University!

[Bete Noire]

Alright lads, I've made it! The so called haven of pussy, university!

Except my first week here has been surprisingly unsuccessful and things appear totally different to when i was headin' out to bars in Budapest and Manchester!

It's a campus university so the main student union bar/club is on site and can host thousands, however unlike a bar theres now social pressure on the girls to not seem like sluts and wayyyy less action and approaching on my end.

Should i be doin' the same as before??? Literally catchin' their eye and a 'evenin' lass'? No girls are on there own here, and i feel like, even though looks aren't the most important, that i simply don't compete with the rugby jocks at this sports college.

I've put 2 years into pick-up now and if i'm honest was only recently takin' massive action which has stopped since i started here.

What do you guys recommend doin'? I feel like approachin' those hotties is goin' to get me such a shitty name and decrease results in the future!

I know Hectors got a book comin' out soon which i will be grabbin' but i need a process to follow till then and to know whether things have changed now i am at a campus uni where reputations are sacred and i do not physically compete with these jocks which is a main proponent in these one night stands!

All advice welcome lads, want to get back on track and finally slayin' <3

Cheers,

Rob

 

[Bboy100]

First of all, take into account the size of your school. Is it 5,000 people or 50,000? There's a massive difference in anonymity between the two. Act accordingly. The bigger the school, the more viable cold approach is. If its smaller, I would recommend doing mostly social circle.
Second, understand that no one is going to give you shit for talking up girls at night. That's perfectly fine and in fact, is encouraged. Everything you said about reputation and not being able to compete with jocks and girls not wanting to be slutty etc. is just a rationalization for why you shouldn't approach. The only thing I don't recommend doing is "mass approaching". That is, blatantly hitting on 40 different girls via direct opener in the same venue on the same night. You can do this in a big city and get away with it. But at a more socially connected place like a college campus, you'll get a negative reputation pretty quickly. You can still talk to a lot of girls. And you can still direct open. Just don't do both at the same time all the time. That's all.

Alright lads, I've made it! The so called haven of pussy, university!

True and false. Girls are definitely more open to no-strings-attached sex in college than they will be in almost any other time of their lives. But the guys there are also mostly socially inexperienced. So keep in mind that the vast majority of college guys don't get laid as much as the media and society in general tells us they do. Its only a "haven of pussy" if you already have some game.

What do you guys recommend doin'?

After a few years of trial and error, I've finally figured this college thing out. Here's a quick guide:
1. SOCIAL CIRCLE. No way around it. Almost every guy I see who's successful in college utilizes social circle to some extent. Join a group or organization which you like which also has lots of girls in it. Could be a Greek system, could be a popular club or organization on campus. Or you can just make friends with a few people and have them introduce you to their already massive social circle. Doesn't matter how you do it. Just find one. From there on out, you want to just focus on having fun. That's literally it. Don't "game" the girls. Don't tryhard to have sex with them. None of that is necessary in college. Especially not social circle. All you have to do is come off as a sociable, fun to hang out with guy. And I guarantee you girls will start wanting the D. And it starts with what I just said. Go out to have fun and meet new people. Do whatever it takes to put a smile on your face and to have a good night Don't focus on game. Don't focus on sex. Believe me, it will come on it own.

Ok, if your school is small (less than 10000 people), just stick to social circle exclusively. The rest won't get you too far. Plus, by the end of your four years, you'll probably know almost every girl on campus anyways. But if its even a small "medium sized school", you can incorporate these other elements as well:

Night Game: Still go out to just have fun. But do whatever the fuck you want. Do you feel like trying to makeout with a girl without even talking to her? Go for it. Want to come up to a random set and ask them for a threesome? Do it. Want to just get hammered and see where the night takes you? I approve. Most people don't really remember most of what you do at parties anyways (unless its a super small one). So you might as well do whatever the fuck you want. I guarantee you at least some of it will lead to sex. Almost all of it will lead to a great time. Caveat: If you're still struggling with approach anxiety, you might want to go out with the goal of specifically talking to girls. Just so you don't rationalize away not approaching because you're "just trying to have fun".

Day Game: Ok...this is where you want to be careful. Just as I don't recommend mass approaching at night, I also don't recommend going out to do "daygame sessions". Instead, I'd just talk to cute girls as you see them throughout your day. Typically you want to open indirect. You want to show them that you're a cool guy, then invite them in to your social circle or just ask them out on a date directly. Also, calibrate the number of approaches per day to your school's size. Unless you have 30000+ people at your school, I wouldn't recommend "day gaming" more than a few girls per day.

Online: If you feel like putting in the work to make a great online profile, this can be a pretty good way to meet girls in college too. Not as fun as the other methods though.

And that's pretty much it.

 

[Bete Noire]

Thank you so much BBoy!

You've helped me with advice so much on this journey! I took the ol' advice on social circle and it's already reapin' rewards with me now bein' introduced into loads of different ladies with 2 bein' available tonight! Social circle is the way and it just took longer than i thought (Day 11) to set it up and have it work ^^

School is about 15,000 so i'm usin' social circle and 'cold approach' when i get given invitations or create them successfully! Realized tonight my verbal game needs some work as i'm not spiking as much as i could be/ not bein' fun enough.

I just needed to chill out, i can compete with the jocks as i saw tonight, it's just i wasn't putting myself in the situations where horny girls could talk to me. I can't force a girl to be down if she just isn't

Thanks for pointin' out these backwards rationalizations, this place is beautiful to get feedback for shit you don't even realize you're doing!

 

[NotJamesBond]

College lad here.

I can attest to how essential social circle is. Hell, a broad approached ME when I was getting involved in stuff. I flubbed it (one of those things that had to happen for me to realize inner flaws) but it was a confidence booster.