing socialised together and met and talked to other people picking up social momentum. I was approached a couple of times by cute girls while I was just posting up which added to the social momentum and it was fun socialising in general. I go to the bar with my wing, the group of girls from earlier are at the bar, while we're waiting to be served I'm enjoying the music singing along, I look to my left and lock eyes with this girl with long blonde wavy hair, wearing a pink sleeveless top and pink layered ruffle skirt, both enjoying the song singing it together from a couple feet apart. We drift closer, I take her hand and give her a twirl and we start dancing together as I pull her in close kissing her creating a huge its on moment.
Group dynamic
She puts her hand on my chest as if stopping herself as she gets close, taking a second for herself. We start talking and her friends turn around from the bar, I ask her who she's with and she introduces me to her friends, I introduce them to my wing and ask them about their outfits, it was one of the girls birthday and she's a huge Sabrina fan. The outfits was a perfect "opener" and a way to be social and integrate with the group. I mostly talked to two of the group and my target, my wing didn't stick in set long, he went to the gents and didn't come back. After talking to him today he ejected early because he thought he had no chance.
I keep in set and dance with my target and all of her friends, I've won over her friends keeping them included but still keeping my attention on my target. The night club is getting quieter as the night is coming to a close, I dance with my target to the last song turning her back to the group making it feel like it was just us. The song ends and one of her friends comes over to us and starts talking telling us we have to go. I walk outside with the group of girls and they stand around talking outside. The friend that came over and got us keeps talking to me and I keep involved with the group.
Logistics / Extraction
They start talking about taxis and ubers, there's too many for a taxi/uber so they decide on whos sharing what taxis. My target and her friend that came to get us at the end asked if I wanted to get in a taxi with them, I asked where they were going. It wasn't too far from the venue to which I offer to drop them off. Two of the girls that lived furthest away were sharing a taxi and that left me with my target and her two friends from earlier.
The taxi for the two girls turns up and they say their goodbyes, one of the girls that was left then asked if I booked a taxi for us to drop them off, I told them I'd be dropping them off, my cars just parked up the road. We walk to the car and I ask where they're all going to establish who I'm dropping off. It's decided I'll drop my target of last, I've won over her friends as they ask me to make sure she gets home safe.
Resistance / Reassurance
I drop her friends off and take my target to her place. She thanks me for the lift and things get a little hot in the car. She sheepishly stops and says she can't, but it was lovely meeting me. I remain calm and tell her it was lovely meeting her, she thanks me for the lift again but stays there. This repeats a couple of times to which she giggles to break the awkward tension. I take the pressure of her from leaving and say come on I'll walk you to the door. At the door we start kissing again and I push the escalation. She's all hot and bothered while breathing heavily tells me I can come in for 5 minutes but nothing is going to happen.
We go into the living room and she puts the TV on, and sits next to me. We're casually talking before we start kissing and pushing the escalation again. It was a repeat of the car, where she'd stop and act sheepish but we'd pick up where we left of as she felt comfortable and submitted to her desires
