URGENT please help?

[whatawda]

I was out with my girlfriend and she’s shy etc…

I said that my friend will come soon because we'll go to party later and she went home with bus. So when friend arrived she was acting little different.
We were both holding hands but when we stopped she didn’t even tried to hug me, hold my hand plus she was looking at him sometimes and was positioned directly to him.
Even when I moved little to her side so she wouldn’t see me she didn’t even tried to move.
What do you think? Is she playing games with me?

What I did is that I just looked at some unknown girl there and I kept looking at her and she saw it that I was looking at the girl. I don't know if I did right but I was little angry.. she didn't even tried a bit.

When her bus arrived we said goodbye kissed each other she looked at me as well as my friend.

 

[normajean106]

So what's the question? All I'm reading is "URGENT please help?".

First of all, chill dude. This post has "needy" written all over it and that's bound to drive any girl away.

Second, I don't know what's going on. All I'm hearing is that your upset because your girl wasn't giving you attention (?) and then something or other was going on with your friend.

So chill out for a second, clear your head, then explain the context of the story when you're ready.

 

[whatawda]

Ok. I don't know how to explain.

So the story is like that first I was out with girlfriend and my friend came because me and my friend went to the party, but before that we were waiting for her bus to come (she went home) when we were waiting for bus she wasn't even positioned to me, but directly looking at him. When I moved to left side she didn't even tried to rotate, neither looked at me. She was acting different.

Sometimes she was just smiling to his jokes which they weren't even funny. Also when we both said goodbye she looked at me and my friend

Is she playing some kind of games with me?

 

[normajean106]

Ok. I don't know how to explain.

So the story is like that first I was out with girlfriend and my friend came because me and my friend went to the party, but before that we were waiting for her bus to come (she went home) when we were waiting for bus she wasn't even positioned to me, but directly looking at him. When I moved to left side she didn't even tried to rotate, neither looked at me. She was acting different.

Sometimes she was just smiling to his jokes which they weren't even funny. Also when we both said goodbye she looked at me and my friend

Is she playing some kind of games with me?

Alright I see what you're saying now.

So you're worried that your girlfriend is flirting with another dude.

Alright, there could be a ton of reasons why she was giving you the cold shoulder.

She could be trying to make you jealous for one. Another is that you did something that pissed her off and this is her way of getting back. Or it could be something else entirely.

My advice? Move on, and don't worry about this stuff.

Chances are, she wasn't even trying to do anything.

But know that you will drive your girlfriend away if you display this kind of needy behavior. Its not attractive to girls when they see their boyfriend freak out just because she smiled at another guy.

So don't worry, and don't obsess about this, because its probably nothing anyway, and I'm almost certain that she isn't playing games with you.