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Moving fast is the way to unlock your desires in this world.
I was never that man, on the false belief that one day life will work well for me, and others more successful with women and things in general were born lucky. I am after all, young and still foolish. However, contrary to popular belief, the man who waits is left with little.
Over the course of my life I have been conditioned to act putting others first, while secretly hoping that good karma will bring me something good for myself to enjoy. In many ways it has, I've got a great family and friends. With a lack of drama present in many teenagers lives as of now. It's been a good, safe ride - but I've always wanted more on the thrill side. I don't want to live a life full of dramas, often fighting and going no where in life. I want one where I am very much in control, possibly why computers, video games and the electronic mediums persist to stand so closely to my heart. I've conditioned myself too, listening to advice of the great people that I meet.
Until a few months ago, I too was going no where that I could control but not from high dosages of drama, rather my fear of creating them. It was until I woke up, and somehow lit a fire within to improve myself. I set out, with the internet, close friends and other new found idols to help pave the way towards creating a better me. One in which I didn't condition myself wrongly. I learnt how to deal with things, live a better life and most importantly try new things - all without the conditioning of the idea that I must wait, wait and wait some more before it was my turn - that only made everyone involved waste time and emotions.
Tonight I received a major set back to what I wanted. The only reason being: I failed to act fast enough. I waited longer than was needed with a girl who I had made very much into me through various deep diving techniques and a genuine interest towards. I'll skip the details here but life got in the way. She had to move away earlier than we both expected. Thankfully, there is a chance that I'll see this woman again in a few weeks, although a very slim one indeed. This is one big kick in the gut, one that has made me realize more than anything that waiting longer than needed for anything will only bring bad - and that's something I can live without.
I wanted to post this, monstrosity of a post to create that same fire within, but this time within you. There is no excuses for waiting. Improve yourself all the time, improve your lifestyle and the people around you. Never settle for less. Approach Anxiety? Waiting isn't going to fix that friend - don't listen to your gut and wait 'until the time is right' go and seduce that beautiful girl, and then some more and give them the time of their lives. They expect nothing less and you have the power to do so. Still anxious about your first time doing something? Well get it over and done with so you can find a process that works. Be thankful when you achieve second chances, not because life gives you them but because you went out and ripped them from the world and took them for yourself.
I was never that man, on the false belief that one day life will work well for me, and others more successful with women and things in general were born lucky. I am after all, young and still foolish. However, contrary to popular belief, the man who waits is left with little.
Over the course of my life I have been conditioned to act putting others first, while secretly hoping that good karma will bring me something good for myself to enjoy. In many ways it has, I've got a great family and friends. With a lack of drama present in many teenagers lives as of now. It's been a good, safe ride - but I've always wanted more on the thrill side. I don't want to live a life full of dramas, often fighting and going no where in life. I want one where I am very much in control, possibly why computers, video games and the electronic mediums persist to stand so closely to my heart. I've conditioned myself too, listening to advice of the great people that I meet.
Until a few months ago, I too was going no where that I could control but not from high dosages of drama, rather my fear of creating them. It was until I woke up, and somehow lit a fire within to improve myself. I set out, with the internet, close friends and other new found idols to help pave the way towards creating a better me. One in which I didn't condition myself wrongly. I learnt how to deal with things, live a better life and most importantly try new things - all without the conditioning of the idea that I must wait, wait and wait some more before it was my turn - that only made everyone involved waste time and emotions.
Tonight I received a major set back to what I wanted. The only reason being: I failed to act fast enough. I waited longer than was needed with a girl who I had made very much into me through various deep diving techniques and a genuine interest towards. I'll skip the details here but life got in the way. She had to move away earlier than we both expected. Thankfully, there is a chance that I'll see this woman again in a few weeks, although a very slim one indeed. This is one big kick in the gut, one that has made me realize more than anything that waiting longer than needed for anything will only bring bad - and that's something I can live without.
I wanted to post this, monstrosity of a post to create that same fire within, but this time within you. There is no excuses for waiting. Improve yourself all the time, improve your lifestyle and the people around you. Never settle for less. Approach Anxiety? Waiting isn't going to fix that friend - don't listen to your gut and wait 'until the time is right' go and seduce that beautiful girl, and then some more and give them the time of their lives. They expect nothing less and you have the power to do so. Still anxious about your first time doing something? Well get it over and done with so you can find a process that works. Be thankful when you achieve second chances, not because life gives you them but because you went out and ripped them from the world and took them for yourself.
