So I just have a question concerning people who supposedly don't have any sexual attraction whatsoever. From a biological perspective sexual attraction is a trait of all organisms so I'm a little skeptical, but I respect all sexualities so I respect asexuality too. The issue is, can you ever get an "asexual" girl into bed, and how so? I am open to any opinions especially to people with some experience on the topic. I know Chase did an article on Lesbians and I read that and it was an interesting read, but the gist of what I got out of it was that no matter their sexuality, most girls are open to different things. I was wondering if that applied to asexuality? Would really appreciate any ideas you guys have. I'd rate my skill level at beginner intermediate.
If a girl says she's "asexual" she's lying, period. There simply is no such thing. I suggest you read (or re-read) Alek's and Hector's posts on the main website (among others of course), especially Hector's article series about wild sex (at least the first one).
Frost said:
Could you possibly give me a link to said articles? Thank you so much.
EDIT: I recently read an article by Chase on "Dating Without Sex", and he seems to think that there are asexual people that exist. Care to share your thoughts on this article? https://www.girlschase.com/content/datin ... 0%99t-work
Darkream said:
This is one I found last night, it's written by Chase https://www.girlschase.com/content/7-reasons-why-all-girls-are-naughty-girls
Here is Hector's articles https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-be-freak-bed-pt-1-all-women-are-freaks
And there are tons more. I absolutely love the wide variety of authors on this website, and I think each one of them has an article that touches on this point.
Darkream said:
Wow. That was an amazing read. As I was reading it I wasn't sure what were you getting to until I read the part about asexual people. Well I'm not an expert but it seems like they could exist (they have a forum and everything), but make sure you don't confuse that with girls who say they are chaste and asexual simply because they are not attracted enough to you, or you probably haven't set up a context of sexuality and no judgment.
Chase mentions those 16-year-old virgin girls who say that they want to wait until marriage, and how eventually they will lose their virginity before they reach 30. I think this is true as well. I'm 21 years old, and I live in a country where religion is very important (or religions, since we have a lot of those here), and society is very unforgiving when it comes to sex before marriage and this kind of stuff. And this degree of conditioning causes girls to want to stick to their ideals and stay virgins until they get married, mainly because they believe that if they want to get married and the guy finds out that the girl is not a virgin he will not do it and bring shame on her and her family. However, I know a girl who's still a virgin, but she's given quite a few HJs and BJs and I don't know what else. Another friend of mine said she was a virgin but she does masturbate and that it's normal. But I believe that as they get older they will eventually realize how silly that is and eventually lose their virginity.
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Asexual girls will probably not have sex with you unless they are in love with you and want to make you happy, idk. Unlike lesbians, they have nothing to gain from sex. They can't even get horny.
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The chances that she is actually asexual are astronomically low. Had a girl back in November tell me such a thing, but was wet as hell everytime I fingered her. Eventually fucked her and changed her mind about being asexual. It was just that all men before her pressured her into sex and she never had a good time, as it seems, since she has booty called me a few times.
I've met one girl back at school who identified as Ace (asexual) and I only sorta believe her, because she had asperger's. I think there's a link between the two, as well (and she was like a 2; we were just classmates, but she wrote her senior thesis on asexuality; one of the worst paper's I've ever read and the fact that they let it fly as a philosophy senior thesis was an insult to the craft).
In your case, 99% chance she's lying and has just had terrible experiences with men.
Hector
I've met one girl back at school who identified as Ace (asexual) and I only sorta believe her, because she had asperger's. I think there's a link between the two, as well (and she was like a 2; we were just classmates, but she wrote her senior thesis on asexuality; one of the worst paper's I've ever read and the fact that they let it fly as a philosophy senior thesis was an insult to the craft).
In your case, 99% chance she's lying and has just had terrible experiences with men.
Hector
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Hey,
I agree, it's very unlikely that's she's asexual.
Some authors, however, classify women into Low Sex Drive (LD), and High Sex Drive (HD). See Joseph W. South books, and all books by his co-author Franco (not the same as GC's Franco). This fits nicely with my experience. LD or HD doesn't necessarily refer to the amount of sexual activity the girl has, but more about how much control she has on her own arousal. LD women tend to have a better control on their own sex drive, and therefore require more effort to bring into a sexual state. They may look more "asexual", but it's really (unconscious) self control.
Whether LD or HD, once they're aroused, they're all extremely sexual beings.
Cheers,
Seppuku
I agree, it's very unlikely that's she's asexual.
Some authors, however, classify women into Low Sex Drive (LD), and High Sex Drive (HD). See Joseph W. South books, and all books by his co-author Franco (not the same as GC's Franco). This fits nicely with my experience. LD or HD doesn't necessarily refer to the amount of sexual activity the girl has, but more about how much control she has on her own arousal. LD women tend to have a better control on their own sex drive, and therefore require more effort to bring into a sexual state. They may look more "asexual", but it's really (unconscious) self control.
Whether LD or HD, once they're aroused, they're all extremely sexual beings.
Cheers,
Seppuku
Anatman said:
Really, you've managed to get an "asexual" girl into bed? 0.o Haha, this impresses me even more now, I guess the skill of the writers on GC are no joke. Is there anything you would recommend doing differently with supposedly asexual girls? The only thing I could think of at the moment is that perhaps these girls are sexually/emotionally insecure, and perhaps would need to fall in love to be comfortable having sex (that's the vibe I'm getting from this one girl). I'm really good (perhaps too good) at presenting myself as high value boyfriend-material, so if it's the case that I need to get her emotionally bonding then I don't have a problem. However, if you think I should be even MORE sexual, then I'm not sure how well I'd do, as I've said I'm only a beginner. Also, I'd just like to note that I'm NOT fixated on one girl, I have plenty of abundance mentality, it's just that I would like to see if I can accomplish "converting" an asexual girl. So what are you thoughts on tactics in this situation?