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[SIL_Alex]

DG

Mindset
-Enjoy the path
-I feel seduced and want to get to know more about her

Goals, Its important to practise the basics first
-Open 2 girls before I meet wing
-First stop. Than an SOI, further 6-8 openers
-Stay in set until she says goodbye, if it’s awkward still enjoy it. And keep talking
-show my interest, and I am interested in getting to know her as a person

General Notes
No big new observations. On the one hand I think to myself that I can screen better. On the other hand it’s an excuse to approach less, I really need more practise. I opened seven girls and there was one short instadate.

What was good
-I could project stronger interest in some girls which definitely was better
-good Vibes with one girl
-approaches most

What to do better
-really open those two girls before meeting my wing
-believing that it’s possible to vibe and see each other again
-open more and be more persistent

Insights (if I can write 2 only)
-it’s important to be expressive
-Believing we will connect is key

Cheers
Alex

 

[SIL_Alex]

DG

Mindset
-I’m a cool guy and spread some good energy
-I Feel really seduced

Goals, Its important to practise the basics first
-Directly before I approach, I remember beautiful things, and have a big smile when building eye contact
-Stay in set until she says goodbye, if it’s awkward still enjoy it. And keep talking
-show my interest, and be interested in getting to know her as a person

General Notes
Im blaming work too much, however today there was nothing to excuse myself. Somehow I rarely saw fitting sets, not sure if it. Opened too few sets and they all were too short.

What was good
-I guess I actually approached with more smiles
-opened 2 sets of two

What to do better
-more intention
-more energy

Insights (if I can write 2 only)
-its important to have more intention and really want it
-as last times.. simply approach more

Cheers
Alex

 

[SIL_Alex]

NG

Mindset
-Enjoy its fun
-She likes me and wants made dressed up to get approached

Goals, Its important to practise the basics first
-Directly before I approach, I remember beautiful things, and have a big smile when building eye contact
-Feel totally seduced, spread love
-Open at least 16 sets (/longer ones count as more)

General Notes
Met a wing and after some chatting we started.
Tonight was better than average, various sets were longer and there was a one hour set. All in all it was fine, I guess I can be way more Man to Woman and more sexual.

What was good
-longest ng interaction of the last four weeks
-enjoying some convos and keep talking more
-the Vibes, I smiled more etc

What to do better
-be more man to women
-abc, its just critical and key
-more approaches, stay longer

Insights (if I can write 2 only)
-smiling and fun is just too key
-I got to do things different if I want different results

Cheers
Alex

 

[SIL_Alex]

DG

Mindset
-Enjoy its fun
-She likes me and wants me

Goals, Its important to practise the basics first
-Directly before I approach, I remember beautiful things, and have a big smile when building eye contact
-Stay in set until she says goodbye, if it’s awkward still enjoy it. And keep talking
-show my interest, and be interested in getting to know her as a person

General Notes
Walking too long around, did not really see sets, however maybe I did not check that well

What was good
-Opened after being kind of in a negative spiral
-Went for dg alone

What to do better
-Open more
-Enjoy more of the times

Cheers
Alex

 

[SIL_Alex]

NG

Mindset
-Enjoy have fun

Goals, Its important to practise the basics first
-Make assumptions only instead of questions
-Make fun of things she says
-Bring SOIs

General Notes
Spoke mostly wings, almost didn’t opened tonight. Some short convos only for quite some time.

What was good
-Enjoyed the vibes and time
-See people I did not for some time

What to do better
-Open more
-Talk louder and more dominantly

Cheers
Alex

 

[SIL_Alex]

DG

Mindset
didn’t wrote

Goals, Its important to practise the basics first
didn’t wrote

General Notes
First long walk and a big group doing nth. Later more and more and it was fine. I opened around 11 sets.

What was good
-I opened more 2sets and one sets than the last times
-Some conversations which were fine
-Great vibes at last set

What to do better
-Talk louder and stronger
-Show more interest
-Make Convos more man to women
-ABC simply always to practise

Insights (if I can only write 2)
-The more sets the better they usually get
-three second rule is just too key

Cheers
Alex

 

[SIL_Alex]

NG

Mindset
-She is here for enjoying me too

Goals, Its important to practise the basics first
-Keep talking and stay in set until she leaves
-make assumptions and don’t ask questions
-Really be interested in her and take steps to get to know her better

General Notes
Only opened two sets

What was good
-Doing sth is better than nth
-opened a two set when being alone

What to do better
-Simply do more
-Go to place where there are more sets

Cheers
Alex

 

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Goals, Its important to practise the basics first
-Keep talking and stay in set until she leaves
-make assumptions and don’t ask questions
-Really be interested in her and take steps to get to know her better

General Notes
Only opened two sets

How was it? Did you meet your goals for the outing?

 

[SIL_Alex]

How was it? Did you meet your goals for the outing?

Hi, Well there is space for improvement

 

[SIL_Alex]

DG

Mindset
-Enjoy the process, its fun
-I feel seduced and want to get to know more about her

Goals, Its important to practise the basics first
-Be interested in getting to know her as a person
-keep making assumptions
-Stay in set until she says goodbye, if it’s awkward still enjoy it. And keep talking

General Notes
I talked to a friend on the phone before the session. This might be a limiting belief: After I talk to sb on the phone for some time, my motivation kind of drops, I already satisfy my needs and don’t do much more, so it actually turns out to be true. I opened two sets only.
One set was nice, however I started to talk about work too much, and it got just too boring. I tried to transition back to her, but the window was just over. The other one was quite short.

What was good
-Noticing I still have that limiting belief
-Noticing I am still talking too much on the phone

What to do better
-No more phone calls with friends before this kind of practise sessions
-simply do more.

Cheers
Alex

 

[SIL_Alex]

NG

Mindset
Didn’t wrote

Goals, Its important to practise the basics first
Didn’t wrote

General Notes
Met a wing and we went to a venue with nice music. Around five sets, after that I lost got stuck in some spiral again

What was good
-writing this report even if delayed
-enjoying especially one conversation with brought up interesting memories

What to do better
-Well Im writing this again and again, and thats simply how it is. I got to approach more/ solve underlying issues to approach more releasing or in some other way.
-Be more direct and continue bringing interactions forward

Insights
-Mindset to have: It is attractive if girls see me approaching other girls. And it is actually kind of true, especially when staying in the convos for a bit

Cheers
Alex

 

[SIL_Alex]

DG

Mindset
-Enjoy the process, its fun
-I feel seduced and want to get to know more about her

Goals, Its important to practise the basics first
-Mantra: she simply likes me
-Be interested in getting to know her as a person
-keep making assumptions
-Stay in set until she says goodbye, if it’s awkward still enjoy it. And keep talking

General Notes
Met a wing. Started well approaching with little time in between, opened around eight sets and got a bit in the flow. Mostly short conversations. At the end it seems like there were no more sets somehow, probably some excuse in my head

What was good
-Well at the moment this is a kind of better session, so that is good
-taking time to reflect

What to do better
-Same again, approach more
-Have more interest in the girls I talk to

Cheers
Alex

Additional notes
There is more work these weeks, it’s important to free more time, especially when being at the beginning. Got to go through it and continue when this work phase is over with more time.

 

[SIL_Alex]

NG

Mindset
Didn’t wrote

Goals, Its important to practise the basics first
Didn’t wrote

General notes
After two wings canceled I went for a further away venue. When arriving there they actually did not let me inside. I did not feel like going somewhere else and thats how the night went.

What was good
-learning about being more clever when going to new places

What to do better
-Be more clever at doors, ask girls to enter together or hook first and enter together
-have other plans in mind

Cheers
Alex

 

[SIL_Alex]

NG

Mindset
Didn’t wrote

Goals, Its important to practise the basics first
Didn’t wrote

General notes
I was quite tired today. After meeting and chatting with some friends we went for a club. There I talk too much with man I did not know lol. There was one two set which was going well, however lost momentum, I reapproached and there I could have persisted more.

What was good
-I am finding some time to going out a bit
-Talked to various stranger guys having fun

What to do better
-Approach more
-Approach with more intention of really wanting to get to know her

Cheers
Alex

 

[SIL_Alex]

DG

Mindset
Didn’t wrote

Goals, Its important to practise the basics first
Didn’t wrote

General notes
There was some special event and many people. I approached seven sets, however the convos were mostly short, sometimes we did not vibe and I went out.

What was good
-I approached various girls in a way they see I also approach others, sometimes I try to avoid that
-a bit of intention here and there

What to do better
-be more interested
-enjoy the path and everything with it more

Cheers
Alex

 

[SIL_Alex]

NG

Mindset
-She wants to meet sb. we like each other, she wants me
-Keep checking if she fulfils my standards

Goals, Its important to practise the basics first
-being interested in her
-Think about that I want to see her again and bring the interactions forward.

General notes
We met and after a bit of talking we started approaching. We however hooked here and there however stayed too long in sets without bringing up a sexual vibe/ showing more interest.

What was good
-Some long interactions
-More kino than usually.

What to do better
-Noticed I was nervous here and there
-Approach with more intention, and make it more man to woman
-One time I said that I love sth with a really unconvincing tone lol, This two must simply fit together

Cheers
Alex

 

[SIL_Alex]

DG+NG

Mindset
-She wants to meet sb. we like each other, she wants me
-Keep checking if she fulfils my standards

Ziele
-Intention: I want to get to really know her and check if she is fitting to be my girlfriend, if not if she can be a wingman or friend
-I will approach more girls than usually.

General notes
Met some wings and there was an event in the city. Therefore more people which was good. I approached more, and since I’ll have a bit more time the following days, I will approach more which I am looking forward to. Many sets were short, some longer, mostly single sets, the later it got the more two sets.

What was good
-Some long interactions, some kino
-Approaching more girls

What to do better
-Keep showing my interest, and bring conversations forward
-Approach with more intention, and make it more man to woman
-Speak louder, simply speak louder and also bring more emotions and expressions

Cheers
Alex

 

[SIL_Alex]

Hello there,

I've been taking more action in the last two weeks, and I did excuse myself to write reports and upload them because of excuses.

Nevertheless, I will definitely continue uploading reports, right now I just thought of starting uploading reports from my actions starting tomorrow again, because it is simply key doing that.

Not only that but, I will write and upload at least some notes of taking action of that period, when I skipped writing them, even though they will be somewhat incomplete.

Cheers
Alex

 

[SIL_Alex]

DG

Mindset
She wants to have this cool feelings, me to be a cool guy and see me again

Goals, Its important to practise the basics first
-stay in set, continue in set saying things until she leaves
-abc, best on high notes, however key is to abc
-push pulls, have the courage and simply do it

General notes
Met a wing. opened seven sets, all quite short, guess one factor is to improve is the confidence I had today.

What was good
-I approached various girls in a way they see I also approach others, sometimes I try to avoid that
-a bit of intention here and there

What to do better
Simply don't Say the word „somehow“ in front of SOIs its simply insecure
-Go in full hearted and go for it
-enjoy the path and everything with it more

Insights (if I can write max two)
-simply avoid the age question, especially in the beginning (I've been asking that if she looks too young). It kills the vibe if she is not too young. Better simply figure out what she is doing, if she is in school I also know.

Cheers
Alex

 

[SIL_Alex]

Dg

Mindset
I am a cool guy and she simply likes me
I enjoy simply talking and vibing

Goals
-stay in set, (continue in set saying things until she leaves)
-abc, best on high notes, however key is to abc
-push pulls, have the courage and simply do it

General Notes
Met wings. Noticing that I am kind of dependent on that which is not good.
Opened four girls, all quite short. We kind of agree that there are few sets, however it’s just an excuse.

What was good
-still going for those sets
-stronger stops

What to do better (Same as focus to do better as only few here)
-speak slower and louder
-open more

Cheers
Alex