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Stranger said:
The answer is.. Any time of the day is good providing that she is not busy.
It is different for everyone.
Best thing to do is just randomly approach a few girls during different times of the day, and do some testing and trialing yourself.
Start with the basic buddy, here you go:
https://www.girlschase.com/how-to-get-a-girl
Something more advance for you here:
https://www.girlschase.com/content/tactics-tuesdays-get-approached-women
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As for the general question for "When to approach girls?", I agree with Light. I say whenever the opportunity strikes, and this can be any time. I'd say this is a very important lesson to learn for later in life.
But, as for high school, I always approached between classes. I didn't know a single thing about seduction then, but I found this the easiest time for me personally. I'd catch her at the locker or talk with her while leaving class and ask her. Why? Because then if she rejected me, no one else would be around to hear it haha. And yes, I got rejected, but I also got girls that said yes. A man without failure has never had success.
As for time of day, if I only had her for my 1st morning class, then I asked her on the way to my 2nd class (even going in the opposite direction of my actual class to ask). It just depended on when I could see her.
In high school, everyone is kind of learning, so I don't think it really matters much. On Valentine's day, I even bought a girl a box of chocolates and got a date. Yes, I did a lot of stupid stuff growing up. However, I'd avoid asking in a note:
"Will you date me? Please circle one of the following: yes no maybe"
Although, I actually did this in college as a joke (she already knew I was a goofball from hanging out). I actually got a first date, but no second (for obvious reasons now). I honestly didn't think I'd even get a first date out of it; I was semi-interested and thought it would be funny.
In high school, the main thing is to just do it. If you think about it for too long, you eventually psych yourself out. I didn't ask out a lot of girls that I should have. And, do not be that guy that asks out like 10 girls at once in one day since gossip spreads like wildfire in high school. Let's say you ask out a girl and she says no, but now you want to ask out her friend. Her friend knows that you asked out her friend before her. You're going to have to wait.
But, as for high school, I always approached between classes. I didn't know a single thing about seduction then, but I found this the easiest time for me personally. I'd catch her at the locker or talk with her while leaving class and ask her. Why? Because then if she rejected me, no one else would be around to hear it haha. And yes, I got rejected, but I also got girls that said yes. A man without failure has never had success.
As for time of day, if I only had her for my 1st morning class, then I asked her on the way to my 2nd class (even going in the opposite direction of my actual class to ask). It just depended on when I could see her.
In high school, everyone is kind of learning, so I don't think it really matters much. On Valentine's day, I even bought a girl a box of chocolates and got a date. Yes, I did a lot of stupid stuff growing up. However, I'd avoid asking in a note:
"Will you date me? Please circle one of the following: yes no maybe"
Although, I actually did this in college as a joke (she already knew I was a goofball from hanging out). I actually got a first date, but no second (for obvious reasons now). I honestly didn't think I'd even get a first date out of it; I was semi-interested and thought it would be funny.
In high school, the main thing is to just do it. If you think about it for too long, you eventually psych yourself out. I didn't ask out a lot of girls that I should have. And, do not be that guy that asks out like 10 girls at once in one day since gossip spreads like wildfire in high school. Let's say you ask out a girl and she says no, but now you want to ask out her friend. Her friend knows that you asked out her friend before her. You're going to have to wait.
As soon as you say you'll be psyching yourself out you have already taken yourself out of the running.
Also if there is a girl you're interested in and both of you at least are on a first-name basis you should feel at ease to say hi to her at anytime of the day and then when you see her where both of you have a second to chat then swoop in and try and create a conversation.
The more at ease you put yourself in the easier it will be to approach a girl. The second you put pressure on yourself to do anything, the situation will be as difficult as you have made it in your head.
Also if there is a girl you're interested in and both of you at least are on a first-name basis you should feel at ease to say hi to her at anytime of the day and then when you see her where both of you have a second to chat then swoop in and try and create a conversation.
The more at ease you put yourself in the easier it will be to approach a girl. The second you put pressure on yourself to do anything, the situation will be as difficult as you have made it in your head.
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Stranger said:
Do you like roller coasters? FPS games or laser tag? Driving/biking fast? Playing sports? Staying up late? Ringing a doorbell and running away?
OK, some of these are stupid examples, but the answer is...
Of course you do! Because you're a man that loves adventure. Men are all secret adrenaline junkies.
Asking out a girl can be really tough, but it's also a rush. Just think of it as something fun to do that will really burn your adrenaline. Do it.
Well, I do like these activities with the exception of roller coasters (fear of heights), but it is kinda different. I have approached before, and it feels great even if there is no success. My problem would be my brain giving hundreds of reasons why I shouldn't do it: "she'll make fun of you", "you'll mess up", "she'll be cold", and some other reasons that don't make any sense.PinotNoir said: