It's been a busy week though I haven't stopped working towards what I want. I approached a really cute girl the other day and got her number that made me realize approaching girls is extremely easy and that's great to know. Now I need to approach girls in situations I'm uncomfortable with. Like the one's sitting down or in groups. I have noticed that if I don't hesitate I don't have a chance to come up with excuses not to approach.
I feel like I've completed the newbie assignment. I've done all the task, some of with more success then others. I've asked and got phone number from multiple girls. I will continue to practice and get better at approaching though I do have a question about approaching. Yesterday I noticed every time I see an attractive girl I think I need to go say hi which is fine. The perplexing part is when I don't and then start contemplating going back and saying something. When does this become an over investment on my part and how should I deal with it?
I went to see the doctor office yesterday and they cleaned out my ears poorly I should add. I stopped at Trader Joe's and while looking at the coffee this girl positioned herself near me or was getting a sample didn't matter she was cute. I asked her how her sample coffee was and frustrated with my ear I left it at that all though I didn't want to. When I was walking out to my car I saw her again and I wanted to ask her out so I walked after her and by the time I got there she was already seated. This was an awkward situation, I can't hear out of one ear and I'm asking this girl who's seated in a car if she's single. She said she wasn't and I was perfectly fine with it and went our separate ways. I was however quit proud of myself for fighting through all of the excuses I could of come up with to ask a simple question.
I have not given up, I've just been having hearing problems. So I have put my street approaching on hold for a few and expect to have the issue resolved next week. On the plus side I have gone on a two dates recently and brought the girls home. I then slept with them and it was effortless. I am learning!