Swimming classes teacher pickup

[brunomcf]

Hey guys!

As I moving from a "no go" girl I fell in loved with, I'm pretty much atacking everything that moves (not faties...hehe)
So, I'm taking begginers swimming classes, the teacher is around 24-28, haven't found out yet. And has a nie body (except for little boobs). Given the fact that when she's trying to explain stuff to me has allways to touch me in a kind of sexy way, I decide just this morning to make a move.
Here's how it hapenned:

-At the end of the class asked her where I could buy some equipment, and asked if she could give me some private lessons so I improved faster.
She started saying "I really have no time, and it's against the pool's regulation to do that." I was thinking so just saw my true intentions and had no interest on moving foward with that.
But then she said "Why don't u take my number, and one of these days I'll show some swimming pools where they have personal trainers".
So, I've just texted her saying I'm around the area by the end of afternoon/night, in order to make it easy to go for a drink after she shows me the pool.

As I was kind of a "nice guy" all my life, just started chasing girls like crazy in a while, I'll prolly make lots of begginers mistakes, even though I'm already old enough not to do so. But, let's see how it works.

Thanks for your help

 

[Light]

Practice makes perfect!

You are already ahead of those guys who are too scared to approach girls and let their pride get in the way!

Keep up the good work brother!

 

[brunomcf]

Hey Guys!

So, yesterday so replied my message saying we should get together in order to show me the pool she's talking about.
I'm not sure at this point if wether she actually thinks I?m doing this because I really need a presonal trainer, or if she actually knows I'm trying to pick her up, and she's just playiing along with the swimming thing.

My schedule is really busy today, but as I am going to have dance classes, and their open to new members maybe I'll invite her to go laong with me.
Having that much contact on the first date is a huge step foward, right? Or am I rushing things?

Thanks

 

[Light]

Hey Guys!

So, yesterday so replied my message saying we should get together in order to show me the pool she's talking about.
I'm not sure at this point if wether she actually thinks I?m doing this because I really need a presonal trainer, or if she actually knows I'm trying to pick her up, and she's just playiing along with the swimming thing.

My schedule is really busy today, but as I am going to have dance classes, and their open to new members maybe I'll invite her to go laong with me.
Having that much contact on the first date is a huge step foward, right? Or am I rushing things?

Thanks

Its fine. Theres no such thing as rushing things when it comes to pick ups. Just don't appear to be desperate.
If you're busy, then be busy. Girls will know you're busy and appreciate your time. You don't even need to tell them why you're busy.

On a side note, don't assume anything what she thinks. All you need to do is get a chance to talk to her, and do some deep diving.

 

[Jarradical]

do some deep diving.

pun intended I assume...

 

[Penguin]

Hey, I've been looking forward to hearing more about this .

It's a obviously a good sign that she suggested that you meet outside of lessons and gave you her number- She could have just told you where to find private lessons instead. For this reason, I'm fairly sure that the pool stuff is an excuse for you two to get together, in her mind.

Remember not to overcomplicate things this time. You want a simple date e.g. drinks with good logistics so you can get her to your place easily. No fancy dinners (because you're a lover not a provider) and no high-energy activities which she may not feel like doing on the day e.g. dance class. Get both of you alone, fast.

Hope it continues to go well .

 

[brunomcf]

Thanks for ur replies!

She texted she could show me the pool in the morning, as she has no time later.
Meeting her at night would be better, but I don't think pools run that late here. And bars start opening really late.

Like u said Penguin, she wouldn't meet me if she was not interested. So, I believe taking me to the pool will be some sort of aproach to go out later. She's prolly expecting my invitation. I can hang on until the last minute, to see if she takes the first move though...

Could u guys have ur said on my other lame topic about a girl I actually love? Hehe

Thanks

 

[Franco]

I just glanced through this one really quick, brunomcf.

Maybe you actually did, but I just want to make sure that you know that you should state your interest directly in this girl if you have the intentions of dating and/or sleeping with her. I didn't read anything above that showed me that you let her know that you were interested in her, and it could be quite possible that she actually thinks this meeting is to find a personal trainer.

As of right now, it seems like you're trying to "disguise" your interest in her by getting her alone somewhere without directly insinuating why you want to get her alone. If she's comfortable enough with you, then it's possible that this could work. But I would be careful about disguising your intentions too much as it can have bad repercussions if you happened to misread her signals and she views the interaction as friendly.

Just a quick word of advice!

- Franco

 

[brunomcf]

Thanks Franco. I see ur point.
Maybe she'll just show me the pool whenever she has the time, and then I'll invite her for a drink. So this way she knows I'm interested on her.
Texted her last night, to let me know when she's available. Gonna wait 2 days, in case of no answer I'll contact her again.

 

[Altimeter]

any news on the teach?

 

[brunomcf]

Hey!

So, prolly on tuesday morning she'll show me the pool.
I'll invite her for a drink later on the last minute, because I want to see what's her game indeed.
Anyway, I have swimming classes tomorrow morning and I'll be with her.

 

[Altimeter]

Awesome tap that shit

 

[brunomcf]

Ok guys!
So, I've went to the pool with her, and she shown me the place. Very thaughtull of her.
I was waiting on the perfect moment to ask her out, and has we chated along, she ended up telling me she also does gym and dance classes.
As I' am starting latin dance classes (Yes, I've joined this to hook up easilly, got one down so far), I asked if she was into Latin Dances, and she started saying she didn't taught groups, only individual classes.

So, by saying that she was either asking me for a dance, or just wanted to get some extra money with another activity. Either way, I kinda took that as a No, and said "well, ok....". btw, she also started saying most girls problems on dance classes, was after it finding no men to go out and dance with. I should I read this, is there an undelying message?

She ain't that cute, but her body is shaped very nicelly as you can probably tell from all that physical activity she has. I'm sure she can do an awesome performance in bed.
I'm thinking about texting her to go out one of this days. "Hey, how about going for a dance with me at the club tonight?" hehe

Regards,
Bruno