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Space Monkey
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So I met this really cute girl in metro, she really caught my eye with her looks and her fashion, I stopped her, I said you're really beautiful,

and then I saw her ring, I asked, oh I'm sorry I thought to get to know you, but I see you're married

then she said Oh No actually that's not a real ring, she took it off, put it on another finger, and then we started talking after which she quickly said, oh you want to take my Instagram, okay here it is?

I said I actually don't even know you, why would I take your Instagram? tell me more about yourself. and asked like what do you do, who do you work for.

and I almost could see a new level of interest from her. She explained how she wants to work as a model but works as a supervisor in a clothing store, her going on castings, Etc

After that we went on a date the next day, I always sit down next to them, legs touching, she had absolutely no problem with that. she really quickly responded to all of my touch, and within 30 minutes of that we were sitting basically like a couple. I touched almost everything: Stomach, back, legs, ass.

I even told her to kiss me on the cheek couple of times, so it was absolutely Flawless in that department. I thought she's a girl who just needed compliance and she's ready to go.

I don't remember what exactly we were talking about, but I think we might not have deep dived enough, although I honestly believed she did not need much convincing.

Anyway we went to the supermarket to buy some food and then nonchalantly walked near my house, came in there as an excuse to put the food down. In my house she was a little bit hesitant to come in, which really surprised me, I thought she was going to be ready to have sex in 5 minutes, but I comforted her, I showed her around the house I touched her some more, then we hang out, I kissed her, we danced together, I jerked off her pussy through the clothes, but she brought up the issue of "not on the first date".

She obviously really liked me as a boyfriend but not at the first date. Unfortunately at the time I did not have any response to her, so then she started moving out the door because she quote unquote "had to call her mother" and "pretend that she called from the street" to which I said let's open the window but she still basically ran out of my apartment. She was not particularly scared she was mostly playful, and I have stopped her for a solid 20 minutes pulling her back hugging her kissing her again but she still ran away

when I came down she already called her mother and she was happily sitting on the bench with me talking to me with eyes like she was in love with me but absolutely refused to come up. Now I know this is mostly an issue of boyfriend disqualification but I wonder what specific things I could have told her to not trigger anything, for example I cannot say I have a girlfriend in another city I think this would make her really offended, or could I have just refrained first date sex as a passionate start to a beautiful relationship rather than her spending the coupon on the guy she doesn't really know that well
 
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Space Monkey
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I don't think your issue is "boyfriend disqualification". Some girls just need a couple of dates before hooking up , as a principle. It's wrong to thing just because you can't fuck on the first date she is done for. If you think she is attractive enough, don't be reactive and give it another shot , she will have sex with you . No big deal.
 
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