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Apologies if there is a more appropriate forum for this to go into, but I figured it will get more views here
The weather is mild here in London and I was seriously mulling over going out to nightgame last night, however, the last train back was 0102 so I would have stayed in the club until about 0050 and also been a bit paranoid about missing the train, taking away from my focus. Often times the club doesn't start filling up until atleast 0000.
Combined that with the £5 entry fee and a £10 return train ticket, that's £15 just to have music blasted in my ears (even with earplugs) and drunk young people be annoying. I may sound like a cheap skate, but it's not the money, it's the question of if I get anything worthwhile for it.
However, the rewards are great, in terms of volume of girls. I was out for hours yesterday for daygame and didn't see any sets I really wanted to approach.
On the other hand, I know that the club is filled with hot girls, somewhat dependant on how late you stay and how busy that particular night is.
I think part of the problem is that I don't know what to do in nightgame.
What is a set? Girls on their own? A lot of the hottest girls come in groups with their young boisterous male friends who may challenge me on being older than them if I approach, so I tend to be weary.
Normally I would approach groups of girls on their own but even then I don't really know what to do. I have never been hands on with a girl. You are meant to, but aside from "approaching" them by putting my arm around their shoulders on the dancefloor, I don't know what to do after that. They can't hear a word I say so a lot of it is non verbal physical stuff which I don't have practice with.
In the last couple of years, I pushed myself to go to nightgame even when it was cold and wet. Yet last night when it was mild and I would have only had to stay 1/2 the night, I still bottled it.
It seems like I have a huge amount of built in resistance to going to the club. Anything for the excuse not to go, it seems! I also don't drink alcohol and don't dance, so there is very little for me to do in the club other than blend into the background when I am not approaching, which could be a demonstration of lower value.
I have strategies but they are not much help. I like a good night's sleep and nightgame is very disruptive to that, even if ai stay 1/2 the night.
I am going to daygame coaching next weekend, but the weekend after, I plan to go out for solo nightgame 4 weekends in a row.
I am not sure if I will manage that or not, maybe I will blog it here. In the meantime, any tips or advice that I haven't thought of, would be very helpful. Thanks!
The weather is mild here in London and I was seriously mulling over going out to nightgame last night, however, the last train back was 0102 so I would have stayed in the club until about 0050 and also been a bit paranoid about missing the train, taking away from my focus. Often times the club doesn't start filling up until atleast 0000.
Combined that with the £5 entry fee and a £10 return train ticket, that's £15 just to have music blasted in my ears (even with earplugs) and drunk young people be annoying. I may sound like a cheap skate, but it's not the money, it's the question of if I get anything worthwhile for it.
However, the rewards are great, in terms of volume of girls. I was out for hours yesterday for daygame and didn't see any sets I really wanted to approach.
On the other hand, I know that the club is filled with hot girls, somewhat dependant on how late you stay and how busy that particular night is.
I think part of the problem is that I don't know what to do in nightgame.
What is a set? Girls on their own? A lot of the hottest girls come in groups with their young boisterous male friends who may challenge me on being older than them if I approach, so I tend to be weary.
Normally I would approach groups of girls on their own but even then I don't really know what to do. I have never been hands on with a girl. You are meant to, but aside from "approaching" them by putting my arm around their shoulders on the dancefloor, I don't know what to do after that. They can't hear a word I say so a lot of it is non verbal physical stuff which I don't have practice with.
In the last couple of years, I pushed myself to go to nightgame even when it was cold and wet. Yet last night when it was mild and I would have only had to stay 1/2 the night, I still bottled it.
It seems like I have a huge amount of built in resistance to going to the club. Anything for the excuse not to go, it seems! I also don't drink alcohol and don't dance, so there is very little for me to do in the club other than blend into the background when I am not approaching, which could be a demonstration of lower value.
I have strategies but they are not much help. I like a good night's sleep and nightgame is very disruptive to that, even if ai stay 1/2 the night.
I am going to daygame coaching next weekend, but the weekend after, I plan to go out for solo nightgame 4 weekends in a row.
I am not sure if I will manage that or not, maybe I will blog it here. In the meantime, any tips or advice that I haven't thought of, would be very helpful. Thanks!
