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sunday night game
ok so, saturday night i went to a rave without the intention of picking up females and made 3 female friends.
sunday night i went out to the bars and my goodness there were so many 9s and 10s last night i felt intimidated.
so i noticed 3-4 dudes flirting with women in a bar, but only one of them stands out, he doesn't really say much but i can tell he believes he's the shit and his woman is all over him and is far more responsive than the other women to those other dudes. I wanted to talk him but got nervous and didn't.
I noticed a 2 set of black girls and they are filming me so I flip off the camera she tells me to come over here. She's all into me giving me the flirty eyes it's a vibe I be touching her back trying to put kino escalation to work. Not sure how kino escalation works tho. We are sitting down at the bar, and I order some whiskey. We flirt a little but she turns to her friend and gets engaged with convo so I'm unsure how to keep the attention. My conversation skills be dry as fuck bro. Her boo starts texting her and I be teasing her about her boo and before I leave I ask her for her number, and she says she's attracted to me but that she can't because she has a crazy stalker boyfriend.
At the next bar there was a big group of 9s and 10s but I didn't approach cuz I was nervous, I approached a 9 who was by herself tho, stuck my tongue out at her and told her she stole my spot lol, she got uncomfortable and left.
Then I go to a different bar, and this cute blonde girl with blue eyes keeps making eye contact with me and she comes right up to me and hugs me and I lift her up in the air when she hugs me. I can tell she's really attracted to me I'm probably just her type, a white Hispanic with face tats. But we get to talking and again my problem is my conversational skills be dry as fuck I can't think of anything to say beyond what do you do and where are you from. Anyway she tells me she goes to church and turns out she goes to the same church I used to go to, I ask her for her number and she says she doesn't give that out so I left.
So the problem here, is in both of these interactions, with the black girl, and the blonde girl. I could sense heavy interest from both of them and heavy eye contact. But I couldn't think of anything to say my conversation skills are super dry. How do I be better at conversation and get her attraction to continue building? I could just feel these girl's attraction to me slowly waning the more we talked cuz I didn't know how to keep the spark going.
Another thing, this is more theoretical. I've been watching RSD blueprint decoded and he's basically like be confident and be your self bro, and I've also been reading swinggcat's real world seduction 2 book which has a similar focus on inner game but is more geared towards manipulation and using lines and routines. So I guess as a newbie, which should i focus on? The natural game stuff from Tyler? Or more routine and push pull stuff from swinggcat? it's pretty confusing for me to know who to listen to.
edit. another more specific question, i asked the black girl what race she is most attracted to, and she said anything with a third leg lol. what would be a good witty response to that.
ok so, saturday night i went to a rave without the intention of picking up females and made 3 female friends.
sunday night i went out to the bars and my goodness there were so many 9s and 10s last night i felt intimidated.
so i noticed 3-4 dudes flirting with women in a bar, but only one of them stands out, he doesn't really say much but i can tell he believes he's the shit and his woman is all over him and is far more responsive than the other women to those other dudes. I wanted to talk him but got nervous and didn't.
I noticed a 2 set of black girls and they are filming me so I flip off the camera she tells me to come over here. She's all into me giving me the flirty eyes it's a vibe I be touching her back trying to put kino escalation to work. Not sure how kino escalation works tho. We are sitting down at the bar, and I order some whiskey. We flirt a little but she turns to her friend and gets engaged with convo so I'm unsure how to keep the attention. My conversation skills be dry as fuck bro. Her boo starts texting her and I be teasing her about her boo and before I leave I ask her for her number, and she says she's attracted to me but that she can't because she has a crazy stalker boyfriend.
At the next bar there was a big group of 9s and 10s but I didn't approach cuz I was nervous, I approached a 9 who was by herself tho, stuck my tongue out at her and told her she stole my spot lol, she got uncomfortable and left.
Then I go to a different bar, and this cute blonde girl with blue eyes keeps making eye contact with me and she comes right up to me and hugs me and I lift her up in the air when she hugs me. I can tell she's really attracted to me I'm probably just her type, a white Hispanic with face tats. But we get to talking and again my problem is my conversational skills be dry as fuck I can't think of anything to say beyond what do you do and where are you from. Anyway she tells me she goes to church and turns out she goes to the same church I used to go to, I ask her for her number and she says she doesn't give that out so I left.
So the problem here, is in both of these interactions, with the black girl, and the blonde girl. I could sense heavy interest from both of them and heavy eye contact. But I couldn't think of anything to say my conversation skills are super dry. How do I be better at conversation and get her attraction to continue building? I could just feel these girl's attraction to me slowly waning the more we talked cuz I didn't know how to keep the spark going.
Another thing, this is more theoretical. I've been watching RSD blueprint decoded and he's basically like be confident and be your self bro, and I've also been reading swinggcat's real world seduction 2 book which has a similar focus on inner game but is more geared towards manipulation and using lines and routines. So I guess as a newbie, which should i focus on? The natural game stuff from Tyler? Or more routine and push pull stuff from swinggcat? it's pretty confusing for me to know who to listen to.
edit. another more specific question, i asked the black girl what race she is most attracted to, and she said anything with a third leg lol. what would be a good witty response to that.
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