Time to get serious

[Average]

Hello gents

Exams are finally over (for me anyway) and I finally have enough time to start taking my girlschase reputation seriously by improving my skills with girls as hard as I can throughout the course of December and January before going to university.

A few updates:

•I took a girl out for the first time in my life
•i found out that my inability to speak my home language and my nerdy pattern of speaking and awkward personality put me at a huge disadvantage in the dating game
•i found out that I really do not mind dating multiple women since they don't mind it themselves

Anyway. Since I have decided to take my improvement seriously I thought I'd need your help in figuring out the right places to go to to meet women since I'm used to approaching women at school, on the streets, etc.

So here are my questions:

1. what is the best time to pick up women in clubs (as in, when do they usually go there)?

2. I just turned 18, most 18 year olds don't usually got to bars and clubs, so what changes do I have to make to my fundamentals or do I have to focus on to bridge the age gap between me and the women?

3. I don't drink. Is that gonna be a problem?

4. My fundamentals are shitty. How can I maximise the amount of times she let's me go over to her house, as well as her letting me bang her outside?

5. Should I mass approach every girl in the club if it comes down to me being rejected by every girl I've met so far? And if I can, would that make the 200th girl that I'm hitting on feel uncomfortable?

6. How do I speak to girls who are in groups when I'm alone. This is a question that has been plaguing me from birth.

I just need to know these things so I can get started. After a while I should get better at these things and then start worrying about more advanced problems I meet on my journey.

 

[Inbocca]

Ash,

Glad to hear you're ready to start making this your #1 priority. Your unbreakability will be tested in the months to come - stick to it, we're rooting for you.

1. As William Gupta talks about in his article on getting good at night game, the best times to pick up girls are between 12-3. Most girls don't want to leave early without seeing what else the night has to offer. Personally, I've noticed that around 2-4, the club isn't as full as it was earlier and the girls who want to go home with someone start lowering their standards. This also has an inverse effect - the higher-quality girls have usually gone home with someone by then - so take it how you will.

2. If you feel like investing in a quality fake ID or making friends with club security, that's one way you can get in. Most underage dudes I know don't bother with bars/clubs, they'll go to house parties or festivals. Some clubs are 18+ instead of 21+, so look for those if you want to go that route. There's also nighttime street game, which Chase recommends pretty highly. As for bridging the age gap with women, basically the same stuff applies. Look and act masculine, work out, dress fittingly, etc. The only downsides I can imagine age having are 1) obvious immaturity/inexperience (varies from person to person, if that's an issue for you then work on it), 2) difficulty growing facial hair, and 3) not being able to go out to drinking establishments when girls invite you to. For the last one, I'd suggest changing the venue to somewhere you can go.

3. There are varying opinions on this, but the majority of the experts on this forum and site advise against drinking and getting high when learning game. Numbing the pain of rejection and approach anxiety just makes it harder when you're sober, and it risks addiction. Plus if you get too faded, your control goes out the window and you run the risk of looking like an idiot. Seen so many dudes (and dames) get so drunk by the end of the night they couldn't fuck someone if they wanted to. Not to say "never drink ever" but you're better off limiting yourself or not doing it at all.

4. I'm confused, did you mean logistics? If you know your place isn't gonna work, focus on figuring out her logistics asap ("Do you have roommates?", "What part of town are you from?", "Do you stay on campus or somewhere else?", etc.). If those don't work, improvise. I've personally never pulled it off, but from what I've seen from other guys, public sex is harder to pull off than having a place to go - usually requires having very sexy fundamentals that make her want you so bad she can't wait to go somewhere else. If that's the route you want to go, try and know the area pretty well and pinpoint all the private places you can try to make a pull.

5. I wouldn't advise approaching everyone, but don't hesitate to approach a ton of girls. If the 200th girl you're hitting on hasn't seen you hit on the other 199, there's no reason she'd be uncomfortable unless there's something else. Also, if you feel you've struck out at one spot, go to a different one. A lot of guys have a "warm-up" spot that they go to and then another place they go once they're in the right state.

 

[Average]

Ash,

Glad to hear you're ready to start making this your #1 priority. Your unbreakability will be tested in the months to come - stick to it, we're rooting for you.

Awesome. Thanks for the support Inbocca. I highly appreciate it. I just have one more question though.

As I mentioned before my presentation is working against me because of how awkward it still is, but I find it hard to pinpoint what exactly those flaws are that make it awkward. So naturally I know that I'm going to face a lot of rejections and resistances and cuckolding and all the other negative reactions girls have stored up.

I was thinking of posting all of my interactions under the field reports section of the girlschase board so that the members can help me to figure out where exactly it is I keep going wrong and how exactly I can improve. My question is:

If I post each new interaction onto the board, is it going to be possible do it too frequently and irk the other board members?
And is the field reports section only for succeful pick ups?

 

[PrettyDecent]

Ash,

Post as many field reports as you can. You won't be irking anybody. The people who learn fastest are those who are going out approaching AND analysing and trying new things every time they go out.

Use those boards mostly for failures, but if you have an entertaining or successful pickup, put it on there as well because those are fun reads

Nick