Trajectory of my life. Need advice from successful guys

[HighVoltage]

So, I am a Computer Science major who wishes to be highly successful and while I am facing a roadblock, I know I can overcome it. There are some things in my life I put in as non-negotiable, that I NEED to do or I will not be able to live with myself.

-I NEED to get a Lamborghini Huracan
-I NEED to fuck porn-stars or instagram baddies with big asses.
-I NEED to be successful financially.
-I NEED my own company.

(God I feel like Patrick Bateman, lol)

What I'm doing right now is trying to get my first job in tech, its just. . . .I am having trouble visualizing tech success these days and this is why.
I look at Jeff Bezos' life, the creme of the crop when it comes to tech companies, and I do NOT want that man's life. He's richer than most people will ever be, and yet the only women he can get are not even close to the one's I've gotten. I look at Elon Musk and the best he's done was Grimes and Amber Heard, to their credit they are both famous as fuck, but they aren't my vibe.

It's why I started gravitating to MMA, bodybuilding and fashion.

But I remember what I read in the Laws of Human Nature by Robert Greene, how those of us with grandiosity have this desire for novelty and think that a change is going to get us where we need to go but we end up losing ground where all we had to do was work harder and use our grandiosity to push ourselves further.

Thing is, I'm having a hard time visualizing a woman like Victoria Lomba (Instagram baddie and my muse throughout college) , Fafa Fitness or Gracyanne Barbosa would meet a tech guy who spends most of his time with people in front of a computer.

I decided to try buffing my MMA skills and start going for the UFC, thing is... I'm 31 years old and I'm ALREADY injured from BJJ and had to sit out for 4 months.

I started reading Arnold's book on bodybuilding and Its a total page turner.

I have a hard time visualizing a tech geek getting with those types no matter how rich he is.... But an Intellectual at the helm of his own company who competes in Bodybuilding competitions and goes to Fitness Expos and Exotica for fun and does Amateur MMA on the side? That sounds like a good life.

But will it get me in front of these women?

Am I thinking about these women too much? Yeah, but its how I am for now....

What's your opinion?

 

[Conquistador]

First of all, CS is just not a good major choice for most tech subfields because of the cost-benefit and the opportunity costs.

Unless you’re doing hard-core CS at a good school, you’re better off either not spending four years and probably a bit of debt when you could acquire these skills quicker and more cheaply through other means, or just picking a different major that will contribute to your growth better.

 

[samuraijack]

Bro take a chill pill and cut out the instagram / tiktok gurus

You are over analyzing a lot of things and you are all over the place.

Work on your fundamentals, search on this forum and girlschase to find out what they are (some very basic examples are eye contact, tonality, posture, etc). Interact with ALL types of women and get laid.

After you have a solid baseline, figure out what girls you really like. Then figure out how to get access to them. That's it. Cut out all the other noise. You don't have to be an amateur mma fighter or bodybuilder to do any of that. But do those things if you find them enjoyable.

Stop making your financial decisions based on women. You are putting the cart way before the horse. Worried about making billions in tech because Jeff Bezos and Elon Musks arent dating instagram baddies? What kind of shit is that?

 

[TomInHo]

Andrew Tate is that you ?

 

[HighVoltage]

First of all, CS is just not a good major choice for most tech subfields because of the cost-benefit and the opportunity costs.

Unless you’re doing hard-core CS at a good school, you’re better off either not spending four years and probably a bit of debt when you could acquire these skills quicker and more cheaply through other means, or just picking a different major that will contribute to your growth better.

Already did hard core CS at a great tech school, and most of my tuition was free cuz parents are alumni.

 

[Conquistador]

Already did hard core CS at a great tech school, and most of my tuition was free cuz parents are alumni.

Ok then what sets you apart from all the other wannabe startup kings out there?

 

[Will_V]

So, I am a Computer Science major who wishes to be highly successful and while I am facing a roadblock, I know I can overcome it. There are some things in my life I put in as non-negotiable, that I NEED to do or I will not be able to live with myself.

-I NEED to get a Lamborghini Huracan
-I NEED to fuck porn-stars or instagram baddies with big asses.
-I NEED to be successful financially.
-I NEED my own company.

(God I feel like Patrick Bateman, lol)

What I'm doing right now is trying to get my first job in tech, its just. . . .I am having trouble visualizing tech success these days and this is why.
I look at Jeff Bezos' life, the creme of the crop when it comes to tech companies, and I do NOT want that man's life. He's richer than most people will ever be, and yet the only women he can get are not even close to the one's I've gotten. I look at Elon Musk and the best he's done was Grimes and Amber Heard, to their credit they are both famous as fuck, but they aren't my vibe.

It's why I started gravitating to MMA, bodybuilding and fashion.

But I remember what I read in the Laws of Human Nature by Robert Greene, how those of us with grandiosity have this desire for novelty and think that a change is going to get us where we need to go but we end up losing ground where all we had to do was work harder and use our grandiosity to push ourselves further.

Thing is, I'm having a hard time visualizing a woman like Victoria Lomba (Instagram baddie and my muse throughout college) , Fafa Fitness or Gracyanne Barbosa would meet a tech guy who spends most of his time with people in front of a computer.

I decided to try buffing my MMA skills and start going for the UFC, thing is... I'm 31 years old and I'm ALREADY injured from BJJ and had to sit out for 4 months.

I started reading Arnold's book on bodybuilding and Its a total page turner.

I have a hard time visualizing a tech geek getting with those types no matter how rich he is.... But an Intellectual at the helm of his own company who competes in Bodybuilding competitions and goes to Fitness Expos and Exotica for fun and does Amateur MMA on the side? That sounds like a good life.

But will it get me in front of these women?

Am I thinking about these women too much? Yeah, but its how I am for now....

What's your opinion?

Slow down, take a breath and do some actual thinking and research.

Are you really going to swing from tech nerd to the UFC and back again based on a vague notion of what 'instagram baddies' want? You wouldn't even get close to success in either of them unless your motivation ran a lot deeper than that.

Where's your own identity gone? What about what you want in life?

Right now just accept that you have no idea what women want. All those gurus have no idea either, every other day on youtube I see a new incel dressed up in a blazer carrying on about being a high value man from his moms basement. It's the new dropshipping.

Based on your other threads you're barely starting your journey of learning game. Do yourself a favor and forget about making projections until you've laid a bunch of hot women and started to get a feel for the things they respond to. Best of luck with your progress.

 

[POB]

-I NEED to get a Lamborghini Huracan
-I NEED to fuck porn-stars or instagram baddies with big asses.
-I NEED to be successful financially.
-I NEED my own company.

Here, lemme help you:
- I HAVE no car because cars are not valuable assets, they are a luxury for when I'm rich enough so I can waste money
- I HAVE a beautiful woman by my side, we love each other, and I also have some hotties on the side that I fuck with her consent
- I HAVE a comfortable material life that fits into MY lifestyle
- I HAVE mastered the arts of profitable niche finding, marketing and business creating and growing

 

[reeax]

How about sharing what you've achieved so far? It'll give forum members a clearer idea of where you're at now compared to the dream life you're aiming for.

 

[HighVoltage]

Here, lemme help you:
- I HAVE no car because cars are not valuable assets, they are a luxury for when I'm rich enough so I can waste money
- I HAVE a beautiful woman by my side, we love each other, and I also have some hotties on the side that I fuck with her consent
- I HAVE a comfortable material life that fits into MY lifestyle
- I HAVE mastered the arts of profitable niche finding, marketing and business creating and growing

?

 

[reeax]

Here, lemme help you:
- I HAVE no car because cars are not valuable assets, they are a luxury for when I'm rich enough so I can waste money
- I HAVE a beautiful woman by my side, we love each other, and I also have some hotties on the side that I fuck with her consent
- I HAVE a comfortable material life that fits into MY lifestyle
- I HAVE mastered the arts of profitable niche finding, marketing and business creating and growing

"I HAVE no car because cars are not valuable assets, they are a luxury for when I'm rich enough so I can waste money"

Well, this isn't exactly right, sorry pal. The truth is, about 99% of cars aren't valuable assets, but then there's that 1% that are. For example, one of my buddies bought a Ford GT 2005 for around $100K maybe 12 years ago, and now (in Europe), it's worth around $500K. Just like with any other asset class, you can build a portfolio (or a collection) that increases in value over time, as long as you know what to pick.

Lamborghini Huracan, OP's dream car? Definitely not an asset, more like a giant black hole in your budget

 

[HighVoltage]

Slow down, take a breath and do some actual thinking and research.

Are you really going to swing from tech nerd to the UFC and back again based on a vague notion of what 'instagram baddies' want? You wouldn't even get close to success in either of them unless your motivation ran a lot deeper than that.

Where's your own identity gone? What about what you want in life?

Right now just accept that you have no idea what women want. All those gurus have no idea either, every other day on youtube I see a new incel dressed up in a blazer carrying on about being a high value man from his moms basement. It's the new dropshipping.

Based on your other threads you're barely starting your journey of learning game. Do yourself a favor and forget about making projections until you've laid a bunch of hot women and started to get a feel for the things they respond to. Best of luck with your progress.

Okay first off....

I'm not going to write my entire life story here. I don't know any of you and frankly I have no reason to trust any of you with that info.

Secondly, I think you're gonna wanna re-read what I typed because holy crap.... What you just said was wrong, bro.

Like I deliberately shared things that I am doing / interested in because I am trying to prune branches.

If you leave all doors open, you paradoxically close all of them.

If I do MMA, there is NO way I would be able to run a tech company.

Which is why I introduced a situation where I did tech as my main job and did bodybuilding on the side but did amateur MMA for fun.

 

[HighVoltage]

"I HAVE no car because cars are not valuable assets, they are a luxury for when I'm rich enough so I can waste money"

Well, this isn't exactly right, sorry pal. The truth is, about 99% of cars aren't valuable assets, but then there's that 1% that are. For example, one of my buddies bought a Ford GT 2005 for around $100K maybe 12 years ago, and now (in Europe), it's worth around $500K. Just like with any other asset class, you can build a portfolio (or a collection) that increases in value over time, as long as you know what to pick.

Lamborghini Huracan, OP's dream car? Definitely not an asset, more like a giant black hole in your budget

Whaaaat? Not the Huracan!!!! Alright, wise one: so which Lamborghini IS an asset that appreciates?

 

[HighVoltage]

How about sharing what you've achieved so far? It'll give forum members a clearer idea of where you're at now compared to the dream life you're aiming for.

Look man, can I answer that in private messages or something? I don't really want everyone to know that.

 

[HighVoltage]

Ok then what sets you apart from all the other wannabe startup kings out there?

Adaptability, Social Skills, Endurance, Sensitivity to people's emotional states, constantly learning, and I'm a good storyteller.

 

[POB]

"I HAVE no car because cars are not valuable assets, they are a luxury for when I'm rich enough so I can waste money"

Well, this isn't exactly right, sorry pal. The truth is, about 99% of cars aren't valuable assets, but then there's that 1% that are. For example, one of my buddies bought a Ford GT 2005 for around $100K maybe 12 years ago, and now (in Europe), it's worth around $500K. Just like with any other asset class, you can build a portfolio (or a collection) that increases in value over time, as long as you know what to pick.

Lamborghini Huracan, OP's dream car? Definitely not an asset, more like a giant black hole in your budget

The exception proves the rule.
Don't know if you noticed, but In your own answer you just agreed with me.

 

[Will_V]

Okay first off....

I'm not going to write my entire life story here. I don't know any of you and frankly I have no reason to trust any of you with that info.

Secondly, I think you're gonna wanna re-read what I typed because holy crap.... What you just said was wrong, bro.

Like I deliberately shared things that I am doing / interested in because I am trying to prune branches.

If you leave all doors open, you paradoxically close all of them.

If I do MMA, there is NO way I would be able to run a tech company.

Which is why I introduced a situation where I did tech as my main job and did bodybuilding on the side but did amateur MMA for fun.

OK let's clarify things.

In my opinion, choosing your career based on what brings you closer to the type of woman you find hottest is just not an effective or sustainable approach. That's what comes across to me as your intention in your original post (which I did reread).

Instead, if you want a certain kind of woman, find ways to hang out in circles that she is part of, without building your whole life around her. Or just live in a city where plenty of those kind of women live and daygame her. In big cities there are all sorts of women running around everywhere, and when you learn to approach in all kinds of everyday situations, you don't need to make any big investment into your lifestyle just to get closer to them. Besides, until you've spent a bunch of time in and out of bed with a specific kind of woman you don't even really know if you'll end up liking her as much as you thought. A lot of women look good from afar but after you've cum in her you just aren't interested anymore.

Women are the ones with a very flexible frame. If you have well-developed seduction skills, the right presentation, and a rock solid frame, all you have to do is run into her somewhere and you have a golden opportunity to bend her reality into yours.

 

[Skills]

I don't know if op is trolling.... But op just read any basic seduction book or intro(even reading the game will do, or models).... It seems you fall into the afc clueless pattern let me get ____________ so i would get girls.....

That is not seduction is exchanging material goods for sex.... Just get a high level pro... easier and cheaper in the long run, attracting gold diggers is the last thing you want...

 

[HighVoltage]

I don't know if op is trolling.... But op just read any basic seduction book or intro(even reading the game will do, or models).... It seems you fall into the afc clueless pattern let me get ____________ so i would get girls.....

That is not seduction is exchanging material goods for sex.... Just get a high level pro... easier and cheaper in the long run, attracting gold diggers is the last thing you want...

Lemme explain to you why it blows to ask for help. . . .

If you write every detail so people won't get the wrong idea, you will get people who read what you typed and get the wrong idea anyway because they read it through a lens of their own mental design . . . Or people see that wall of text and decide : "No" and why shouldn't they? Everyone needs help with something, and they couldn't communicate in a concise way?

But when you are concise and ONLY leave the details that are necessary to the question , you get people who fill in the gaps and arrive at a conclusion that is just. . . .Bad, and frankly written in bad faith.

Basically, you always open yourself up to people who read you wrong, or people who aren't even willing to read you right or fairly.

In this scenario, "people" is you.

 

[POB]

@HighVoltage nobody here is dissing you or anything.
Even if some of us use humor, it's all on good faith.
And to be honest, I've seen fairly good advice here of people trying to understand you better.

There's nothing wrong with having greater goals, but you are just coming from all over the place!
Some examples:

I NEED to do or I will not be able to live with myself.

-I NEED to get a Lamborghini Huracan
-I NEED to fuck porn-stars or instagram baddies with big asses.
-I NEED to be successful financially.
-I NEED my own company.

Do you know how immature the above sounds?
You are coming from a place of needing external things to validate yourself as a man.
That's the crux of red pill's fake gurus propaganda.
Most advanced guys here are not buffed, or fighters, or even handsome...but they were able to fuck cute women without a penny in their names, and in the worst possible conditions.
They've fucked chicks in disgusting bathrooms, terrible apartments that only had an old mattress, and even outside in broad daylight.

Thing is, I'm having a hard time visualizing a woman like Victoria Lomba (Instagram baddie and my muse throughout college) , Fafa Fitness or Gracyanne Barbosa would meet a tech guy who spends most of his time with people in front of a computer.

You like muscular women, nothing wrong with that.
I've personally dated two cute bodybuilders back in the day.
When clothes were off, they didn't last more than 20 minutes with me without tapping or gasping for air.
Plus their clits looked like a speed bag

And I've seen Gracyanne in person.
She is short, looks like a Rhino, and is married to an ugly bad singer who likes to con people.

I decided to try buffing my MMA skills and start going for the UFC, thing is... I'm 31 years old and I'm ALREADY injured from BJJ and had to sit out for 4 months.

Do you know how long it takes for guys to join the UFC???
Do you know how many are cut after one or two bad fights, and never make it to the top?
Plus most UFC champions have been fighting in some kind of martial art since they were in high school!
Amateur mma is even more brutal!

I have a hard time visualizing a tech geek getting with those types no matter how rich he is.... But an Intellectual at the helm of his own company who competes in Bodybuilding competitions and goes to Fitness Expos and Exotica for fun and does Amateur MMA on the side? That sounds like a good life.

Most bodybuilders are broke.
And I know it because I've been lifting since 1995...I've seen it all from this group.
It's not a sustainable lifestyle, unless you make it to the top 2-3%, or is able to create a successful brand on social media, which takes a lot of time, energy and maybe money (plus you already need to have a great physique).

Am I thinking about these women too much? Yeah, but its how I am for now....

You are projecting your happiness on the fantasy of having a certain type of woman who's very outside the norm!
Do you realize how crazy that sounds?
What if some cutie pops in front of you tomorrow?
Will you pass on her just because she is not a muscular model with tree trunk thighs and a giant clit?
Or because you don't drive a huracan?

What's your opinion?

Just gave it above.