To Kiss or Not to Kiss on dates

[Starboy]

What you do is try to escalate gradually, like make a venue change and try to take her hand or arm on the way. Don't sit across from her, try to get her to sit in close with you to build comfort. Is she is showing signs that she likes you go in for the kiss when it feels right or at the end of the date.

I have also been in the situation when my logistics were crap. I still had a lot of success because I was younger at the time and the girls I was dating were younger too. So I would go out and meet them in the car and have sex in the car somewhere. As I got a bit older I would get hotels rooms for the night.

Well one time in a booth I tried sitting next to the girl,but she said no I should sit across from her so we wouldn't have to turn our heads just to talk to each other. I didn't want to make a big thing out of it so I just sat across from her. In a bar date I would sit next to my girl at the bar because it made sense and there wasnt any reason for me not to. Unfortunately I dont have a car. I could afford and would get a hotel room ,but I hear if you suggest hotel rooms she has to be really down to fuck and there is also the concern of her feeling pressured to have sex.

 

[Randy_91]

Yeah, when I was getting hotel rooms they were already DTF.

 

[Marty]

TBH the best way is to kiss with indifference. Like, get her a glass of water, say she looks cute give her a quick peck then go and get another glass for yourself.

Wow this is gold. I guess I can use it in the restaurant as well?

• Return from restroom.
• “You look cute.” Peck.
• “I’ll just grab the check, then we can head out.”
• Go to cash desk.