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Girl 1: when it rains girls, it pours girls. Walking around the small space, I see several good looking girls to talk to but can only choose one because I would OBVIOUSLY look like a player trying to talk to girls and that would be negative social proof. I think. I decide to take my chances and approach the best looking one, a sexy tanned latina in daisy dukes, as opposed to the more likely thing, a cute redhead. I just discovered and was watching an episode of "QI" just before this so I was in damn good spirits. I felt unawkward and easy but probably not that sexy and still not so smooth in game which is why she was not responsive to my advances (that and I probably caught her off-guard). She weaves something about her boyfriend in her responses, which I ignore naturally because this is just her smooth way of trying to make me go away. Cool,though, that I've become socially aware enough to notice that. Making progress! I disengage myself because I know it's a lost cause.
To improve on: time to do something with my hair but I'm reticent about layering clothing in nearly 100 degree weather, voice definitely, sexy eyes
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Girl 2: I approach but she is from Turkey and hardly speaks english! But she is still very friendly and lets me stand quite close (probably a cultural difference, Americans tend to have bigger personal space bubbles than some europeans). The difficulty of communicating throws nearly all my game out the window but I am able to still be quite amiable and curious. She does not want to give her number so I give her mine and call myself so I get the number anyway. Is this manipulative? Kinda seems like it since I have to resort to tricks to get what I want. Ideally, she should WANT to give me her number to meet me again.
To improve on: don't be fazed, stay on target (but don't fill your mind with expectations), try out yes ladders
Summary: be easier, smoother, sexier body language, yes ladders
Girl 1: when it rains girls, it pours girls. Walking around the small space, I see several good looking girls to talk to but can only choose one because I would OBVIOUSLY look like a player trying to talk to girls and that would be negative social proof. I think. I decide to take my chances and approach the best looking one, a sexy tanned latina in daisy dukes, as opposed to the more likely thing, a cute redhead. I just discovered and was watching an episode of "QI" just before this so I was in damn good spirits. I felt unawkward and easy but probably not that sexy and still not so smooth in game which is why she was not responsive to my advances (that and I probably caught her off-guard). She weaves something about her boyfriend in her responses, which I ignore naturally because this is just her smooth way of trying to make me go away. Cool,though, that I've become socially aware enough to notice that. Making progress! I disengage myself because I know it's a lost cause.
To improve on: time to do something with my hair but I'm reticent about layering clothing in nearly 100 degree weather, voice definitely, sexy eyes
Gym
Girl 2: I approach but she is from Turkey and hardly speaks english! But she is still very friendly and lets me stand quite close (probably a cultural difference, Americans tend to have bigger personal space bubbles than some europeans). The difficulty of communicating throws nearly all my game out the window but I am able to still be quite amiable and curious. She does not want to give her number so I give her mine and call myself so I get the number anyway. Is this manipulative? Kinda seems like it since I have to resort to tricks to get what I want. Ideally, she should WANT to give me her number to meet me again.
To improve on: don't be fazed, stay on target (but don't fill your mind with expectations), try out yes ladders
Summary: be easier, smoother, sexier body language, yes ladders
