What are some IOIs to look for in street game?

[Gladiator]

The only high energy thing about this was the running. I opened her, then sprinted for about 10 seconds, and then dove into the water, and then we had a laugh about it, and then mellow convo. The thing I remember most about this interaction was how mellow and calm it was, the waters were the most still I had even seen them, and we just body rocked in the slow rhythms of the water.

What do you mean exactly by high energy? Maybe we are misunderstanding each other.

All the high energy approaches I've done on the street have gone nowhere and I've written them off as "failure to maintain high energy".

From what I'm hearing from you, I need high energy approach only to get attention and then I can transition to low energy and still have the girl hooked; which I haven't tried. I maintain more or less the same energy to have a consistent frame but my understanding here sounds like it's not right. So I said, I need to test this out to disprove my hypothesis. Btw, how do you generally transition to low-energy without dropping the overall momentum in the set?

 

[Spyce D]

Ok .

This happened yesterday, I was in the metro ... Less crowded that time .
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A chick waa hovering around me subtly and when I started looking the opposite way .....and was checking her out through my left peripheral view ..... She suddenly came to my right side and then went back .lol

i simply am testing peripheral game inside metros , places ....and I have caught really cute chicks checking me out .

so , I didn't approach the hovering bee ....cuz was not in the mood .

i believe that our fundamentals , peripheral view can generate some iois.

 

[Gladiator]

The only high energy thing about this was the running. I opened her, then sprinted for about 10 seconds, and then dove into the water, and then we had a laugh about it, and then mellow convo. The thing I remember most about this interaction was how mellow and calm it was, the waters were the most still I had even seen them, and we just body rocked in the slow rhythms of the water.

What do you mean exactly by high energy? Maybe we are misunderstanding each other.

P.S: I think I sounded like I disagreed with you in my last message but not really. When I said I wanted to disprove my hypothesis, it didn't mean I was downplaying or disagreeing with what you said but more like seeing it in a different perspective.

 

[Gladiator]

Ok .

This happened yesterday, I was in the metro ... Less crowded that time .
,
A chick waa hovering around me subtly and when I started looking the opposite way .....and was checking her out through my left peripheral view ..... She suddenly came to my right side and then went back .lol

i simply am testing peripheral game inside metros , places ....and I have caught really cute chicks checking me out .

so , I didn't approach the hovering bee ....cuz was not in the mood .

i believe that our fundamentals , peripheral view can generate some iois.

I noticed the same today while walking around on the streets and it's insane how good chics are in glancing at you in a millionth of a second. If you're not really in the zone and tuned in, there's no way you can catch those signals.

 

[Spyce D]

I noticed the same today while walking around on the streets and it's insane how good chics are in glancing at you in a millionth of a second. If you're not really in the zone and tuned in, there's no way you can catch those signals.

I am always tuned in .

Unless . I am having anxiety attacks.

 

[Zoro]

From what I'm hearing from you, I need high energy approach only to get attention and then I can transition to low energy and still have the girl hooked; which I haven't tried.

That's not what I'm trying to say. I feel like you're missing some more important points here by focusing on energy levels. It's about the vibe, calibration, pacing yourself to her but leading. All this can lead to over thinking, so it's best to focus on one thing at a time, and I guess if it's energy levels for you, try it out.

I want you to check this out and tell me if you think this is high or low energy, especially in the first 30 seconds. I know it's in Russian, no need to understand the words, just the vibe/energy level. By the way, my Russian isn't great, but he mentions he approached her because of her great ass haha

Btw, how do you generally transition to low-energy without dropping the overall momentum in the set?

You do this by not thinking about it, and focusing on what matters more. My focus is rarely on my energy levels, it's on the vibe, it's on connection, it's on escalation. It should just feel like a regular but good conversation, with a sprinkle of flirting. Game is knowing the process of leading that conversation in specific ways, deep diving to build rapport, asking for compliance to start leading her, flirting to make it interesting. Then the meta of it all is solid frame and leading.

 

[Gladiator]

That's not what I'm trying to say. I feel like you're missing some more important points here by focusing on energy levels. It's about the vibe, calibration, pacing yourself to her but leading. All this can lead to over thinking, so it's best to focus on one thing at a time, and I guess if it's energy levels for you, try it out.

I want you to check this out and tell me if you think this is high or low energy, especially in the first 30 seconds. I know it's in Russian, no need to understand the words, just the vibe/energy level. By the way, my Russian isn't great, but he mentions he approached her because of her great ass haha

That was a low energy approach but she was walking slow. I'm talking about chics who walk at running speed. Sometimes if I catch them at the traffic signal, I tease saying "you're on a mission" or "you're like a roadrunner".
I can't front stop or if I start walking with them, I somehow can't calibrate. I wouldn't be able to make eye contact which is very important for me to create that vibe.

You do this by not thinking about it, and focusing on what matters more. My focus is rarely on my energy levels, it's on the vibe, it's on connection, it's on escalation. It should just feel like a regular but good conversation, with a sprinkle of flirting. Game is knowing the process of leading that conversation in specific ways, deep diving to build rapport, asking for compliance to start leading her, flirting to make it interesting. Then the meta of it all is solid frame and leading.

Yesterday I met a chic walking on the street but she was walking as slow as the above girl. So, I had no problem with the rest of the process. She was a polish chic working as an airhostess for Emirates airlines. I took her on an instant date but she had to go meet her colleagues for dinner and to be fair, my game was not very good since I had just got 4 hrs sleep day before yesterday and I could hardly stay awake listening to her. In the end she even said, you talk too deep lol.. since I was just deep diving aimlessly (Chase suggests taking a shallow breath every now and then coming to the surface which I was not in a state to do).

Anyway, my big problem with fast walking girls is getting to the hook point. It comes across as an annoying salesman. When you mentioned about the chic running on the beach, I wouldn't be able to do something like that and that's what I'm talking about.