What is your STRONGEST motivation for seduction

[empath]

Not quite. I know guys that get validation from paying so not sure it's the same thing

I have had friends brag to me about hookers they banged lol

Thinks it probably closer to connection. Because I also prefer to bang girls I have real chemistry with even if I know it's only going to be a fling

Also I had an interesting convo with a female friend recently

Was telling her about how I have had FBs that would would fuck me for free but have a sugar daddy pay for it. Yet they rarely asked me to provide to that same level and in some situations would invest more in me than them

I told my friend they are getting nothing from me so why behave like that?

She then told me "They are getting something from you... they are getting attention"

That made me really think... Do women also have a different motivation list?

Do women sometimes use sex as a form to get attention from one guy and resources from another?

Could game be used as a way to hack women's need for attention so we can get more of what we want?

Am I using game and sex to get attention too?

Could be an interesting topic to dive into as well

Being with a sugar daddy is a business for her. Since there is no emotion involved ( or at least very low emotions involved) she will want to milk him. In case of you she is getting some sort emotional connection, and yes attention but she views you someone whose attention she wants. Not every attention is same. ( You getting it from a fatty vs model) (Gives yourself a sense of security)

Imagine being a gigolo yourself and contrast your clients with your main or FWB. You will invest more in your main of FWB maybe not with money or providing but emotionally like having a more geniune conversation etc.

 

[Skills]

Being with a sugar daddy is a business for her. Since there is no emotion involved ( or at least very low emotions involved) she will want to milk him. In case of you she is getting some sort emotional connection, and yes attention but she views you someone whose attention she wants. Not every attention is same. ( You getting it from a fatty vs model) (Gives yourself a sense of security)

Imagine being a gigolo yourself and contrast your clients with your main or FWB. You will invest more in your main of FWB maybe not with money or providing but emotionally like having a more geniune conversation etc.

This is the right idea but not true prostitutes, strippers, sugar babies are women and fall in love with the initial client all the time and motivations can change...which is actually not good, cause the whole point of paying, but when you know what you are doing is that as an attractive dude she may and can fall like any other women, one of flaws of James d post
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[Jan]

Seduction for me is mostly a spiritual path. Path to self-discovery, as well as discovery of the spirit of the world.

Secondly, it's a skill building endevour aimed at self-satisfaction, and ultimately aimed at finding the best suitable woman for me.

Previously, it has been more of a validation. Still is, but to a lesser extent.

Thanks for this post, @Skills. I hope it can increase understanding and empathy between us, here.