Should I bother trying to get girls if my social life is non-existent?

[kingstolas]

So, I'm new here and I have been reading the articles on the website and all that. I think I now have a pretty good idea how I should start trying to get girls and I know some general concepts.
The only problem is, I feel, that my current situation might not be very favorable for meeting girls. Specifically, I'm a 17 year old guy (turning 18 in a couple months) who has been locked in his room in front of a computer throughout his whole adolescence. I wouldn't say that I have 0 social skills, but I basically only have like 2 or 3 friends and they're all typical geeky guys who often do even worse than me socially, and every time I leave the house it's either alone or with my family. I think I was doing better even as a 5 year old because I at least had like 1 female friend from kindergarten back then. I also don't have any places where I could meet any new people at all, let alone girls, since I just graduated from high school (the only thing I regularly left the house for) and college starts for me in like 3 months.

What I wanna know is: Should I even bother with game and all that in my current situation or should I first try to become more social in general and then give seduction a shot? Would girls lose interest in me when they find out that I actually don't even have a social circle and spend most of my time alone in my room? I know I should ideally do both but I'm just wondering if I can start trying to get girls now because I've been dying for success with women for a while now and I would like to start as soon as possible, but I'm worried that my situation could be too big a handicap. (Note: When I'm at home I'm not fucking around or anything, I'm always doing stuff that I'm very passionate about and wouldn't ever stop doing, but I really would like to lead a more balanced life)

P.S: Although I'm not at all jacked or anything, I think I'm doing pretty well in the looks department, since I always get compliments from people, but most of the time I'm either too quiet or too nice and/or boring to be perceived as attractive. I'm just kind a pussy in general around people.

I appreciate any advice.

 

[Seppuku]

Hey young man,

I've never been a social animal. When I go out, I go with a very limited number of friends. I usually feel better in a very small group (two or three) than in a large group. In fact, I avoid large groups (that I find boring). And I go out with friends maybe like a few times in a month (not every day). At no point was this a problem to get girls. However I do have social confidence when I need it.

So you don't have to be a social god to get girls. Although it's not a requirement, it will always help to have a minimum of social skills boiled down. But it certainly should not prevent you from trying yourself at girls! Get over your inhibitions and natural shyness and anxiety and talk to girls. Your social skills will come along the way.

What I would say you probably need most now is not getting big circles of friends. It's more getting a minimum confidence in yourself. Talking to girls will help you with this. Just... avoid the geeky stuff with them!

Seppuku