Expectations Weird behavior from a girl im seeing?

[TomInHo]

1. She never asks if I’m seeing anyone else, never seems to care if I’ve been with another girl. I go on trips once a month, and she never asks if I’ve been with another girl. Why? Don’t you think if she was really into me then she would care who I was with?

She's in the honeymoon phase and enjoying time with her new boyfriend. Which is you

So even though she knows you're seeing other girls, she doesn't want to bring it up and look needy in yours eyes. Because right now she's on her best behavior while campaigning to become your official girlfriend

Hence, she doesn't want to ruin her chances and potentially kill the fantasy... Ever heard of the saying "ignorance is bliss" ?

2. We don’t follow each other on social media. I casually told her once that i dont really care about it and she said the same. I always thought girls that were really into you would always be watching your stories on instagram and shit, or trying to figure out what you’re doing at any given moment, but it seems like she doesnt care to know. My experiences with past women show that they ALWAYS want to know if they’re really into you so something feels weird here

This girl seems socially savvy so I doubt she wants you to know that she follows you.

Since she's in love, I wouldn't be surprised if she has a burner account or has one of her girlfriends spying on you and giving her intel.

It doesn't really matter much but you can prove this by withholding information from her in person, and only sharing it a lot on social media, because she might slip up and reveal that she knows way more than you think

I once had a girlfriend like this. She never followed me on social media, then I started going on hikes without her and posting about them. Then she magically told me she was into hiking as well. I then got an obsession with an anime called Baki the Grappler, and she all of a sudden thought it would be a great idea if we took Jujutsu classes together.

I never shared those things with her, so thought it was odd that her interest were starting to mirror mine over time..

Probably because she was trying to use everything she could to become the perfect girlfriend and get me to commit

3. She hasn't tried to push for commitment even once after 3 months, or even hint at it?

It's only been 3 months

She's hoping all the other girls will fall off and you will realize how amazing she is

But if she doesn't see any progress, she may test your commitment by pushing for more time together, and hence eliminate the other options

4. Lately (just in the past week literally) ive initiated more calls and texts than her (she didnt initiate this past week, i dod). She picked up the call no later than second ring every time no matter what she was doing, and i was always the one to end the call first, but something still feels like she slightly distanced herself. Am i overthinking? because clearly her actions show full investment and plenty of devotion

It's probably nothing because it's been only a week.

But if the pattern continues, she may be trying to distance herself to re-evaluate the long term potential of the relationship, and test if your frame will buckle