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Tom Torero’s Street Hustle is a book about Daygame, meeting and attracting women in everyday public settings like streets, cafés, and malls. It covers cold approach techniques, mindset, body language, conversational skills, rejection handling, and the psychology of attraction. The book emphasizes persistence and the art of street interactions.
For those who have read it or practiced its methods, do you think Street Hustle is the best book for learning Daygame? How effective was it for you?
 

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Never read it, but tagging @isildur1 since he might have. Also to subscribe as a reminder to check it out.

I do know that Tom was one of Beckster's students (who has done a ton of "low value" "level zero game" "bonus rounds") and they became good friends. Tom was apparently a lecturer at Oxford University. The two of them did some presentations at schools to both students and teachers that are apparently on Beckster's YouTube channel.
 

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Never read it, but tagging @isildur1 since he might have. Also to subscribe as a reminder to check it out.

I do know that Tom was one of Beckster's students (who has done a ton of "low value" "level zero game" "bonus rounds") and they became good friends. Tom was apparently a lecturer at Oxford University. The two of them did some presentations at schools to both students and teachers that are apparently on Beckster's YouTube channel.
i never heard he was lecturer at oxford univeristy? i think he did his undergraduate there before getting married and then moving to greece for a year post divorce.

Tom Torero then worked as a teacher for a while but this is the first time im hearing of him being a university lecturer and i dont quite believe it.


this speech is his best imo
 

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i never heard he was lecturer at oxford univeristy? i think he did his undergraduate there before getting married and then moving to greece for a year post divorce.

Tom Torero then worked as a teacher for a while but this is the first time im hearing of him being a university lecturer and i dont quite believe it.


this speech is his best imo
95% sure I heard him right, but haven't double checked the vid. There's timestamp chapters, with the Tom one at bout the 1-hr mark. He may have the detail wrong and be acting on "big-up-your-wingman" instinct, but apparently they knew each other pretty well and were good friends, eventually promoting night clubs together.

 

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Never read it, but tagging @isildur1 since he might have. Also to subscribe as a reminder to check it out.

I do know that Tom was one of Beckster's students (who has done a ton of "low value" "level zero game" "bonus rounds") and they became good friends. Tom was apparently a lecturer at Oxford University. The two of them did some presentations at schools to both students and teachers that are apparently on Beckster's YouTube channel
Thanks for your feedback. Explain “low value” game. I am fairly new to this space.
 

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Thanks for your feedback. Explain “low value” game. I am fairly new to this space.
Oh that was kind of a joke for those who know Beckster as Mystery's current wingman. Mystery calls single set game the lowest level of game because he works with preselection and social proof to game the 7's, merge the set to the 8's, then to the 9's, etc.

He says running around on the street is low value behavior when the women of particular quality are on the rooftop patios. He goes for "Hollywood hot" though, not necessarily the girls too busy in med school or whatever. Side note his book specifically says you may not find your future wife in the nightclub and to treat it as a skill development dojo so you're ready when it matters.

So anyways Beckster is often sitting right next to Mystery when he says these things. But Beckster's done a ton of day game in the London parks (which to be fair are still summer social gatherings), Harrod's women's jewelry department, etc. and said recently you need to do both day and night game to reach full skill potential.

So apparently that is who Tom learned from at an intermediate point. They met on a London seduction forum.
 

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Anyways, regarding your question about it being the best book on day game... I don't think there are many to begin with. You may enjoy Tony Depp's "I Hope It's Sunny Out", which is more or a memoir.

Here's a guide series from @Warped Mindless


A beginner guide laid out step by step from Chase


A note from Alek

 

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Tom Torero’s Street Hustle is a book about Daygame, meeting and attracting women in everyday public settings like streets, cafés, and malls. It covers cold approach techniques, mindset, body language, conversational skills, rejection handling, and the psychology of attraction. The book emphasizes persistence and the art of street interactions.
For those who have read it or practiced its methods, do you think Street Hustle is the best book for learning Daygame? How effective was it for you?
books are one thing
95% sure I heard him right, but haven't double checked the vid. There's timestamp chapters, with the Tom one at bout the 1-hr mark. He may have the detail wrong and be acting on "big-up-your-wingman" instinct, but apparently they knew each other pretty well and were good friends, eventually promoting night clubs together.

Ugh can’t stand Alex ice white he got found out to having 0 day game lays

I need some other source on tom torero being a lecturer as far as I’m aware from his podcasts he was a teacher I think this might be an exaggeration from beckster as you said it “big up your wingman” sorta thing
 

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Tom Torero’s Street Hustle is a book about Daygame, meeting and attracting women in everyday public settings like streets, cafés, and malls. It covers cold approach techniques, mindset, body language, conversational skills, rejection handling, and the psychology of attraction. The book emphasizes persistence and the art of street interactions.
For those who have read it or practiced its methods, do you think Street Hustle is the best book for learning Daygame? How effective was it for you?
Sorry I replied to your message then hit send prematurely

books are one way to develop I developed my list here https://mindful-masculinity.org/2024/06/23/top-12-dating-sex-relationship-books-for-men/
But really the best way is to go out - found some like minded wingmen and play the numbers game for a bit - once I had some reference experience and dates things started to really improve- theory can only go so far

Plus there are some people who present ideas well but write poorly for example Zan Perrion I love his speeches but I can’t get into his books then there are opposites

Liam McRae - so so a speaker but his books are great
 

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Anyways, regarding your question about it being the best book on day game... I don't think there are many to begin with. You may enjoy Tony Depp's "I Hope It's Sunny Out", which is more or a memoir.

Here's a guide series from @Warped Mindless


A beginner guide laid out step by step from Chase


A note from Alek

Agree with this point - one coach or person’s perspective might not be relatable to you

for me I liked coaches like Nick krauser Tom torero , James Marshall and Liam McRae but on this forum and other seduction blogs I’ve found many that disagree with their thought processes heck most my favourite coaches have a disdain for one another for example Nick krauser hates James Marshall and Liam McRae
 

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Oh that was kind of a joke for those who know Beckster as Mystery's current wingman. Mystery calls single set game the lowest level of game because he works with preselection and social proof to game the 7's, merge the set to the 8's, then to the 9's, etc.

He says running around on the street is low value behavior when the women of particular quality are on the rooftop patios. He goes for "Hollywood hot" though, not necessarily the girls too busy in med school or whatever. Side note his book specifically says you may not find your future wife in the nightclub and to treat it as a skill development dojo so you're ready when it matters.

So anyways Beckster is often sitting right next to Mystery when he says these things. But Beckster's done a ton of day game in the London parks (which to be fair are still summer social gatherings), Harrod's women's jewelry department, etc. and said recently you need to do both day and night game to reach full skill potential.

So apparently that is who Tom learned from at an intermediate point. They met on a London seduction forum.
Mystery’s recent advice seems meh when he himself has been on a evident physical decline as well as a divorce

as someone who met his girlfriend from street game I just can’t get on board with his ideas- daygame has many benefits and I’ve met amazing women from doing it- to count it as “low value” is just absurd if anything it reinstates your value and courage/ leadership and makes the situation special for the woman compared to other methods like online or instagram
 

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Oh that was kind of a joke for those who know Beckster as Mystery's current wingman. Mystery calls single set game the lowest level of game because he works with preselection and social proof to game the 7's, merge the set to the 8's, then to the 9's, etc.

He says running around on the street is low value behavior when the women of particular quality are on the rooftop patios. He goes for "Hollywood hot" though, not necessarily the girls too busy in med school or whatever. Side note his book specifically says you may not find your future wife in the nightclub and to treat it as a skill development dojo so you're ready when it matters.

So anyways Beckster is often sitting right next to Mystery when he says these things. But Beckster's done a ton of day game in the London parks (which to be fair are still summer social gatherings), Harrod's women's jewelry department, etc. and said recently you need to do both day and night game to reach full skill potential.

So apparently that is who Tom learned from at an intermediate point. They met on a London seduction forum.
 

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Thanks for that! While I do watch and read some mystery content, I’ve never really been able to get into it. It’s not that it’s ineffective, it just often feels a bit forced to me. I’m really enjoying Tom Torero’s book because it’s direct and free of unnecessary fluff.


Lately, I’ve been gravitating toward Street Hustle by Tom Torero, 60 Years of Challenge, and David Riker’s course. I plan to make them my main focus as I work on improving my game. I also agree that mastering both day game and night game is essential to getting good at this. What about you? What’s your favorite book in the space?
 

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Thanks for that! While I do watch and read some mystery content, I’ve never really been able to get into it. It’s not that it’s ineffective, it just often feels a bit forced to me. I’m really enjoying Tom Torero’s book because it’s direct and free of unnecessary fluff.


Lately, I’ve been gravitating toward Street Hustle by Tom Torero, 60 Years of Challenge, and David Riker’s course. I plan to make them my main focus as I work on improving my game. I also agree that mastering both day game and night game is essential to getting good at this. What about you? What’s your favorite book in the space?
mystery himself has some form of Asperger's imo - he just seems a bit like an oddball - appreciate his work in the past but recently i just can't take him seriously anymore

death of his sister and mother + divorce and loss of custody of his kids might have also played a part on why his content is no longer high quality .
 

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Mystery’s recent advice seems meh when he himself has been on a evident physical decline as well as a divorce

as someone who met his girlfriend from street game I just can’t get on board with his ideas- daygame has many benefits and I’ve met amazing women from doing it- to count it as “low value” is just absurd if anything it reinstates your value and courage/ leadership and makes the situation special for the woman compared to other methods like online or instagram
Also when you get a chance take at look at the texting part of his book aka text hustle By far I think he has the best strategy and straightforward advice when it comes to texting.
 
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What’s your favorite book in the space?
Hmm probably Chase's How to Make Girls Chase, Franco's Manual of Seduction, and Mystery's Venusian Arts Handbook.


his content is no longer high quality
Has he really put out any new content? He's still doing boot camps, and it seems the interviews he's been doing over the past while are in promotion of that. It all seems to be the same stuff he's always said, which speaks to the method's effectiveness over time. I thought he seems pretty calm and collected.

They're not always juicy interviews, but I think the questions just haven't been that great. In a recent panel interview with Zan, Ice White was charging viewers min $5 to ask stuff. If you had Teevster interview Mystery, it would probably be a thousand times better.
 
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