Weirdest 0-100 triggering/ awkward moment in seduction.

[Bete Noire]

So I'm committed, getting as much reference experience as I can, playin' that devil may care and just saying whatever is in my head.

I'm chatting to a cutie and her friend is givin' me the middle finger so I say to her:

'Hey you'll get your turn calm down!' Which I agree is very cocky/arrogant but I literally couldn't give a fuck at the time.

She replied 'I'm not attracted to you because you don't have a dick'

I'm like 'wut lmao?!' thinkin' it was some kind of complex insult but it turned out she was lesbian.

I said 'That's so cool, you don't give off a lesbian vibe!'

And the cutie turns to me and starts ranting:

'You catagorize people, aren't accepting, close minded ect'

I mean we went from talking about her passions to that. I was stunned.

I asked her genuinely what she felt I did wrong and she said it was the 'lesbian vibe comment'

I explained that i wasn't wrong, man to woman is because we are attracted whilst a lesbian doesn't chat in the same way, she stayed sitting with me whilst her friends left but wasn't having any of it.

I just left and continued my night. Do you guys feel what I said was wrong, and she was justified - I'm guessing ignoring her friend would have been best in this situation. Her still chillin' with me after the friends left was interesting, do I win if i supplicate and apologize or was walking away correct?

Cheers lads - long post but just typin' whilst it's fresh in my mind.

 

[ViPizzle]

Well for starters, why do you think her friend was giving you the finger? Is there something you're leaving out? - because I'm assuming most sane humans wouldn't do that without fair grounds. In any case, assuming you didn't do or say anything serious to offend her friend, ignoring her gesture would have avoided any negative vibes and kept the focus on escalating with the cutie. Keep your eye on the reason why you're talking to the cutie and you won't be sidetracked by any petty drama..and if you happen to find yourself in the middle of it, keep your attitude light, your remarks effortlessly humorous, and a grin/smile on your face. Cut any negative/pointless topics short and get back to focusing on building your dynamic with your cutie. Hope that helps!

 

[Bete Noire]

ahah that was my reaction at the time! 'What is this insane chick doing to some guy she doesn't know!' Focus on the interaction and creating that bubble next time, roger.