LR- Snow Storm Fun

[gijas04]

Ok. I thought I would try this out. I need some texting advice.
l met this women on Blendr
recently. We are texting back and forth

l want to know how to take the conversation forward and
Here's the conversation below.

her: hi
me: hey. Love the hat! You look sexy in it.
her: thanks ur really cute yourself
me: l noticed your interests. Pretty diverse.
her: thanks. So what r u looking for on here?
me: you of course! What r u looking for?

Now the last line is where I believe I messed up. I wanted to be direct but I felt like I blew off the question entirely. I really didn't want to answer it. Is there a good way to answer these questions when your intension is to just get laid? And if she texts back how should I go forward? I want to meet her soon.

 

[gijas04]

Ok. I thought I would try this out. I need some texting advice.
l met this women on Blendr
recently. We are texting back and forth

l want to know how to take the conversation forward and
Here's the conversation below.

her: hi
me: hey. Love the hat! You look sexy in it.
her: thanks ur really cute yourself
me: l noticed your interests. Pretty diverse.
her: thanks. So what r u looking for on here?
me: you of course! What r u looking for?

Now the last line is where I believe I messed up. I wanted to be direct but I felt like I blew off the question entirely. I really didn't want to answer it. Is there a good way to answer these questions when your intension is to just get laid? And if she texts back how should I go forward? I want to meet her soon.

Up date:

She responded back (left off from last line in above conversation in quote)

me: you of course! What r u looking for?
her: well good I'm looking for u to
her: so if u ever want to talk let me no I only get on here for a few then back off so let me no

Correct me if I'm wrong but is this her saying to me that she's interested in meeting or just to chat only? Should I go ahead and ask her to meet me?

 

[Whizzy]

Why not mention you want to talk in person?

 

[gijas04]

I just did but blew the whole thing I think.

She was actually wanting to chat with me. But I was talking to another girl when she tried. Somehow she found out I was chatting with someone else? Not sure why this would happen? But here is what she said:

her: r u serious. let me know when your not talking with someone else or if it doesn't work out.

Basically, all I was doing was responding to a reply from another girl with a short line. Ah well. She may be back.

I did invite her to talk in person as you advised. I told her I was not on there often and was busy so that would be the best way to get to know each other. Now when she simmers down she might bite but I'm thinking she wont.

 

[Whizzy]

Sounds like she got jealous already, might be for the best then unless you really liked her

 

[stratvm]

Dave, thanks for letting the community know about tinder, I`ve just found a girl through this app who is probably the best ive been so far. it took quite a while until I figured out what the best strategy is (you need to delete your account every week e.g.!) but so far this has been the best tool I`ve used to get girls. she is really awesome and I wouldn't have met her ever though we work about 500m-s from each other.

can recommend this app to everyone but maybe it doesnt work that well in big western cities where people are rather superficial.

 

[Just_Dave]

Dave, thanks for letting the community know about tinder, I`ve just found a girl through this app who is probably the best ive been so far. it took quite a while until I figured out what the best strategy is (you need to delete your account every week e.g.!) but so far this has been the best tool I`ve used to get girls. she is really awesome and I wouldn't have met her ever though we work about 500m-s from each other.

can recommend this app to everyone but maybe it doesnt work that well in big western cities where people are rather superficial.

No problem stratvm, I'm glad to hear about your success with the app. I actually just got my first lay off Tinder last night, I was debating whether or not to write LR about it or just mention it here. If someone asks about it or would like to know the details about it I'll share.

 

[TheWiseFool]

Jenny: Thanks, it's snowing outside and I don't give a fuck
Me: Hmm...what'd you say?
Jenny: *repeats herself*
Me: Oh...thought you said something else
Jenny: Lol no! I'm not that type of girl
Me: What do you mean?
Jenny: I mean I love to fuck, but I try not to do that type of stuff anymore, unless I'm in a relationship
Me: I don't know, I like it when a girl feels comfortable enough with her body to not care what other people think of her.
Jenny: It's been awhile since I've gotten any
Me: How long?
Jenny: About three weeks I want to fuck a guy while I'm in a relationship . . .why are you asking me this?
Me: Cause you got some sexy ass lips
Jenny: Do you wanna kiss me

Dude.... you make it look so easy, my mind is blown away. Do you usually tell a girl what you like about her? And is it only when you're alone or in public too?

Congrats on the Lay and I hope you are doing well man!
- The Wise Fool

 

[Just_Dave]

Being Forward

Jenny: Thanks, it's snowing outside and I don't give a fuck
Me: Hmm...what'd you say?
Jenny: *repeats herself*
Me: Oh...thought you said something else
Jenny: Lol no! I'm not that type of girl
Me: What do you mean?
Jenny: I mean I love to fuck, but I try not to do that type of stuff anymore, unless I'm in a relationship
Me: I don't know, I like it when a girl feels comfortable enough with her body to not care what other people think of her.
Jenny: It's been awhile since I've gotten any
Me: How long?
Jenny: About three weeks I want to fuck a guy while I'm in a relationship . . .why are you asking me this?
Me: Cause you got some sexy ass lips
Jenny: Do you wanna kiss me

Dude.... you make it look so easy, my mind is blown away. Do you usually tell a girl what you like about her? And is it only when you're alone or in public too?

Congrats on the Lay and I hope you are doing well man!
- The Wise Fool

Last night when I got the lay on the first date, I keep telling the girl what attracted me to her. This is a different girl of course from this field report I'm about to talk about. So for example purposes. We were in the backseat of my car smoking out of a pipe. Just a chill first date getting to know each other, I may write a full LR of this. Cause it covers a lot of resistance, but here's a snippet of being forward.

Me: You look really pretty tonight *She had on a tight low cut shirt and studded leggings with high knee boots her name Lauryn*
Girl: Why thank you *We were smoking on a pipe, that was how we ended up on the date actually*
Me: The only problem is though you're not wearing that lipstick
Girl: Haha, which color the red or the pink one.
Me: The pink one, it's made your lips look so sexy
Girl: *She looked directly at me and passed me the bowl*
Me: I really like this red hair of yours, it looks amazing *I was grabbing her from behind her head at this point*
Girl: What else do you like about me? *Eyes still locked on each other*
Me: *I just pulled her in for a kiss, we were making out pretty heavy for a couple of minutes too*

I told her like I told Matt and Richard last night on Xbox live is that I'm very direct with girls. Either she's going to go for it or she's not. She's either going to sleep with me or she's not. She gets one opportunity, otherwise I'm gone on to the next one.

 

[TheWiseFool]

I just read it and it is only a few lines, but it's that quick and I am still trying to process how? I'm probably overthinking as usual. Anyways, this update on your LR couldn't have come at a better time cos I posted a question regarding something like this and you pretty much answered it with the details. So, with that said, I definitely recommend posting up your lay from last night, you never know who it could help

I do enjoy collecting information cos it just helps that gut feeling you get when you don't know what to do, and I also enjoy a good read. Haven't looked too much into Tinder, but from what I've read here it definitely makes things easier, but a drawback for some could be higher resistance since there is that stranger vibe running through the air all the way to the meet. Even then, if I were a girl, I'd be really cautious, so observing how you handle everything would be great for future reference.

I definitely like your directness because it screens for the girls that really want it, but have you found any girls yet that you would deem high quality/relationship worthy (great in looks and personality, etc)?

Reading over it one more time, I guess the moral of the story is it isn't about what happens in the moment, but what YOU do when it happens.

Great stuff, thanks Dave!

 

[Just_Dave]

I just read it and it is only a few lines, but it's that quick and I am still trying to process how? I'm probably overthinking as usual. Anyways, this update on your LR couldn't have come at a better time cos I posted a question regarding something like this and you pretty much answered it with the details. So, with that said, I definitely recommend posting up your lay from last night, you never know who it could help

I do enjoy collecting information cos it just helps that gut feeling you get when you don't know what to do, and I also enjoy a good read. Haven't looked too much into Tinder, but from what I've read here it definitely makes things easier, but a drawback for some could be higher resistance since there is that stranger vibe running through the air all the way to the meet. Even then, if I were a girl, I'd be really cautious, so observing how you handle everything would be great for future reference.

I definitely like your directness because it screens for the girls that really want it, but have you found any girls yet that you would deem high quality/relationship worthy (great in looks and personality, etc)?

Reading over it one more time, I guess the moral of the story is it isn't about what happens in the moment, but what YOU do when it happens.

Great stuff, thanks Dave!

Thanks Wisefool,

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