Social Media & Judgemental Loop-Hole

[Novacane]

For those who don't know I am in high school I was wondering what are the opinions regarding the use of social media, I can admit at times I am constantly checking twitter instagram fb etc, and at times may use it as a way to get in contact with women (Never really works) and started to think if I did not use social media as much and tweeted less surfed less and kept my online presence to a minimum it would up my intrigue due to people (women in general that follow me on these social media platforms) as no one will not what I am up to, so part one of my question is will cutting my social media presence to a minimum up my intrigue and benefit me as a PUA? If so what are some ways to cut back on social media when your so used to keeping up with the superficial moments shared online? The second part to my question is I picked up on this site one of the best ways to see success is to be open minded and non judgemental, but me being a black male I already have some negative annotations attached to me based off skin color (Not trying to pull the race card) so how do you keep a clear non judgemental mind when the one you may be opening or speaking to is already pre-judging you in a bad way? Any help on both topics would be greatly appreciated thank you! ~ Novacane

 

[Light]

so part one of my question is will cutting my social media presence to a minimum up my intrigue and benefit me as a PUA?

- No. Practicing your real stuff does. Spending more time going out and physically picking up girls does.
Social media is just another tool (like getting a number and start texting) to get in contact with people.
Believe it or not, but I met my last gf over facebook, we hit things off. But that was thanks to the pick up skills which I already had.
Social media is neither good or bad, just remember, its nothing more than an extra tool for you.

The second part to my question is I picked up on this site one of the best ways to see success is to be open minded and non judgemental, but me being a black male I already have some negative annotations attached to me based off skin color (Not trying to pull the race card) so how do you keep a clear non judgemental mind when the one you may be opening or speaking to is already pre-judging you in a bad way?

- This is only true if you choose to believe so. Sure, some people will forever be judemental, but that is their problem, and you know what? They will most likely always be, and they won't just be judemental with only you, but with others also. In all honesty, these are the kind of people you wouldn't want to have anything to do with anyway!

What is true however, is that people you first meet will always have a "First Impression" of you. So as long as you give a great first impression (be a cool, friendly, and sexy person), then you won't be giving them a chance to judge you in the first place.

The world is nothing but a reflection of yourself. How you treat others, is exactly how others will treat you (in due time of course). So as long as you keep a healthy mind of your own, you will only attract the right people in your life. Discard those who are not.

 

[Novacane]

@Light Thank you for the reply so to sum it all up social media is an okay tool just as long as it is not the ONLY tool being used correct? Also with the second question is if I believe there are people pre-judging based on other factors not pertaining to my skill level I should just give anyone I meet the benefit of the doubt and if they prove me wrong drop them and continue on with finding people who are not judgemental? Just seeing if I got the basics of your reply! Thanks again much appreciated!

 

[Light]

@Light Thank you for the reply so to sum it all up social media is an okay tool just as long as it is not the ONLY tool being used correct?

- Correct. Working on your fundamentals is the most important thing. I can give you a sword, but if you don't know how to fight with your fist, I will still take you down bare handed. Its the same philosophy.

Also with the second question is if I believe there are people pre-judging based on other factors not pertaining to my skill level I should just give anyone I meet the benefit of the doubt and if they prove me wrong drop them and continue on with finding people who are not judgemental? Just seeing if I got the basics of your reply! Thanks again much appreciated!

- You got it my friend. Thats exactly it.

Now go meet some awesome people and have some awesome sex!