Why are there more virgins/men virgins for longer?

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I think there is one crucial thing that is wrecking people's (especially men's) lives, and that is the fact that they are never tested.

The most fundamental aspect of manhood in ancient cultures was the initiation rite. Without it you never became a man. It was difficult and painful and you had to bear it with the utmost self control and acceptance of your fate. Once it was over the world was no longer scary, and you knew what you were capable of.

These days men have no guidance or any real idea of what it means to be a man, let alone any actual tests. Some guys who experience enough pain from this lack of identity put themselves through things of their own accord that are a substitute for the initiation rite, but this usually only occurs after many years of time wasted in suffering and laziness, and often comes with a capable but imbalanced character. The truth is that human beings were never designed to test themselves - the environment tested the tribe, and the tribe tested the individual. The ego was only ever designed to seek the things it normally seeks, but to get those things it was supposed to have to sacrifice a lot for its own development.

These days 'men' and 'women' live in their parents basement until 30s, eating themselves overweight, getting triggered via the internet and wanking to porn. I know way too many people who have never quite struck out of their front door, and still suffer in the bubble of the child where there is essentially 'mommy's place' and 'outside' long after that phase was supposed to be past. Nursing delusions and spending all their energy trying to keep fear and anxiety at bay. But while they have some fault the reality is that mommy (or society in general) never threw them out by the seat of their pants into the world they desperately want to conquer. But they know they need it - that's why they sit there and play video games or watch movies where the character is 'forced' to do exactly what they wish someone would come along and 'force' them to do - start at nothing and become something, or lose.

It's a disgrace that such an apparently evolved society does such a miserable job of preparing and developing the capabilities of its citizens. But the reality is that our society has lived too long without tests (and seems to be getting close to doing away with them pretty much altogether). But that's probably neither here nor there as it will either become something more functional or it will fall apart and be tested.

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What's Going On With All The People With Depression and Anxiety?

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Chase talks about some similar things here as well Will_V....if that's who you really are

Well regardless of a certain conspiracy theory floating around haha I can say this answer has given me a lot of push among a thread that already gave plenty already.

I wonder why we lost our tests?

Shoutout to this thread and its contributors. Very interesting to see the state of the AFC and virgin today as opposed to the guys in past generations. Hopefully this thread helps give some topics for Chase and other writers to help with message recalibration and topics.

Chase has written about the changes somewhat...like for example the friend zone isn't as prevalent before imo, been replaced with online game or inaction it seems.

Lowkey the friend zone sounds better than the case now though. Atleast those guys got laid occasionally and seem less bitter. Hopeless, clueless, but not as bitter.

Anyone think this will implode?

Is there anything anyone thinks we're all missing in looking at the virgins, AFC, and undersexed men of today? Or just something you'd like to add?

Spoiler: Iron M-Ahem Stark

They blow up Sex in their mind and make it such a BIG BIG deal - that they FEAR taking action

Good point. Anxiety is higher nowadays.

How have you handled your anxiety's as opposed to guys you describe?

 

[Will_V]

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What's Going On With All The People With Depression and Anxiety?

Seems so common to hear about someone with depression or anxiety these days... why? The doctors just seem to prescribe pills. Popping pills all day... Ever since my someone I know was prescribed anti depressants she's been having nightmares and wakes up crying... Her doctor says she needs a...

www.skilledseducer.com

Chase talks about some similar things here as well Will_V....if that's who you really are

Well regardless of a certain conspiracy theory floating around haha I can say this answer has given me a lot of push among a thread that already gave plenty already.

I wonder why we lost our tests?

Shoutout to this thread and its contributors. Very interesting to see the state of the AFC and virgin today as opposed to the guys in past generations. Hopefully this thread helps give some topics for Chase and other writers to help with message recalibration and topics.

Chase has written about the changes somewhat...like for example the friend zone isn't as prevalent before imo, been replaced with online game or inaction it seems.

Lowkey the friend zone sounds better than the case now though. Atleast those guys got laid occasionally and seem less bitter. Hopeless, clueless, but not as bitter.

Anyone think this will implode?

Is there anything anyone thinks we're all missing in looking at the virgins, AFC, and undersexed men of today? Or just something you'd like to add?

Spoiler: Iron M-Ahem Stark

Good point. Anxiety is higher nowadays.

How have you handled your anxiety's as opposed to guys you describe?

Don't tell me you still think I'm Chase, christ must be hard to find anyone on the internet writing intelligent arguments on things, what a sad state of affairs ..

 

[Regal Tiger]

christ must be hard to find anyone on the internet writing intelligent arguments on things

Bruh, you're not wrong lmao

 

[MuST0BtA1NSkR1Lla]

Why do you think?

Lack of masculinity, inaction, incorrect approach, culture shift, victim mentality? Maybe this is false to you. Why?

Two things;

- One, Property is way to expensive. I went out and did a job for installing A/C at an apartment that goes for a million dollars. Saw the apartment was a two room shithole worth a million bucks installed the A/C.

Then before I even realized it, finished installing where I then learned that there was five people living in this small shit shack. 3 kids two parents. It was unbelievable to me.

What happens when these kids, *[Some are boys] get to 19 living in a small apartment and decide to have sex? Where are they going to go? They won’t be able to drive a car, there is no fuckin parking in the apartment besides that which is already paid for XD.

2. Sheer amount of tranny children. I think people are underestimating just how many kids are going the tranny route now adays. It’s a trend on par with goth/emo kids of the 90’s.

I know in game it’s a turn off to ask if a chick is actually a dude, but I survived and fucked during the written consent era so I have a way to round house kick that *[Or enough self control if I have suspicions it’s a former dude to not pursue the lay] but what about the young homies? They’ll probably have no issue with fuckin a dudes ass as long as he/she wants it. Which I’m not sure if that is necessarily a bad thing but at 16-19 years old it would create an absolutely confusing situation.

 

[trashKENNUT]

Added:

Noting about the Western world heading East, and the East heading West.

When Elon Musk is planning to buy Twitter, and the leftist personality are "panicking" and whatever, I like to tell all Girlschase members and friends that this is common in Asia where the older you are, the more power you have and that speaking against authority is frowned upon.

It's not like America where you can have conversations. Here in Asia, it's more of like until the older generation dies 6ft under, then you become the person with power.

We are in a struggle, a cultural struggle.

TLDR:

I realize that this is actually ingrained and it will take a long while for me to actually write it in a way that is simple and compartmentalize and easy for anyone to understand but it doesn't lose the essence of the experience and observations and stories that I have seen and found.

z@c+