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Was out today. Told myself after I skipped a set to turn around and stop accepting the bitch in me. Then I did another. Here's a glimpse rather than the full transcripts.
Quick Grade Of Daygame Sets Today.
Grade: D. Lack of sexual vibe, wooden expression, obvious rookie mistakes, hesitation,
1st set
1. Good - Projection good, Persistence after she didn’t acknowledge the first opener, relevant close to something she liked, eye contact.
2. Mid- projection, timing sometimes, proximity, situational opener into opinion, rapport.
3. Bad - kino, sexual vibe, social friend frame, timing sometimes, speaking pace (got better but was wild for a bit.)
4. Contact - She wrote only her first name. My followup was a callback to the interaction "Hi HB, it’s that hat guy Mist" no emoji. I left soon after grabbing her number which isn't great but can work out :/
5. Interesting - She did stick around whole time and give her number was at a highpoint though (Usual behavior even from taken chicks. Highpoint is great for compliance), her hesitation at the close, seeming at the fence but open to coffee as friends (polite rejection or resistance? probably polite rejection. sweet girl), my response to her friend frame (needs work. Probably should lean into comfort gambit show more understanding and get buy in), her general demeanor and eye contact (maybe intimidation or disinterest. She identified as both extroverted and introverted. Cold approach is weird though...not sure)
Overall - Not a good set. Didn't feel horrible though. Was pretty chill actually. Is that a good thing? Maybe not tension can be fire, but fire burns sometimes...relevant close was nice though. Uriel helped with that. Big attraction boost and spike when I opened her again after the first opener was ignored. She seemed dumfounded, intrigued, a little spark. Probably why she stuck in set. Idk despite the rust I feel attractive, like women like me sometimes, and that I'm a bit entitled tbh. So despite her not catching or ignoring the first opener I felt completely confident in doing it again and even pointing the opener at her specifically.
2nd set
1. Good - Situational opener, callback humor, social frame, social touch, proximity, eye contact, timing sometimes, topics were managed well, rapport.
2. Mid - sexual vibe, tone, speaking pace, answering her basic social questions ( more intrigue, passion, gambits should be stuck in maybe.)
3. Bad - Missing an instant date window “I have nothing to do today.”, hesitating at the date window, overextension on the touch imo (needs less effort. She was fine with it but I noticed it. Not good for escalation.)
4. Contact - She gave it at the highpoint. Full name in phone. I stuck around after the close which definitely helped the set.
5. Interesting - Assumed rapport, moving in harmony and stopping together almost as if we were together, full name in phone, opening up despite her closed off appearance at the start, giving her room for "chump game" as Gunwitch advises. My follow up "Hi it’s Mist. y’know, you’re really smart to have dropped social media for your mental health even if for a little while nice to have met you" callback to topic we spoke about, but not so good due to forgetting to add her name in the text. Tsk tsk.
Overall - Enjoyable set. She seemed into it and I think the intrigue with the number helps me a bit which is another thing Uriel helped me with.
Big Picture
- Surprised I got comfortable in set after no warmup and rust.
- These are only two chicks
- Sexual vibe is lacking bruh
- Don't skip instant dates if you have the time. I'm capable of high points.
- Nice persistence. Despite potential early blow out. (Chick looked like a dear in headlights haha)
- Fix your pacing.
- Breathe in deeper
- Less hesitation on the open.
- Got cold feet and didn't approach one chick. Giving you 2/3 girls met while out. Not good, but hey still a majority of the chicks that caught my eye I approached. Pity high five for that.
- Good turning around after you were about to bitch out. Now you'll know with certainty how 2/3 women you met today will turn out...atleast with your current game.
Testing/Pointer
1. Lofty taught me this, but if you're going for a contact close ask the girl "Are you more of a social media chick or number chick." Gives you intel on her personality, potential misdirecting thread while she puts her info in your phone, preventing you from grabbing a dead contact simply because she doesn't use that medium. Good shit and I'm going to use it forever.
Thank you for your time guys. And good luck out there
(Oh and shoutout madala. Made me speed up sending my icebreakers. Good shit.)
- Mist
Quick Grade Of Daygame Sets Today.
Grade: D. Lack of sexual vibe, wooden expression, obvious rookie mistakes, hesitation,
1st set
1. Good - Projection good, Persistence after she didn’t acknowledge the first opener, relevant close to something she liked, eye contact.
2. Mid- projection, timing sometimes, proximity, situational opener into opinion, rapport.
3. Bad - kino, sexual vibe, social friend frame, timing sometimes, speaking pace (got better but was wild for a bit.)
4. Contact - She wrote only her first name. My followup was a callback to the interaction "Hi HB, it’s that hat guy Mist" no emoji. I left soon after grabbing her number which isn't great but can work out :/
5. Interesting - She did stick around whole time and give her number was at a highpoint though (Usual behavior even from taken chicks. Highpoint is great for compliance), her hesitation at the close, seeming at the fence but open to coffee as friends (polite rejection or resistance? probably polite rejection. sweet girl), my response to her friend frame (needs work. Probably should lean into comfort gambit show more understanding and get buy in), her general demeanor and eye contact (maybe intimidation or disinterest. She identified as both extroverted and introverted. Cold approach is weird though...not sure)
Overall - Not a good set. Didn't feel horrible though. Was pretty chill actually. Is that a good thing? Maybe not tension can be fire, but fire burns sometimes...relevant close was nice though. Uriel helped with that. Big attraction boost and spike when I opened her again after the first opener was ignored. She seemed dumfounded, intrigued, a little spark. Probably why she stuck in set. Idk despite the rust I feel attractive, like women like me sometimes, and that I'm a bit entitled tbh. So despite her not catching or ignoring the first opener I felt completely confident in doing it again and even pointing the opener at her specifically.
2nd set
1. Good - Situational opener, callback humor, social frame, social touch, proximity, eye contact, timing sometimes, topics were managed well, rapport.
2. Mid - sexual vibe, tone, speaking pace, answering her basic social questions ( more intrigue, passion, gambits should be stuck in maybe.)
3. Bad - Missing an instant date window “I have nothing to do today.”, hesitating at the date window, overextension on the touch imo (needs less effort. She was fine with it but I noticed it. Not good for escalation.)
4. Contact - She gave it at the highpoint. Full name in phone. I stuck around after the close which definitely helped the set.
5. Interesting - Assumed rapport, moving in harmony and stopping together almost as if we were together, full name in phone, opening up despite her closed off appearance at the start, giving her room for "chump game" as Gunwitch advises. My follow up "Hi it’s Mist. y’know, you’re really smart to have dropped social media for your mental health even if for a little while nice to have met you" callback to topic we spoke about, but not so good due to forgetting to add her name in the text. Tsk tsk.
Overall - Enjoyable set. She seemed into it and I think the intrigue with the number helps me a bit which is another thing Uriel helped me with.
Big Picture
- Surprised I got comfortable in set after no warmup and rust.
- These are only two chicks
- Sexual vibe is lacking bruh
- Don't skip instant dates if you have the time. I'm capable of high points.
- Nice persistence. Despite potential early blow out. (Chick looked like a dear in headlights haha)
- Fix your pacing.
- Breathe in deeper
- Less hesitation on the open.
- Got cold feet and didn't approach one chick. Giving you 2/3 girls met while out. Not good, but hey still a majority of the chicks that caught my eye I approached. Pity high five for that.
- Good turning around after you were about to bitch out. Now you'll know with certainty how 2/3 women you met today will turn out...atleast with your current game.
Testing/Pointer
1. Lofty taught me this, but if you're going for a contact close ask the girl "Are you more of a social media chick or number chick." Gives you intel on her personality, potential misdirecting thread while she puts her info in your phone, preventing you from grabbing a dead contact simply because she doesn't use that medium. Good shit and I'm going to use it forever.
Calls & Texts - Best way to get a phone number and Ice breaker first texts....
Ok guys, so i have been helping a lot of the guys, by me doing so i get to see what they do wrong and if the things that work for me consistently work for them, so after enough sampling I see were the problem are and how to improve odds which is the name of the game.... So most normal dudes...
www.skilledseducer.com
Thank you for your time guys. And good luck out there
(Oh and shoutout madala. Made me speed up sending my icebreakers. Good shit.)
- Mist
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