What Affirmations Have Helped You The Most?

[lceman]

Hey all, I thought it would be cool if we all shared the affirmations that have been most helpful for us.

What I want to remind myself of regularly:
to think of women I see from a sexual standpoint
to approach them no matter the circumstances
== to do whatever needs to be done to reach my goals
to act confidently/ as a sexy, high value man

Affirmations:
I do whatever needs to be done.
I'm a sexy man and all attractive girls can sense it.

My personal favorite, for whenever I start to think reactively: Don't think for a second that you're in my head, because I'm in YOUR head.



While it's easy to come up with a hundred sentences that affirm some belief, it's hard to find a good catchphrase that resonates with you. Realistically, it's probably best to pick 2 or 3 affirmations to repeat throughout the day (not just to your mirror in the morning). That last one has definitely helped me in the field, so it's a keeper. I haven't found a good mantra about thinking sexually or doing what needs to be done yet.


What are your favorite/most helpful affirmations?

 

[Zoro]

I like affirmations, but they are like icing on a cake.

The cake is:
the actual belief
Taking action that aligns with those beliefs
Confidence from experiences
experience that leads to competence.

 

[Zoro]

That being said, sometimes I say, “I’m the DOM LOB!” Referencing the lobsters from Jordan Peterson’s 12 Rules for Life.

Other things that contribute to forward momentum besides affirmations:
Working out
Cold showers
Getting to do list items checked off
Winning
Building something
Creating art
Tantric sex
Semen retention
Eating well
Sleeping well
Limiting time on your phone/screen

“I can’t fuck it up even if I tried” is another affirmation I like.

“I’ve got a golden magical cock” sometimes I tell girls this. And I blame good things that have happened to her on my Penis having been inside her.

 

[lceman]

I like affirmations, but they are like icing on a cake.

The cake is:
the actual belief
Taking action that aligns with those beliefs

Agreed, and affirming those beliefs (at least for me) helps in the stage before they are not fully cemented in your brain

“I can’t fuck it up even if I tried” is another affirmation I like.

“I’ve got a golden magical cock” sometimes I tell girls this. And I blame good things that have happened to her on my Penis having been inside her.

Lmao, I might have to steal this. Especially that last one.

 

[Starboy]

"I am enough"
"Women want dick"
"Women want my attention"
"Women want to be approached"
"I'm a masculine entity"
"I'm not my game "
I could probably say 15 more,but you get the idea.

 

[DoWhatWorks]

"I am enough"

+1

"I give girls a great time" is another for me....

and If I'm on some ignorant hood shii

"I get tings, this is nothing new"

 

[Alpha13SC]

I am the FUCKING MAN.
I CAN.
- this is daily -

And for when I m with girls.
I m the best thing you can ever get.
I m a demi god.
I am PHENOMENAL.

Be sure to use the affirmations in a productive way. My daily affirmation get me to push my limits ex. gym.

When things goes south:
"This will be interesting. Let's see what will happen!"
Also
"Ok, an opportunity to find a solution for this situation so I ll know in the future".
These are more reframing sentences, but works for me to keep me motivated to find new ways on how to overcome whatever comes in my face.

One aspect that nobody talks about is the polarizing concept. Like, for example, let's say that you don t like feminine guys (I m referring to their attitude, weak behavior, etc. and not the feminine as a tool for seducers which is something that actually amazes me). Your body will start unconsciously to behave more masculine as a polarize effect to whatever you don't like. You would not like that in yourself so you turn 180.

You can use that in your advantage. I don t like people who are not finishing their work. Guess what will you be inclined to do next time you're feeling tired? If you're permissive with a behavior, you're encouraging subtly in yourself as well.

You can use this by stating actions you don t like in others so you get rid of from your behavior.

Hate is a strong feeling. Much stronger than others.

Alpha13SC

 

[Rakehell]

When I first saw this I dismissed it because I thought I didn’t use affirmations. Turns out I do but never thought about it before.

My affirmations come from songs that I resonated with that help me recall successful moments in the past. Kind of like an anchor pulling me back into the things that I’ve experienced.

felines ponder the dick size, being around me is gravity, im in a small minority, the best persevere, by choice never by force, swag at a hundred and climbing, recognize or step aside, if im not the flyest then im lying in the mirror

Not sure how those would look to an outsider, but for me they resonate on a personal level to moments in my life, memories. And they come to me often because they’re from songs, kind of like an ear worm.

 

[Will_V]

I suppose I use affirmations, but only really after a success (to cement my self belief) or together with action (to invoke success in some way). I don't really sit there and repeat stuff to try and directly change an outcome.

What really affirms me though is my feeling of impetus, my intent projecting through reality. When it's there, words are superfluous, and when it's not there, it's very difficult to bring it about with words. Words are a more of a luxury that I reward myself with, to anchor experiences that I want to repeat, and at other times to remind myself of those experiences.

 

[Derek da man]

I used to suffer approach anxiety in a big way and I would doubt myself - why would she want to talk to me, or very similar.

It stems from being bullied by the best looking girls at school during my formative teens.
I see a pretty girl and doubt myself,
I see a sexy girl and I don't want to mess it up so do and say nothing,
I see a girl who is both pretty and sexy and I'd be a jabbering wreck.

There was a certain irony in this period that at the same time I was bullied at school I was doing trampolining, gymnastics and diving at elite levels with loads of pretty sexy girls around and had no trouble chatting with them in these environments. I had a complete internal disconnect between the 2 situations.

The most important affirmation for me was from either @DonGately or @POB (can't remember which) who said "Inside she's just a little girl that wants to be loved" and since reading this the more I look at girls, and I mean really look at their body language and how they say stuff, I realise this is so true.

When I see a pretty sexy girl I sometimes still get that old "jabbering wreck" feeling but I quickly use self talk "she's just a little girl that wants to be loved" and watching her I soon see that all the good looks, make-up and sexy cloths are just her way of asking to be loved. Now approaches are easy.

I've had several conversations with girls/women about this, some of whom have degrees in psychology and work with young people, and we've had really interesting conversations as to the truths behind this and that girls all have "an inner 5 year old that just wants to be loved".

 

[POB]

General:
"I love myself"

When cooking:
"I love to cook and my food is delicious"
"I love my food and my food is healthy"

Working:
"I love my work"
"I like myself and I love my work"

When procratisnating:
"Do it NOW!!!" (repeat 10x at least)
"Eat that frog" (when doing something I really don't want to)

Improving sex appeal:
"I'm hot"
"I'm the sexiest man alive"
"I'm a sex god"
"My cock is hard"
"My cock is delicious" (I do say it out loud and they rush to give me head lol)
"I'm your best fuck"
"I look awesome"
"I look amazing"
"I look hot"
"You can't resist me"
"You need my love"
"You need my sex"
"You want to fuck me"

In the gym:
"I'm big"
"I'm muscular"
"I'm strong"
"I'm the example"
"I'm able"
"I can push harder"
"I can handle more"

@Derek da man "Inside she's just a little girl that wants to be loved"
Yep, this is one of my mantras

 

[ElderPrice]

I like this thread. Here's my experience using affirmations:

Similar to what Will said, affirmations don't do much for me when they're just words to repeat.

What made them start working for me is 1) I make sure they're based in truth, and 2) I make sure to attach to them a strong accompanying emotion.

For these reasons, I don't care much for short affirmations like 'I'm awesome.' Instead, I like sincere arguments that answer key questions about myself.

For example:

Do you like yourself?
FUCK YES! I’m fucking awesome in many ways. I LOVE my willpower, work ethic, and commitment to pursuing goals, and I think I’m a fucking sexy guy. I’ve been working very hard on making further improvements so there’s no telling how even more fucking incredible I’m going to be as the weeks, months, and even days go by.

 

[Conquistador]

That being said, sometimes I say, “I’m the DOM LOB!” Referencing the lobsters from Jordan Peterson’s 12 Rules for Life.

Other things that contribute to forward momentum besides affirmations:
Working out
Cold showers
Getting to do list items checked off
Winning
Building something
Creating art
Tantric sex
Semen retention
Eating well
Sleeping well
Limiting time on your phone/screen

“I can’t fuck it up even if I tried” is another affirmation I like.

“I’ve got a golden magical cock” sometimes I tell girls this. And I blame good things that have happened to her on my Penis having been inside her.

How do you say that last bit without busting out laughing?
Also, that's the best-written version of the Universal List of Foundational Habits™ that I've seen so far. Any advice on implementing them consistently and consolidating gains? The only ones I'm good about are 5, 6, and 8, with forward progress on 1 and 9. I've struggled with that list for years.

 

[Warped Mindless]

The best affirmation is action.

Stand infront if the mirror telling yourself whatever you want but if you don’t take action it’s useless.

Seen a study years ago that said affirmations only work for people who are high self esteem because low self esteem people will just feel like they are lying to themselves.

Back when I was coaching I had clients ask me about affirmations sometimes. Instead of telling them to stand infront of a mirror telling themselves how confident they are (which they weren’t) I helped them dress better and get a better haircut which almost always made them feel more confident because they looked better.

Action beats words.

That said, if you feel they help then do them. Just pair them action too.