When She Touches You Lightly With Her Breasts

[rh83]

If a girl stands close to you, but bladed off, while talking about something non-sexual because you've just met her, and you can feel lightly feel her pressing her breasts against your biceps...

Does this mean she has sexual interest in you? If so, what should you do to start making it more physical? And for the sake of the argument, I was attending a Multi-Level Marketing meeting with her, having just met on a first date. So, there were lots of people around and she was talking to some of her friends. I basically got two impressions: I was a business potential for her downline more than a romantic interest. Or that I was potentially a romantic interest, as several times she did lightly press her chest against my side as she was explaining some of the concepts of the business meeting to me. I just wasn't sure how to move things ahead, being that I was stuck in a meeting for hours (and that I might have been reading her wrong), with lots of people around.

Thanks.

 

[Bete Noire]

This is certainly a sign of her showing she is comfortable being close to you,

Further more this video linked below is awesome and the presenter said:

'If a girls is touching her breasts against you, she wants to FUCK you okay guys!'

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qigOUdAOyRs

Take a look, 'Top ten mistakes intelligent men make with women'.

Another good trick is just to assume attraction, if you think she's cute and you get any sign, take it. We men can be thick ol' cavemen sometimes - listen to her signs.

 

[rh83]

This is certainly a sign of her showing she is comfortable being close to you,

Further more this video linked below is awesome and the presenter said:

'If a girls is touching her breasts against you, she wants to FUCK you okay guys!'

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qigOUdAOyRs

Take a look, 'Top ten mistakes intelligent men make with women'.

Another good trick is just to assume attraction, if you think she's cute and you get any sign, take it. We men can be thick ol' cavemen sometimes - listen to her signs.

When he said that in the video, I face-slapped myself! Oh, the missed opportunities!!!

It's hard for guys like me to think of ourselves as sexual, when in our entire lives we've been taught to believe otherwise, even as I work on my fundamentals.

Okay, I feel so stupid now. This happened to me again when I was on a cruise. I asked a blonde from the Ukraine who worked on the ship if she would mind taking a picture with me (I like to have pics with the staff, as they are the ones who made my trip memorable). We had a boyfriend/girlfriend pose with no light in between us, my hand on the small of her back, and I could feel her breast pressed against me. She made no attempt to pull away.

A few months before this, I was hanging out with a few guys and a girl after hours at a conference. We ordered drinks and she gave a toast, complimenting everyone for looking good, and me for being especially sexy. Later, as we went out to the bar in one large group (additional friends joined us), we ran out of space in the car, and I suggested she sit on my lap, which she did. Needless to say, I was too chicken to follow up to sex. Part of it was that I just couldn't believe how easy it was that I think I was reading the signals all wrong.

*Sigh*

 

[normajean106]

She also may be doing this because she sees you as business interest. It all depends on your interaction with her.

My thoughts: If you haven't put yourself in the *potential lover* category, it would be unlikely that she wanted to sleep with you.

However, if you have proven that you are a rare, one-of-a-kind James Bond-esque individual, and not someone that can be friend zoned or put in boyfriend territory, she may very well be interested in you sexually.

Remember, its important to assume attraction, but not to always assume intentions.

Just my two cents on the matter.

 

[HellAtlantic]

I was recently in a situation like this. It was confusing and in the end I decided to just enjoy the sensation of a soft breast and not do anything more. Let me explain:

I am married. Was at my company Xmas after party. Was talking to two female coworkers. One who is a friend of mine who I wanna bang and shares some confusing and oftentimes frustrating sexua tension with. The other is a chubbier girl, engaged, about a 5.5, probably a 6. She is pretty into me. She auto-rejects often by constantly mentioning her fiancé. Says she's not interested when I shift convo/text convos to sexual topics. But body language and eye contact betray her words. As we were all getting drunk by that point in the night I put my hand on a tall chair to rest it. She then comes close to me as we all were talking and her breast very obviously presses against my hand. We all continue talking and my other female coworker points out the breast pressing against my hand. I smile and look the girl with the breast against my hand in the eyes and I say to both females "my hand was here first so I'm not gonna move it." I'm not sure what she said, she acknowledged it but continued with whatever she was saying.

Didn't know what to make of this scenario. We were all in full view of other coworkers so not sure what her game plan was maybe other than to get close to someone she thought was attractive/had a crush on. She divulged a naughty text or two I sent to her with my other female coworker, I didn't like her not being discreet. I have now decided I'm basically done with giving female coworkers a lot of extra attention. It may be they like having me as an orbiter but I've only given them this much attention trying to steer things towards a sexual level. It's become apparent they just want male attention and get off having access to a good looking guy - I've blocked them from my social media profiles and will now respond to them, if I choose to respond, after a considerable length of time (can't cut them out totally since we work together). Outside of a cheap thrill of a tit touching my hand I'm out of their league in terms of looks and it's about time I move on to giving other girls attention. A man's attention is valuable and if a girl can get your attention and time without giving you sex they'll do it every time if you let them.

 

[Sophisticated Gent]

Several conflicting opinions it seems but I think it is situational. Oddly as it may seem in the 31 years I have worked in business I have only know of one office affair and rumor of another. There is tons of flirting but with all the sexual harassment potential it is scary to push for anything more. My guess is that these ladies are frustrated that the men are not making advances. They are pushing the envelope to attract attention. It is a frustrating unnatural situation we have created in our society. I certainly understand RHs and HellAtlantics frustration.

SGent