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When she says "I'm just not ready" or "I want to wait"

Darkream

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Recently been getting better and improving my game. However, every once in a while girls like these pop up and I can't resist challenges so I how do manage these girls? I'm still in school (I'm legal age though) and I have fairly high social value. Any thoughts on how to convince girls like these? I'm wondering if I should play the bad boy card and try to turn them on as much as possible or I should be the nice loving boyfriend who is their soulmate. Thank you for the help ^^
 
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Frost

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Maybe it's because you're high value, she doesn't want to lose you after sex. Basically you're boyfriend material for her, and if she gives you sex right away, she can't be sure that you will stay.

As far as I know you have 2 options:

-Disqualify yourself as a boyfriend. That means when you meet a new girl, don't show her too much of your value so that she doesn't decide that keeping you as a boyfriend is worth more than having sex with you.

-Date compression. There is an article about this. You take her out on like 3 consecutive dates in a short time span. I don't remember this method much though.


I asked a similar question a while back (Long-Term Potential and Withholding Sex), I hope it helps.
 
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