vanillakiller's journal

[vanillakiller]

saw this girl walking up the stairs in front of me so i decide to go in. i catch up to her and open only to realise her face isnt all that anyway i decide to stick with it just for the experience. she wasnt ugly just...meh. anyway i open her complimenting herbon her style, which wasnt too shabby in any case. She asks me what i study blah blah blah i use her comment about trying to find a job to jump into a mini dive about dreams and we end up on the subject of travel which i thought was cool. i cant exactly remember what thread followed that one but i ended up going for the number by suggesting a possible meetup for hot chocolate or ice cream (the weathers been all over the place here lately so the contrast made sense) and she seemed keen but my phone was at home so i had her type my number in her phone and press dial. then i tried something new: i tried pecking her on the cheek just to see where she was at in regards to my touch and she pushed my chest away with her forearm which i thought was an extreme reaction but i wished her goodbye and went on my way.

Another approach i did today this girl was sitting down at a bench so i walk up beside her and open direct. she mumbles a thank you and i proceed with to ask her what she does and i tease her a little bit. shes having none of it, denying all my teases about her which was followed by me promptly running out of things to say. my mind drew a hard blank. i wished her a good day and i was off

 

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i was sitting down at a bench with my bag watching dat good youtube on my tablet when i see this blonde chick with the most intense tan walking past me. So i get up, run around this wall in front of me and run to catch up to her. i stop her and tell her through laboured breathing i thought she was cute. i then proceed to try mix in some banter with get-to-know you stuff, admittedly a tad too many questions on my end. we end up talking about family when i tell her i gotta rush and we should meetup for a hot chocolate later. she said yeah and gave me her number. i gave her a hug and wished her goodbye

 

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another quick approach this girl was waiting for an elevator in the library so i decided to jump in the elevator and chat her up there. she was a very short indian girl with long brown dyed hair and huge tits and ass :0 i open indirect direct, i think my second sentence i said to her was that she was kinda cute. anyway i tease her on the stack of papers she has in her hand. she goes on a mini-story about her workload. i can tell my conversation is started fizzling at this point but im walking alongside her as we're leaving. i reinitiate with her coz the library exit is a single file turnstile type deal and we walk for a bit and while she monologoues and i once again run aground conversationally. i bid her a good day she does the same and i go my own way.

specific points i could've done differently: i shouldve asked her where she was going to take my mind off logistics and focus on conversation. i actually thought of going for the instant date but stressing about where she was going prevented me from doing this. i defs shouldve gone for the instant hot chocolate it felt right but it is what it is.
I really need to get my conversation flowing well and exploring threads better.

i couldve also gone for the number regardless of how flaky it mightve been. im never gonna see her again anyway

any insights would be welcomed

 

[vanillakiller]

so i'm in the computer lab doing a whole lotta nothing when this chick comes to sit next to me.. i glance and notice shes on the ugly side so i go back to what i was doing...a few minutes later her cute friend grabs a chair and pulls up next to her.. the ugly one gets up to consult the printer and i take the opportunity to open indirect since i gigured if i go direct and it goes sideways it might be a bit awkward with her sitting there. so after a bit of silence she reengages me asking what im doing and we talk about tv shows for a minute bcoz i was downloading.. we move on to talking about food...this conversation is kinda all over the place. soon after this i can tell they are bout to finish up so i go for the number.. she offers facebook which i just ignored. then she sais she got a new number and hasnt memorised it so she whips out her phone and searches for herself and reads out her number which i put into my tablet.. a fe minutes later when weve gone our separate ways i text her my name. that evening i chat her up over text just coz i felt the initial set wasnt too amazing. i close off by telling her we should grab ice cream and I offer her two different days to meetup. she throws her schedule between us and i say cool ill drop her a line sometime next week to see if something clears up.

my plan to be honest is to check in again late in the week then maybe drop a "balls in your court" text early nexk week.

im in half a mind to just delete her number...for my own sanity

 

[vanillakiller]

So im walking about in the university cafeteria when i notice this chick standing by herself staring into space. shes wearing headphones.. i love making girls take off their headphones btw...anywhoo shes also wearing a pink sleeve less top with lace at the top exposing her cleavage and tight skinny jeans wrapped around healthy thighs I go in and tell her i thought she was cute. she says thank you. i follow up with what r u studying.. after she tells me i launch into a cold read, which she laps up happily. we get into travel (somehow) before i feel the burning heat of running out of conversstion... i go for the number and i get hit with the boyfriend line. i decide to bounce (a little too quickly in retrospect) and wish her a good day.

 

[vanillakiller]

this will be quick... so im chilling outside in the quad when i see this long haired tan chick walking in the other direction away from me towards these lecture rooms on the other side of the quad. i decide to go in. shes far away so i break into a light jog just to catch up....i stop her and tell her i thought she looked cute..she walks around me as im talking.. I catch up to her again and ask her whats her name...she tells me "im not telling you my name" and continues walking past me. i knee jerk reply "seriously?!?"...silence on her end. i wish her a good day and bounce.

P.S as im typing this im talking to a cute girl sitting next to me in the library. well trying to anyway... and its over

 

[vanillakiller]

just as an aside to "tan girl" blowing me out...i wonder why she blew me out so hard.... i usually get either very warm or slightly weirded out reactions from the hottest girls i approach on the open.. she wasnt the hottest girl iv approach but she wasnt ugly either...i really liked her look.. maybe her self confidence isnt where it should be bcoz she was slightly overweight... nothing crazy just..u know thick.. anyway i guess a girls self esteem has little to do with her objective hotness to guys but how hot she views herself as being and how often she gets hit on. Either way its on to the next one

 

[vanillakiller]

i was chilling on a flight of stairs when this blazing hot indian girl walks up a couple of metres to the side of me. my bag is not on my back so i quickly zip it up and put it on all this while shes walking rapidly away. i get up and jog to catch up to her...i come around and put up my hand policeman style while delivering my opener.. she tells me shes rushing while walking away from me. i re-catch up to her while trying to get her to introduce myself. she keeps walking and i slow down, giving up.

immediately afterwards i was kicking myself for not being more persistent and i couldve walked with her while continuing the set. lesson learned the hard way.

 

[vanillakiller]

two quick number closes on campus and one set where i kinda messed up. here goes

so im walking slowly past this lecture block and i see this girl sitting by herself fiddling with her phone..she's wearing green? jeans and a blue top and has blonde streaks in her hair... yum yum i go and sit right next to her as i open direct. she immediately opens up and smiles warmly as i introduce myself and she does the same. i ask her what she studies-its become standard after i open as I've found its high percentage for both teasing and getting her talking about her dreams or childhood. she tells me she does microbiology and i launch into a mini-cold read which she gladly laps up and then we're talking about her goals and her parents after i ask her if its always wanted to do. i think after this thread i mention having to bounce and go for the number.. i get it and she teases me about not being able to spell her name... i give her a hug after suggesting a meetup and bounce. i intend to text her my name and number soon today

second number close today. im milling about in the lecture room block when i see this chick sitting on this wall\seat thingie.. she wearing a pink tank top, white booty shorts and track shoes....now theres a lot of people going in and out of class so im kinda felling some pressure of them seeing me approach a stranger but decide to just suck it up and do it anyway. shes really warm on the open and we converse for a bit mostly me teasing her mixed in with some questions about herself. her friend comes over while im talking to her and i bring her into the conversation while number closing the cute one. i need to write these up soon after the approach i always forget what we talked about

third set-i see this cute indian girl wearing jean shorts and cowgirl boots walking in the quad as im walking the other way. i let her walk past then run up to catch up to her then open by making a cowgirl joke..she laughs as i tell her i thought she was cute and i had to come say hi. i use my standard follow up to set her up for some light teasing. just as i leading into sone rapport stuff she tells me she needs to get to class and stupid vanillakiller....lets her go...aggggghhh ill be more persistent next time

 

[vanillakiller]

i had an extremely busy and stressful day at campus today.. i am there to study after all not just to daygame guys anyway as I'm walking outside this office block i see this brunette sitting on a bench staring at her phone so all i see is brown hair...no face.. i walk over and open her.. when she looks up at me i can tell she's a bit older than the student crowd.. at this point I'm thinking 26/7 ... she's really cute tho so im thinking im just gonna burn it to the ground. anyway i open by telling her shes cute and she *lights up immediately* as i transition into a fairly amateurish rapport she asks me questions about me.. after a while she gets a little uncomfortable with the age thing i think (6 yrs diff tween us) in concert with me struggling to move this conversation and i had a legitimate time constraint.

so yeah my mistakes: not sitting down at the begging next to her that was my biggest problem..it made it more awkward the longer the set went on.

second approach today i see this indian girl wearing a very short dress sitting by herself on the same bench as above (i need to consult this bench more often) just later in the


those legs tho so i go in...i open direct as always..her eyes and face light up as she introduces herself.. i cold read and tease her a bit and she quickly qualifies herself to me...and then (and its not even 2pm) her ride comes and she has to go home..after telling me she enjoyed meeting me

and the last one i approached today isnt much to tell i saw her in the cafeteria and went to sit down next to her as i opened her. it was one of those where u think shes ok enough when u go in but once u see her up close she was very cute. anyway we exchange names and then after of two minutes of nonsense from me i promptly and firmly run out of things to say and wish her a good day

i need a solution to that problem

im keen to hit up some more cuties tomorrow

So im outchea on campus on this rainy wednesday wondering how im gonna stop girls in the rain.. im not too fond of gaming in the lecture halls... they'll be dry but girls there are usually rushing to class. ironic how daygame makes me wanna buy an umbrella now i guess being able to hold her under an umbrella when gaming on rainy days can help me stop her from walking (running?) away from me.

So there i am just outside the lecture in this zone where its outside but still kinda dry and i see this indian girl with bright red lipsticked lips and huge tatas walking towards me. i think of not approaching her but i go in anyway. i tell her shes cute and:

VK (walking alongside): excuse me, one sec. I saw you and >pregnant pause>
Her: yes?
VK: i though you were cute and had to come say hello
her: thanks
VK: im vanillakiller (shake hands) and you are?
Her: name thats really hard to remember
VK: U have a very hip-hop look about you
her: ooookay i guess
VK: what no strong opinions?
Her: *little speech qualifying herself about her opinions*
side note: her speech was hella quiet and i was getting tired of trying to hear her and walk aside her because she was rushing to class and im actually walking in the opposite direction to where to i need to be so:
Me: i like that.. having people around me who can handle their own... coz i can be a bit much sometimes
Her: oh i can handle (smug expression)
Vk: now u seem like trouble (smirk)
Her: oh no im blah bla blah
VK: listen im really in a rush but maybe we can (number close)
Her: (a long winded rejection basically)
VK: ok have a good day

 

[vanillakiller]

ok so another quick report here... im moving through an open corridor and i see this rather tall,for me anyway, blonde girl with the most unforgettable thighs walking towards me. i cant see her face yet nd it doesnt look promising. i debate approaching her until she gets closer and i can see she's really cute so i stop her and belt out my opener in fact i hardly remember what is was, it was direct though. She seems chilled about the whole deal like she's used to being hit on in the day. shes warm though..like most naturally beautiful girls i talk to in the daytime. we get talking about what she does and a little bit about what she got up to in high school with teasing a little bit not enough tho IMO then i tell her im in a bit of a rush (opening her made me late for class) so maybe when i have a few minutes we can hang...she says ok while i search for the app that lets you add contacts on my phone...i ask her whats her number and as im typing it in she turns the screen towards herself and types in the number herself. then helps me with spelling on her name... as im saying goodbye i try to hug her and she balks.. saying she needs to know someone before hugging. i extend my fist and she bumps it and we part ways.

that interaction was defs too short

 

[vanillakiller]

so im chillng in the library looking for a place to sit and the only place to sit in there is next to a fat chick so im like fuck it might as well sit down and practise my conversation on this girl. so im parked off next to her and shes yawns and streches so i open with you like u need a break. she agress and smiles as i introduce myself. she tells me her name. im actually writing the previous field report while talking to her i then to proceed to tease her about the fact that she stopped studying..shes giggling and smiling as i deep dive her for the next 20 minutes which may be the longest conversation iv had on cold approach. during this i find out she has a boyfriend which i couldnt believe but i wasnt disappointed either coz well i didnt want her anyway. anyway she has to go so i bid her farewell and silently pray i dont bump into her again considering how well it went. i took her number just to get used to asking for numbers and deleted it once she left

 

[vanillakiller]

Iv been chickening out of too many approaches over the last two days.. that lurking demon of AA although its much much better than it used to be.. anyway im walking to the cafe when i see this cute cat sitting down reading... ahh dat throwback to my high school days when i used to read a lot. shes sitting at a table with two benches, the empty bench being the one closer to me as walking closer and its also the unoccupied one. i sit down opposite her. shes wearing earphones and doesnt see me signalling her to take them off. i sit down not knowing this at the time and deliver my opener. she takes the phones off and asks me to repeat myself. i tell her I thought she was cute and i had to come say hello. shes says thank you as we exchange names and make a comment about her book. she and i trade stories about books we've read. i somehow end up screening her on her cooking skills (my memory for dialogue is hella shaky) and i tease her a bit after she tells me shes not much of a cook. we move to some other topics like how wild she is when i realise this girl is not giving a miligram of investment in this interaction. she looks away after every thread, she still hasnt asked a single question or volunteered any information other than the bare minimum to answer my question. at one point i decide im wasting mytime with this girl and wishher a good day and bounce.

 

[vanillakiller]

Ey iv been slack in posting up reports. iv been approaching a lot more than usual ut havent been posting. i will say tho iv noticed i need to be a lot more aggressive in my interactions so im definitely gonna make that a focus. iv done two approaches today but the girl was legit busy and i found out the other is in one of my classes so i just kept it chill in case we meetup again
. i couldnt stop ogling her tits hahs need to cut it out and get my eye contact game dialed in.