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- Oct 17, 2019
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- 21
Saturday Night
Mindset:
-be totally inspired and seduced by her
-girls love sex as much or more than man, I take the responsibility for it and lead
Goals:
-be totally inspired and seduced by her
-enjoy the conversations
-solutions finder
-I want to sexualize and show my interest
-I want to ask what she does tomorrow, morning to go „home“ together.
General Notes:
-don’t really know how to handle social game/ party with guys from the hostel yet: I don’t really like to drink, however, it's hard to not even drink one beer, guess I'll say I drink later next time. The bigger problem is hanging out together in the club and dancing together. Here I get in my head and have more problems to approach later. The best would be to just start approaching the moment I arrive there and don't care about what they think.
-I noticed that I need to set other goals. It makes no sense to think of pulling when not being able to isolate, Kissing is to low here as well.
Therefore, I want to learn to isolate and lead with confidence:
Definition: tell her to go with me to someplace
-to the bar
-to have some air
-to some other place of the party
If she does not want to go ask again in 5 minutes, if still not, just exchange numbers and talk to somebody else
What was good:
-Left the guys from the hostel, and went to a far better place
-made out with two girls
-some really nice and interesting eye contact I enjoyed with a girl, the atmosphere and her look make me feel like I was in a movie, really top.
-asked what she does tmr morning, and asked for staying with me (probability was really low because of her brother and friend and I lost a lot of value, etc., was more about practicing to ask, good I asked because I don't do it a lot)
Insights (if I can write 2 only)
-need to update my goal, making out is too easy for foreigners here, however, I am still flashed and impressed by it, on the other hand, it is less meaningful for the next steps here. I will focus on isolating
-when I go out with other guys from the hostel I need to start interactions the moment I arrive.
What to do better:
-need to approach more women
-two random girls sitting in front of us disturbed interaction with the second girl I made out with. It was really annoying. Finally, they left, probably should have left first or ignored more.
-Don’t stay with the same girl for too long, especially when it is clear that it leads nowhere
Mindset:
-be totally inspired and seduced by her
-girls love sex as much or more than man, I take the responsibility for it and lead
Goals:
-be totally inspired and seduced by her
-enjoy the conversations
-solutions finder
-I want to sexualize and show my interest
-I want to ask what she does tomorrow, morning to go „home“ together.
General Notes:
-don’t really know how to handle social game/ party with guys from the hostel yet: I don’t really like to drink, however, it's hard to not even drink one beer, guess I'll say I drink later next time. The bigger problem is hanging out together in the club and dancing together. Here I get in my head and have more problems to approach later. The best would be to just start approaching the moment I arrive there and don't care about what they think.
-I noticed that I need to set other goals. It makes no sense to think of pulling when not being able to isolate, Kissing is to low here as well.
Therefore, I want to learn to isolate and lead with confidence:
Definition: tell her to go with me to someplace
-to the bar
-to have some air
-to some other place of the party
If she does not want to go ask again in 5 minutes, if still not, just exchange numbers and talk to somebody else
What was good:
-Left the guys from the hostel, and went to a far better place
-made out with two girls
-some really nice and interesting eye contact I enjoyed with a girl, the atmosphere and her look make me feel like I was in a movie, really top.
-asked what she does tmr morning, and asked for staying with me (probability was really low because of her brother and friend and I lost a lot of value, etc., was more about practicing to ask, good I asked because I don't do it a lot)
Insights (if I can write 2 only)
-need to update my goal, making out is too easy for foreigners here, however, I am still flashed and impressed by it, on the other hand, it is less meaningful for the next steps here. I will focus on isolating
-when I go out with other guys from the hostel I need to start interactions the moment I arrive.
What to do better:
-need to approach more women
-two random girls sitting in front of us disturbed interaction with the second girl I made out with. It was really annoying. Finally, they left, probably should have left first or ignored more.
-Don’t stay with the same girl for too long, especially when it is clear that it leads nowhere
