Texting long distance

[KingTurtle]

In general I subscribe to Chase’s method of only texting to set up a meet and keeping it short. But over christmas when I was visiting my home town (I now live 1000+ miles away) and hung out with a girl from there a few times. Didn’t seal the deal (period) but did get a BJ. I’ll be back in town in a 6 weeks and am planning on hanging out with her again when I get back.

In this situation would you stay in contact? And if so how? Might just have text conversations with her every few days and make sure I end it before it gets too long. Alternatively I could add her on snap and not text much and snapchat her every now and then. The girl is 23 I’m 28 for some context.

I’m close with one of my cousins who is also a 23 year old girl and she said at her age she is pretty much always texting the guys she’s involved with. However I think this may be a case of a girl not really knowing what she wants.

Any thought are appreciated
KT

 

[BigPapa]

Yeah , I do not know what to say amigo because is a tough call

I guess you like her enough to want to stay in touch with her , but in the same time being 1k miles away one from each other for sure you can not expand this back and forth into a relationship of any kind .

If I were you I would add her on Instagram or Facebook , like her posts from time to time , and just start texting her like 1 week before you go home . A couple of texts per day . Then 1-2 days before just tell her that you are coming home and would like to see her .

then rinse and repeat

 

[KingTurtle]

Yeah , I do not know what to say amigo because is a tough call

I guess you like her enough to want to stay in touch with her , but in the same time being 1k miles away one from each other for sure you can not expand this back and forth into a relationship of any kind .

If I were you I would add her on Instagram or Facebook , like her posts from time to time , and just start texting her like 1 week before you go home . A couple of texts per day . Then 1-2 days before just tell her that you are coming home and would like to see her .

then rinse and repeat

Agreed it’s a tough one. She’s a total babe though so it’s worth the effort if I can just hit it once lol.

I think I’m gonna go with the social media and Snapchat strategy and see how it plays out.

 

[Fuck This]

6 weeks is doable. Did you make plans to meet up when you parted ways? I think Social media is a good avenue if you post sparingly. You don't want her to learn everything about you in one big snooping session.

Speaking from experience, I had that scenario in a 5 week stretch before I saw a woman again. I purposely did not give her my SM info but I know she was creeping my public viewable stuff. We managed to meet up for 19 hours when she travelled through my area. I did speak to her multiple times per week.

Basically build comfort but keep some intrigue. Have your Logistics on lock. know exactly where you are going to sleep with her and have it available the whole time you are there. Be sexual and infer sex is going to happen. BE physically effusive when you meet her. Spend 2 or 3 hours sharing an experience and connecting then go to your pull location and let the passion take over.

 

[KingTurtle]

6 weeks is doable. Did you make plans to meet up when you parted ways? I think Social media is a good avenue if you post sparingly. You don't want her to learn everything about you in one big snooping session.

Speaking from experience, I had that scenario in a 5 week stretch before I saw a woman again. I purposely did not give her my SM info but I know she was creeping my public viewable stuff. We managed to meet up for 19 hours when she travelled through my area. I did speak to her multiple times per week.

Basically build comfort but keep some intrigue. Have your Logistics on lock. know exactly where you are going to sleep with her and have it available the whole time you are there. Be sexual and infer sex is going to happen. BE physically effusive when you meet her. Spend 2 or 3 hours sharing an experience and connecting then go to your pull location and let the passion take over.

Did you just text her multiple times per week? I guessing maybe a just 2-3 days a week and end the conversation before it goes on too long?

And yes we do have plans to hang out when I go back. Basically just want to keep in touch enough so she won’t flake.

 

[Fuck This]

yeah multiple times. We had a standard check in time that worked for us.