What went wrong?

[Kvothe]

This is with regards to the Turkish girl who I lost my virginity to last week. I invited her over and we fucked a couple of times, and she ended up sleeping over. She told me that night that she thought I was hot and that I was good at the sexual stuff. The next morning we fucked again. While we were fucking she checked her phone a few times as if checking to see the time. We haven't really talked much in terms of relating to each other or sharing anything either. At the same time I want to see her again. She also had booty called me a few times and it was her initiating a lott of the contact.

I texted her on Friday night and again on Sunday morning asking for her schedule to see if she was free. She saw the message and did not respond. I called her again today (Tuesday) and she didn't pick up. I'm basically calling it over at this point but I am confused why she went from hot to cold on me.

Let me know what you think!

Thanks,

Kvothe

 

[Hue]

I had this happen once with an inexperienced girl and eventually found out it was because of outside influences that made her feel like a slut for such a physical, non-emotionally grounded relationship we had. Aka, she wanted more emotion or a boyfriend if she was gonna be fucking someone. Every time I've seen her since she tries to get investment that I don't easily hand out (I have attainability issues - it's one of my sticking points) Now the times I try to escalate with her it always comes down to her saying something like "I want to fuck you so bad, but I can't. You just want to fuck me and trick me into sex with you".


In your situation, it could have been a bunch of shit. Maybe she feels slutty, maybe attraction faded, maybe she hopped on another dick, maybe she felt sexually abundant to you and wanted to pull back for her own self-image, the list goes on.

Either way I wouldn't put all your eggs in one basket my man. Let her hit you up if she wants to hang, it's not like she's never done that before.

Hueman

 

[foggy]

Some great material to check out that could help you:

https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-c ... egular-sex
https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-p ... -you-sleep
https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-y ... -after-sex

 

[Kvothe]

Thanks for the advice guys. I think it also stings a little more for me since it's my first girl.

If I had to guess I'd guess that it's outside influences, coupled with not having enough emotional connection. The only thing that I find weird is that she chased me for a week and half, and then she went cold, so something just seems missing with that explanation.

Anyway, I guess I'll leave her be, until she decides to hit me up. I'll keep going out and trying to meet more girls to get her out of my head.