Tinder conversation “What’s your favorite animal?”

[housecards]

A girl matches on tinder. Obviously a dog lover according to her pics.

Me: So you love dogs?
Her: Extremely! What’s your favorite animals?
Me: pussy
Her: (send me an emoji of a cat)
Me: so you got a cute one too?


After this she hasn’t replied. This is like probably the #2 or #3 message I sent her after opening. I feel like the “pussy” part is probably too strong here. Maybe “pussycat” is better? What do you think?

 

[authenticSelf]

I made this mistake recently. You sexualized the conversation way too soon. I did it in about the 7th sentence and got silence.

 

[Grand Pooba]

Not sure what you were trying to do here but your conversation doesn’t lead well.

On Tinder even the smallest grammatical mistake can kill a lead - girls have tons of options and thus screen guys out for whatever they can find.

 

[naturalmikey]

you didn’t exactly sexuqlize the conversation you went too far. and also too fast.

 

[housecards]

Was trying to be flirty... definitely no leading here and sexualizing way out of context.