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So had a failed escalation a few days ago, where I brought a girl home and didn't escalate in a strong enough way for her. Basically being a pussy. She ended up leaving disappointed. Talked with Hector today and he told me basically she was 100% down and had come to fuck but I'd lost her in the last 5%.
I was fully ready to just go to sleep after the call, but a part of me was itching for going out-so I told Hector that I was considering staying in because it was cold and wet-and he said to stop being a pussy.
He also gave me the assignment of telling one girl I wanted to bring her home.
So I'm nervous as shit. Dressed in pretty much all black with some silver bling. I call on the boys @Skippy and @Devilicious to join me for moral support. They're real ones so they come through even though they have shit going on.
We go to a bar and dev as usual is turning on his charm while we eventually join the set. At the next bar I open a few girls just trying to build some momentum. None of them I feel brave enough to ask them home.
We decide to leave and I decide that I'm feeling ready. I don't know who or when, but I'm going to complete the mission Hector gave me.
We're walking down the street, and I see a fashionable looking girl rolling a joint leaning against a railing outside a bar. I just ask her if she's rolling a joint. After a few lines, I just straight tell her, eyes piercing hers, that I want to take her home. She kind of laughs but also appears aroused. I continue chatting but my vibe just changes to stone cold stud, and she starts qualifying hard to me, and I kind of treat her like a sexual object I know is going to work out. I try going for the make out but she rebuffs it which I laugh off (though I also add on that maybe I just misread the vibe between us).
We get moved from the spot by a bouncer, and I sit while she stands. She then out of the blue asks where I live and how far away it is. I tell her I'm getting cold and that I'm going to call and uber home, and ask her to join. She declines saying she wants to dance. I tell her okay but we can grab a drink later in the week.
Around 2AM I get a text saying "hey"
From there I assume a booty call and get her to come to mine. Only interesting thing is I tell her at some point that she can relax and I can make her a drink-and she asks me to be honest, so I tell her I want us to fuck the shit out of her. She comes over.
No LMR-it's on very fast, and we fuck all night.
Main lesson-I'm sexy as fuck. I just haven't internalized all I'm capable of. So thank you Hector for making me go sexual direct and change the paradigm. This was my first lay that took place in this short of time. 10 minutes top of conversation, followed by an eventual booty call. Insane.
I fucked a different girl earlier in the week and had a different girl basically seduce herself to my place.
Life is changing fast-and I'm all here for it, because I deserve it for the work that's been put in to change myself into a person worthy of this.
My radar for sexually available girls also seems to be improving so that's fucking awesome.
I was fully ready to just go to sleep after the call, but a part of me was itching for going out-so I told Hector that I was considering staying in because it was cold and wet-and he said to stop being a pussy.
He also gave me the assignment of telling one girl I wanted to bring her home.
So I'm nervous as shit. Dressed in pretty much all black with some silver bling. I call on the boys @Skippy and @Devilicious to join me for moral support. They're real ones so they come through even though they have shit going on.
We go to a bar and dev as usual is turning on his charm while we eventually join the set. At the next bar I open a few girls just trying to build some momentum. None of them I feel brave enough to ask them home.
We decide to leave and I decide that I'm feeling ready. I don't know who or when, but I'm going to complete the mission Hector gave me.
We're walking down the street, and I see a fashionable looking girl rolling a joint leaning against a railing outside a bar. I just ask her if she's rolling a joint. After a few lines, I just straight tell her, eyes piercing hers, that I want to take her home. She kind of laughs but also appears aroused. I continue chatting but my vibe just changes to stone cold stud, and she starts qualifying hard to me, and I kind of treat her like a sexual object I know is going to work out. I try going for the make out but she rebuffs it which I laugh off (though I also add on that maybe I just misread the vibe between us).
We get moved from the spot by a bouncer, and I sit while she stands. She then out of the blue asks where I live and how far away it is. I tell her I'm getting cold and that I'm going to call and uber home, and ask her to join. She declines saying she wants to dance. I tell her okay but we can grab a drink later in the week.
Around 2AM I get a text saying "hey"
From there I assume a booty call and get her to come to mine. Only interesting thing is I tell her at some point that she can relax and I can make her a drink-and she asks me to be honest, so I tell her I want us to fuck the shit out of her. She comes over.
No LMR-it's on very fast, and we fuck all night.
Main lesson-I'm sexy as fuck. I just haven't internalized all I'm capable of. So thank you Hector for making me go sexual direct and change the paradigm. This was my first lay that took place in this short of time. 10 minutes top of conversation, followed by an eventual booty call. Insane.
I fucked a different girl earlier in the week and had a different girl basically seduce herself to my place.
Life is changing fast-and I'm all here for it, because I deserve it for the work that's been put in to change myself into a person worthy of this.
My radar for sexually available girls also seems to be improving so that's fucking awesome.
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