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Mnemonic

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Hi.i am new to game and have read some basic mindset books like rational male,mystery method,the book of pook,the game.

I have just had one kiss and tinder date in my girl life

I have lots of things to learn from PUAs here.

I would like to start with this:

Recently i have started trying some theories in field.i usually get one or too nice eye contacts on daily basis but i don't know if i should approach or not.im getting good at holding convos.

Tell me what went wrong in this episode:

I was in a pool cab in backseat with 25 yr old(i am 22). We started chatting and got to know about each other's jobs and city life.then we got to common interest for outdoor sports and art.
She was responding real good.

at one point i stopped talking and started playing on phone , and she tried to start conversation again.

We talked more.i threw a neg on the childish places she has been for doing adventure sports.
Ultimately i asked her name and i sent her FB request in front of her.she accepted instantly.she started showing some event photos on her phone.her hand and phone was touching my hand when she was showing photos.

Ultimately ride ended after 2 hours she left saying text me on FB.ill reply.nice meeting you.
I said same here.

After 4-5 days i open her profile and text her 'hi..how have you been'
No reply.seen

Her profile has marriage photos.

What went wrong?

(Scenario of India)
 

sneaky_charm

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Good to see another member based in India. I think you basically waited too long and she had an emotional shift. Most advanced guys send the first message between 1 to 24 hours of meeting the girl.

About not being able to open girls who give you approach invitations, I posted a very similar query. You may want to take a look:

viewtopic.php?f=3&t=6777
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

Starboy

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In my opinion I wouldn't have asked for her facebook. Generally I think asking for a girl's social media isn't the right way to go.By asking for a girl's facebook,instagram,snapchat etc it give hers the impression you're just targeting her social media page and a chance to see what she does and posts on her page. I'm a beginner myself and in your situation I would've asked for her number instead. That way you could've just focused on using her number for logistics and to meet up like how girlschase encourages us to do. Also the "hi how are you"opening is also not really a good thing to say since most girls would think it's boring,cliche they get these texts a lot and it increases their mental load. Also waiting 4-5 days gives her enough time to forget about whatever positive emotions she associated with you when she first met you. It would've been better to message her within 1-2 days. Hope this helps
 
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