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should i forget about being creepy or uncalibrated

disciple99

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hey guys i have last two weeks of school left and should i just hit girls and make Eye Contact And Give Fucks like crazy like today i sit very close to a teacher in her personal space but she dint object and i am giving eye to girls contact like crazy maybe in uncalibrated way should i do this more for sake of expirence i may see them again may not.
 

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Well yes and no.

Yes because all experience and practice helps you advance on your seduction career and getting your fundamentals down such as eye contact and walk (things that you were right to mention and practice) are the most important in being a high quality attractive guy. Plus action is always better than inaction.

However the reason I also feel like you shouldn't is due to your outlook of it. Doing things in seduction for the sake of it isn't very useful as there isn't that personal commitment to it and you don't exude a vibe or general interest in the girl. A post that chase wrote describes this a lot better. https://www.girlschase.com/content/acting-intent.
Plus not paying attention to how creepy or uncalibrated you are can lead to you falling into a common trap of quantity vs. quality.(where guys just approach tons of girls but do they get anywhere with them? Nope! but for some strange reason they still count it as a success.) You'll end up doing tons of approaches but won't improve much.

So my advice is yes, continue to approach, chat, flirt and even try date new women but do it with intent. Either make some goals of what you want to achieve with her (either like her flirting back, her returning eye contact or even something more solid like getting her number or a date) or just see how well the interaction goes and reflect on it later.

And don't worry too much in being uncalibrated in the beginning. That's normal and happens to everyone. In fact here is a really funny approach I did in the start of my career that was just God awful. I met this girl in a nightclub and we were chatting. Found out she was a nurse and in the least sexual, most creepiest way I look at her with a dorky smile and say, "so you a sexy nurse." Yeah. She left after that.


Calibration comes with time and experience but also by reflecting about what you did in that interaction.
Here are some posts that really helped me when I was starting out.
https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-not-be-creepy-guy
https://www.girlschase.com/content/learn ... alibration

Hope this helps!

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disciple99

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hey rookie brotha i understand your point i will pick up bad habits if i practice seduction for sake of it and i might hooked to reactions which will not let me proggress so now i will do things even if my goals are small.
so my goals right now will be putting social pressure on girls by laser focous eye contact , giving non verbal commands to chicks (i am good at this but want to master it), deep diving correctly(i forget telling about me or only talk about me)
thank for help man you cleared my head and i will focous on action and calibration must be result of that action.
 
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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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No problem, good luck with your goals

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