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JPWorld

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Gentleman,

I apologise I haven’t posted in so long. I changed country and made the blinding error of choosing somewhere small, as I thought it would be a nice change. And I’ve found out that although I can make myself surrounded by women, I’m not actually sleeping with any of them. I also hung around with some RSD guys for a while, but if I’m honest I found them a bit weird and didn’t like their style. Too “pick-upy.”

Anyway, the report…!

I know this girl from my Uni in England. Two years ago we were studying together and throughout the year there were hints and suggestions that we liked each other but nothing happened. At the end of the year, however, was the Summer Ball. I ended up going back to hers and trying to escalate on her, but she didn’t want anything to happen.

I remember her saying
If you want sex, you’ll have to go, if you are happy without it, you can stay the night.

I stayed and in the morning we kissed a lot and said goodbye, as we weren’t going to see each other in two years. (i.e. till this September).

About 6 months later when I was abroad she sent me a message like
I know this is strange and we won’t see each other for ages, but I miss you
.

We had a quick discussion on whether we should have had sex that night or not. She says it might have made leaving even harder. I was a virgin back then and at the time I was obviously disappointed I didn’t lose my virginity to her, but now I’m glad.

Everything worked out even better.

We are now both living in the same country but different cities. So a while back I messaged to see if I could visit, she said yes and over I came.

I arrived Friday afternoon and she greeted me wearing a lovely floral summer dress. I remember her being quite shy and it taking a little while to get a good conversation going. She was a bit more extroverted now though, not overly, but a bit more.

I could already feel something there, but just played the patience game. We go out for drinks, then go back to hers and cook dinner. Lots of flirting.

It was stifling hot so afterwards, I took a shower and we watched a movie together and I was topless and just in my shorts. We cuddle up to each other in bed, but after a while she gets hot so I suggest she takes her dress off. She complies and we cuddle some more. I try to kiss her at one point, but she turns her cheek away. I laugh, think nothing of it. She’s there in her underwear as we’re both in bed, something will happen.

Patience.

Cool it down a bit before escalating on her again and licking all over her body down to her pussy. I go to move her panties and she says “Nooo” and tries to pull my head back up.
Are you on your period?
No, I’m just undecided.

I shrug it off and we end up cuddling and just before going to sleep I kiss her and she kisses back. It was clear she didn’t want anything else. No problem.

We ended up getting like 2 hours sleep as it was just so so hot.

Fast forward to Saturday, we went out for the day. We were like a couple that day, holding hands, kissing, teasing. The fact it was all public didn’t bother her. At one point I said
I’m so exhausted, I’m gonna sleep so well tonight and she replied
Not if I have anything to do with it.
She also asked if I told any of our mutual friends I was coming to visit.
nope, this is all a secret.
Oh?! So I’m you’re dirty little secret? ;)
I dropped that bait to let her know if anything happened, literally nobody would know.

We have dinner and drinks then go back to hers. It was hot still so we changed into our underwear and watched a film. Escalated a bit, not much. Film ends. I ramp things up.

Bra off. Teased her for ages. Panties off. Ate her out and made her shake and move all over the bed and orgasm hard. “Top Marks” were her words afterwards hahaha

We were drenched in sweat and I make a comment about it. She says -
I can think of a way to get even sweatier.

I think that’s an escalation window?? ;)

I’ll get a condom

I get one but I’m not totally hard so I get it out but go to lick her out again. I make her cum again and her wiggling around and grabbing me turned me on. I put the condom on and go “
you ready?
Panting, she replies: "Jesus, already? Do I not get a minute?”

“No.”

And I get in adapted missionary and fuck her silly. This girl liked it hard and rough. She said “I’m sorry if I scratch your back.” But I actually LOVE it when girls do it, so I said how it turns me on. She starts yanking my hair (like so fucking hard I thought it was gonna come out) and scratching my back. After 30 mins or so she orgasms hard but I don’t. We have a break.

HOLY SHIT, your back!!
What? What have you done?
Oh my god, I’m so sorry, go look in the mirror.


She had destroyed it. Red scratch marks and indents galore. If we had been going for another 5 minutes she would have drawn blood. I wish I had taken a photo.

Jesus christ
Sorry, not sorry!!

We have a chat about sexual fantasies (she really wants a threesome with a girl and a guy - gonna try and make that happen) and other partners. We talk about that night two years and I say how I was a virgin then.

What the FUCK?” You serious?
Yeah, why?
I thought you had already slept with loads of girls and I was really nervous that I wasn’t going to be like them.

Our thoughts were reversed. I thought she was all cute and innocent, hence why she didn’t want anything. But she had actually slept with 2 guys by then. And she thought I had slept with loads, yet I was a virgin.

I explain that she’s my first Brit (my own nationality) and gives a little cheer, but then explains how I’m a “dark horse”, as I’ve slept with more people than her in just over a year.

Fuck her doggy style, then back to adapted missionary but we had to keep her hands away from my back haha. Cum inside her (in the condom).

Never have I been fucked SO hard, I don’t know if I can walk

We sleep and fuck again in the morning.

I then had to catch my bus back to my city and as we are waiting she says that she has a “good ache” and it’s the sign of “good sex”. I texted her later thanking her for a lovely weekend.

I then got a text Monday saying
her:How’s your back *angel emoji*
me: Almost recovered haha woke up and it ached a little bit though. How are your ‘legs’?
Her: Aww! you poor thing ;) fine and dandy thank you :p
Me: I know right ;) good good :p
Her: Are they still visible?
Me: Lil’ bit (hiding face emoji) Went to the gym today and wore a vest and totally forgot.
Her: JPPP!!!!
Me: Oooops
Her: you are hilarious - I don’t think it was that bad on your shoulders ;P
Me:Truee - maybe I’ll give you a chance to change that ;)
Her: Bring it
Me:Two requirements 1. Louder. 2. Harder
Her: I can accept those conditions
Me: I’ll have to get a signature, then we’ll be good to go.
Her: (pen emoji - smirky face emoji)
Me: (‘ok’ emoji)
Her: Pleasure doing business with you.”
Me: A business doing pleasure with you.

If you think you’re in the friend zone but feel a spark of something - go for it. And if you’ve been a way for a while, try to hit up old flames. You never know!

Acting fast obviously is key, but a patient, chilled vibe can be just as powerful.

Cheers

- JP
 

skin_man

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Cute story! Really the typical romance type. This has happened once but it was in much less than 2 years. In my experience, it's very hard to keep a girl around for two years who's still hot for you.

How did you seemingly do it?. Were you messaging her while in a different country? did you give her updates or check in like an old friend? What can you say helped apart from 'patience'? You have actually recommended it here:
If you think you’re in the friend zone but feel a spark of something - go for it. And if you’ve been a way for a while, try to hit up old flames. You never know!

Would you repeat this scenario with a different girl?

Thanks
 

JPWorld

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Skin Man,

It does sound quite cute I guess, haha. But it's also the typical "lover in a different country" kind of feeling.

skin_man said:
In my experience, it's very hard to keep a girl around for two years who's still hot for you.

Yeah, this is the problem. Attraction does have an expiry date. But when you don't see them for two years and she knows she liked you last time, some feelings are bound to pop back up.

skin_man said:
How did you seemingly do it?. Were you messaging her while in a different country? did you give her updates or check in like an old friend?

Yup and yup. Just a few times checking in and asking how things were going there - work, study. Never anything sexual (apart from our conversation about whether we should have had sex last time). And then on a high note say how you'd love to visit and then make it as soon as possible after that.

Another thing that helped is outcome independence. Being completely satisfied with nothing coming of it. Have sex or not - who cares? The second you give off that vibe, everything feels less "stressful" and more chilled. That helped me massively. Doesn't mean you don't show that you want it, though. It was clear on the first night it was on my mind, this then made it happen on the second night without ANY LMR.
skin_man said:
Would you repeat this scenario with a different girl?

Yup, absolutely. I've got a long list of girls who I went to school with or knew for a while but never got intimate with, who I would love to have the same situation with. The problem is with some girls the level of interest could be different and the level of contact we have could be different.

No problem, buddy. Anything else, just shoot :)

Cheers,

- JP
 
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