Ways to Get a Girl Home after Dancing?

[Gamecrasher]

Hey guys,

So I was wondering if there were any ways to bring a girl home after grinding on the dance floor. I'm not sure if Chase or anyone mentioned it. I've gotten to the point where I get a girl to dance with me, and sometimes it gets to the point of intimacy while on the dance floor. Sometimes, I'll kiss her neck, then eventually we start making out. But later on, I'm wondering to myself, will there be more of this going on later in the night?

Eventually, there isn't. The girl's friend soon tells the girl I'm dancing with that it's time to leave, so she does. She says, "Thank you," and that's it. This has happened to me twice so far.

I'm pretty sure I have to be more persistent in her staying, right? Or is there another technique out there for this?

Thanks in advance

- Gamecrasher

 

[Jay]

Gamecrasher,

This is a problem a lot of us have ran into many times, and the simplest solution is actually to avoid trying to pick up women on the dance floor altogether. It is very difficult to maintain the sexual tension created while grinding, making out, etc on the dance floor long enough to take a woman to bed. When you give away so much on the dance floor, this leaves the girl wanting more right then and there, and if you don't have a place to go about it real close by, she gets bored and leaves.

Success in dance floor pickup can sometimes be found if the girl is willing to get intimate in a relatively public place (bathroom, alleyway, your car, etc), but this requires very tight physical game and speed to pull off, and even then a lot of girls will shoot you down as soon as you start to lead them towards sex in a public place.

That being said, if you really want to try it, I have had some luck with dancing with a girl, generally avoiding making out/fingering her on the floor but touching her and grinding on her a lot, building tension, then I will take her hand and lead her to one of the aforementioned semipublic places and very quickly escalate. All of this requires minimal time spent dancing, minimal time spend leading her to where you are going, and immediate escalation when you reach your destination.

Making out and more on the dance floor can be really hot, and is a damn good time, but usually I don't take home any of the girls I dance with. Sometimes I will even make eye contact with a girl sitting at the bar while I am dancing with a girl for some preselection, but afterwards I always open and close the girl I saw at the bar, not the one I was grinding on.

Good luck and have fun man,

Jay

 

[Franco]

Hey Gamecrasher,

Jay pretty much hit it home. If you want more information, check out this article:

Tactics Tuesdays: Dance Floor Game

Cheers,

Franco

 

[Gamecrasher]

Wow, thanks guys. Jay's response and the article really helped me understand this! I'll slot this into my mind for tonight