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Here's a little something to help some of you guys take your game to the next level.
When gaming, one of the things I do post hook is try to demonstrate as many traits of my self that are conductive to Single Night Lays. I simply name them SNL traits. These can be showing her how you have high standards (won't just sleep with just any girl. and you won't just make any girl you're girlfriend. She's gotta work for it), talking about thrilling sex adventures I've had, talking about what I like doing in bed with girls (which girls also like i.e. teasing the fuck outta them with foreplay, being dominant, lasting long, etc), an being nonjudgemental around sex.
Now to demonstrate these SNL traits very easily, what I've done is created universal transitions that can work on every girl. So that you can talk about these in all of your seductions. Having these transitions in your pocket, allows you to bring them out anytime you want, so that you don't have to rely on the girl talking about something semi related so that you can go into your gambits.
So I created this thread to talk about the process I went through in creating my transitions to demonstrating my SNL traits. And walk you through one of mine.
First you want to write down the SNL trait you want to demonstrate:
Here I want to demonstrate that I have high standards and have an deep understanding about male/female relationships.
Next create the pathway to get you to talk about that what you want to communicate. (a go to is to ask a girl a question you want her to ask in return).
so here I'll ask "when was the last time you were in a relationship? (here you should be asking yourself, what can I ask her that will create the context that will allow me to ask this question to all girls smoothly. To me that was: "so where's your boyfriend tonight?") so that I'll get the question back in return. I'll go over how to make sure you get this question back later in the post.
Now that you've created the context to demonstrate your SNL trait (here that I have high standards and have a deep knowledge about male/female relationships) write down something that shows you possess this trait.
Now read it over and over. correcting mistakes along the way. Then when you feel comfortable with it, what you'll want to do is read it aloud. first while looking at your text. what you'll find is that by talking aloud you’ll naturally find ways of phrasing things better ("hmm actually that sounds better/smoother") vs trying to memorize it from just writing it down. believe me if you're one of those guys who likes to drink when you game, you will have no problem remembering these gambits. once you've practiced these memorization techniques. Speaking as someone who drinks, has a pretty shit memory and can talk about a million things that i’ve memorized while pretty tipsy.
After correcting those mistakes, you'll want to now record yourself, saying the gambit without looking at the words. Here in addition to also finding ways of phrasing things even better, you will also find areas where you utilize non-verbal tactics like pregnant pauses, calculated smiles, (0:50-1:00)
to create favorable reactions in her. and notice areas where you can add additional questions that you may ask her that you didn't notice when originally writing down your gambit. As these come up, stop recording. add them to the original pathway. and record again. Do this until it the gambit looks like something that you would actually say to a girl. in the way that you normally talk to people.
Now after recording yourself say the gambit without any mistakes. It is memorized. Move on to creating another gambit that lets you transition to demonstrate another SNL trait. And practice these any time you want to solidify them into your memory.
Here is this particular gambit. Transitioning to demonstrate I have high standards and a deep understanding of male/female relationships
Transition:
so where’s your boyfriend tonight?
her: i don’t have one
oh when was the last time you were in a relationship?
her: blah blah blah
what happened? did you break up with him? was he shit in bed?
her: blah blah blah
damn thats too bad [smiling as I turn away. This creates that 'how do I get his attention back - since its hard to think on her feet she will take the easy route and just ask him the same question in return. Which is the effect I'm trying to create here)
me? oh I’ve actually never been in a relationship” while smiling to trigger that 'why is he smiling' reaction)
her: really? I don't believe you. why not?
Gambit:
ummm Honestly I just don’t feel like I've found the right girl for that. Like the closest girl was actually very hot tho. I have a photo of her on my phone actually (start looking through phone for the photo). It’s just that I get bored very easily and I'm like always searching for more you know. [now showing her the photo] sorry its the only photo i have of her (it's a naked photo of her) I mean like you. you move on from a guy once you feel like its boring too right? (you have high standards too right?) when things get like too predictable you know whats gonna happen. its the same ole same old. and when he no longer make you feel the way you felt when you first met them. back when everything was so new and exciting and you actually used to look forward to spending time with him. so now its like you've kind of just like mentally zone out "I don’t love him anymore" and you start looking for someone new.
then we vibe on this for a bit before moving on to demonstrating another SNL trait.
Hope this was helpful. And motivates some of you guys to create your own transitions to demonstrating your SNL traits
When gaming, one of the things I do post hook is try to demonstrate as many traits of my self that are conductive to Single Night Lays. I simply name them SNL traits. These can be showing her how you have high standards (won't just sleep with just any girl. and you won't just make any girl you're girlfriend. She's gotta work for it), talking about thrilling sex adventures I've had, talking about what I like doing in bed with girls (which girls also like i.e. teasing the fuck outta them with foreplay, being dominant, lasting long, etc), an being nonjudgemental around sex.
Now to demonstrate these SNL traits very easily, what I've done is created universal transitions that can work on every girl. So that you can talk about these in all of your seductions. Having these transitions in your pocket, allows you to bring them out anytime you want, so that you don't have to rely on the girl talking about something semi related so that you can go into your gambits.
So I created this thread to talk about the process I went through in creating my transitions to demonstrating my SNL traits. And walk you through one of mine.
First you want to write down the SNL trait you want to demonstrate:
Here I want to demonstrate that I have high standards and have an deep understanding about male/female relationships.
Next create the pathway to get you to talk about that what you want to communicate. (a go to is to ask a girl a question you want her to ask in return).
so here I'll ask "when was the last time you were in a relationship? (here you should be asking yourself, what can I ask her that will create the context that will allow me to ask this question to all girls smoothly. To me that was: "so where's your boyfriend tonight?") so that I'll get the question back in return. I'll go over how to make sure you get this question back later in the post.
Now that you've created the context to demonstrate your SNL trait (here that I have high standards and have a deep knowledge about male/female relationships) write down something that shows you possess this trait.
Now read it over and over. correcting mistakes along the way. Then when you feel comfortable with it, what you'll want to do is read it aloud. first while looking at your text. what you'll find is that by talking aloud you’ll naturally find ways of phrasing things better ("hmm actually that sounds better/smoother") vs trying to memorize it from just writing it down. believe me if you're one of those guys who likes to drink when you game, you will have no problem remembering these gambits. once you've practiced these memorization techniques. Speaking as someone who drinks, has a pretty shit memory and can talk about a million things that i’ve memorized while pretty tipsy.
After correcting those mistakes, you'll want to now record yourself, saying the gambit without looking at the words. Here in addition to also finding ways of phrasing things even better, you will also find areas where you utilize non-verbal tactics like pregnant pauses, calculated smiles, (0:50-1:00)
Now after recording yourself say the gambit without any mistakes. It is memorized. Move on to creating another gambit that lets you transition to demonstrate another SNL trait. And practice these any time you want to solidify them into your memory.
Here is this particular gambit. Transitioning to demonstrate I have high standards and a deep understanding of male/female relationships
Transition:
so where’s your boyfriend tonight?
her: i don’t have one
oh when was the last time you were in a relationship?
her: blah blah blah
what happened? did you break up with him? was he shit in bed?
her: blah blah blah
damn thats too bad [smiling as I turn away. This creates that 'how do I get his attention back - since its hard to think on her feet she will take the easy route and just ask him the same question in return. Which is the effect I'm trying to create here)
me? oh I’ve actually never been in a relationship” while smiling to trigger that 'why is he smiling' reaction)
her: really? I don't believe you. why not?
Gambit:
ummm Honestly I just don’t feel like I've found the right girl for that. Like the closest girl was actually very hot tho. I have a photo of her on my phone actually (start looking through phone for the photo). It’s just that I get bored very easily and I'm like always searching for more you know. [now showing her the photo] sorry its the only photo i have of her (it's a naked photo of her) I mean like you. you move on from a guy once you feel like its boring too right? (you have high standards too right?) when things get like too predictable you know whats gonna happen. its the same ole same old. and when he no longer make you feel the way you felt when you first met them. back when everything was so new and exciting and you actually used to look forward to spending time with him. so now its like you've kind of just like mentally zone out "I don’t love him anymore" and you start looking for someone new.
then we vibe on this for a bit before moving on to demonstrating another SNL trait.
Hope this was helpful. And motivates some of you guys to create your own transitions to demonstrating your SNL traits
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