Unconventional tips for suceeding in game and life for guys with ADHD

[empath]

Well Autism is covered here extensively for game and they are usually sucessful in career and other prospects, if something similar you guys have for ADHD as well

I have adhd and I have average sucess in life but I don't want an average life.

So pointers from guys here who either have ADHD or have been around sucessful Guys with ADHD.

Need tips for 3 things

1) Game
2) Building wealth
3) Building skills above average level (I can learn new things quickly but when requiring focus to build skills on a level beyond beginner I struggle with it or focusing to figure out rules, if there is a teacher/coach or someone explains you are missing this piece I will get it but its a struggle to figure out things on my own)

Especially something that doesnt involves medication.

 

[Chase]

I always just assumed ADHD was a pickup super power.

Guy is hot then cold without even trying to be.

Sometimes texts her back fast because he's right near his phone, sometimes doesn't text her back for ages because he's too caught up in something else.

Zero tolerance for women trying to pull bullshit because ADHD temperament acts up and dude just goes, "Screw this!"

Constantly pulling girls along onto adventures, in the lead, getting them invested, acting spontaneous.

No hesitancy about making moves. Wants to do it → does it.

Seems like it'd just give you insta-alpha powers plus infinite mixed signals to send girls.

You'll probably never be able to run highly structured game, but spend enough time in-field and you should be a natural.

 

[empath]

I always just assumed ADHD was a pickup super power.

Guy is hot then cold without even trying to be.

Sometimes texts her back fast because he's right near his phone, sometimes doesn't text her back for ages because he's too caught up in something else.

Zero tolerance for women trying to pull bullshit because ADHD temperament acts up and dude just goes, "Screw this!"

Constantly pulling girls along onto adventures, in the lead, getting them invested, acting spontaneous.

No hesitancy about making moves. Wants to do it → does it.

Seems like it'd just give you insta-alpha powers plus infinite mixed signals to send girls.

You'll probably never be able to run highly structured game, but spend enough time in-field and you should be a natural.

I know internet makes it seem having ADHD as some superpower but its not.

I think in essence you are just saying to own my ADHD and wear it like an armour.

But issue is

Well I agree with making move without second thought, but downside is they are mostly sub-optimal because of lack of thought or attention, sometime they work wonder. (So hit or miss)

Totally agree with adventure part, if I leave the agenda of sex, I can run very fun dates

Hot & Cold I agree, naturally leads to deep diving but I am all hot until I have laid the girl.

So, it does not help me while picking up, rather it hurts, cause I end up being obsessive and worst part is I can't control my impulses easily (in relationship yes).

Even though I will think that best is to ignore girl for 3-4 days but I can't.

Screw this comes in relationship not while picking up.

Also, I need harsh negative rewards/punishment both in intensity and frequency to change my behaviour because my brain forgets that my actions can lead bad outcomes

 

[Chase]

Hot & Cold I agree, naturally leads to deep diving but I am all hot until I have laid the girl.

So, it does not help me while picking up, rather it hurts, cause I end up being obsessive and worst part is I can't control my impulses easily (in relationship yes).

This sounds like an abundance issue more than anything.

Every guy is obsessive with girls pre-lay until he has enough girls he is trying to lay that he doesn't have the bandwidth to get obsessive about any one of them.

Fill your pipeline up more and this'll be less of an issue.

Even though I will think that best is to ignore girl for 3-4 days but I can't.

Again, ADHD will make this worse, but this is an "every guy" thing that stems from lack of abundance.

Chase