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Hello guys, i'm new to this forum but i've been reading chases articles for one month now. Unlucky i found it in the moment i started to get into deep shit with this girl i really like.
Im studying abroad in china and i met this beautiful girl, also spanish like me, at my university. The first time we saw each other there was a strong connection. Things went well, she was totally in to me but i didn't really notice that or didn't want to notice it because i was a little bit afraid of doing something with a girl i really like a lot. I just wasn't prepared to get hurt again, 3 months before i broke with my ex and it was pretty painful. But then i realized i really liked her and said to myself why not give it a try? even though i liked her a lot i kept on going out with other girls and hooked up with them, but that was mostly because i didn't care about them, but this girl, she was always on my mind. she also told my friends she like me. so time goes by and after two months i notice she doesn't text me as much as before and she even cancelled a date with me, but i didn't really care and kept on trying. 3 weeks ago i had no other choice than to tell her my feelings. she replied she didn't have the same feelings for me and friendzoned me. it was really disappointing because she didn't even admit she once had feelings for me. one week later she textes me like nothing ever happened. i reply back nicely but never start a conversation. 3 days ago in the club i see her after 3 weeks and she's drunk and going wild with all the guys(just dancing, no kissing), she is a party girl but i've never seen her so crazy like that before. I felt bad and left the place. I really don't know if she wants to make me jealous or if she wants to have her revenge because i never had the balls to do something because i liked her so much, or its just she didn't really care about me as much as i did for her and i'm going crazy for a girl who doesn't want anything more than a friendship with me. She's still nice to me and says hi. i would really appreciate some opinions. I know i'm young, good looking, women hit on me the whole time but this girl just makes me crazy. I must admit love is my weakness and i know girls can take advantage of me because of that. What should i do with this girl?
Im studying abroad in china and i met this beautiful girl, also spanish like me, at my university. The first time we saw each other there was a strong connection. Things went well, she was totally in to me but i didn't really notice that or didn't want to notice it because i was a little bit afraid of doing something with a girl i really like a lot. I just wasn't prepared to get hurt again, 3 months before i broke with my ex and it was pretty painful. But then i realized i really liked her and said to myself why not give it a try? even though i liked her a lot i kept on going out with other girls and hooked up with them, but that was mostly because i didn't care about them, but this girl, she was always on my mind. she also told my friends she like me. so time goes by and after two months i notice she doesn't text me as much as before and she even cancelled a date with me, but i didn't really care and kept on trying. 3 weeks ago i had no other choice than to tell her my feelings. she replied she didn't have the same feelings for me and friendzoned me. it was really disappointing because she didn't even admit she once had feelings for me. one week later she textes me like nothing ever happened. i reply back nicely but never start a conversation. 3 days ago in the club i see her after 3 weeks and she's drunk and going wild with all the guys(just dancing, no kissing), she is a party girl but i've never seen her so crazy like that before. I felt bad and left the place. I really don't know if she wants to make me jealous or if she wants to have her revenge because i never had the balls to do something because i liked her so much, or its just she didn't really care about me as much as i did for her and i'm going crazy for a girl who doesn't want anything more than a friendship with me. She's still nice to me and says hi. i would really appreciate some opinions. I know i'm young, good looking, women hit on me the whole time but this girl just makes me crazy. I must admit love is my weakness and i know girls can take advantage of me because of that. What should i do with this girl?
