Why do certain guys become a girl's 'alpha widow'? (Recent Article in GC)

[DaVinciMatrixStyle]

How to Be the Best Guy a Girl's Ever Dated

If you want to be the best guy a girl has ever dated, you need more than “hope.” Instead, follow these 8 recommendations – yet watch out for “alpha widows.” Commenting on my article about the Feminine Interest Spectrum, reader Fanfun asks: [What] could we do if [a girl] already has many...

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This got me thinking about the concept of 'alpha widows'. Basically a guy that a girl had in her life who she compares every guy she dates to or can't stop thinking about.

I think a prime example is the Titanic. Rose was dating a rich man who was providing the lifestyle that she never had, yet she falls for Jack who was poor and couldn't even afford a fraction of the lifestyle she had which is the classic provider versus lover.

But what is it exactly about these lover types (like Jack) that Rose's partner had which made him the alpha widow in comparison to a guy that gave her a type of lifestyle that she couldn't with every other guy?

 

[trashKENNUT]

But what is it exactly about these lover types (like Jack) that Rose's partner had which made him the alpha widow in comparison to a guy that gave her a type of lifestyle that she couldn't with every other guy?

To explain it in simple terms but sacrificing a lot of the whole context: Threshold of all variables of yours and hers, that matches, yet one that is compelling.

Same value system but the male to a female magnet per se.

Ultimately, the secret is and I think all man even in Girlschase, still don't understand, is that she needs you to be 'FREE'. Although you are never really 'FREE' and she doesn't know that you are not 'FREE' and that she can only feel 'FREE'.

TLDR: Hopefully one day, I am able to show the context and reason why toxic guys always give women, 'shit'. And when you understand that 'shit' is actually continuity that all females and humans need, to survive,

she is basically in the palm of your hand and that power can be abuse.

z@c+

 

[West_Indian_Archie]

How to Be the Best Guy a Girl's Ever Dated

If you want to be the best guy a girl has ever dated, you need more than “hope.” Instead, follow these 8 recommendations – yet watch out for “alpha widows.” Commenting on my article about the Feminine Interest Spectrum, reader Fanfun asks: [What] could we do if [a girl] already has many...

www.girlschase.com

This got me thinking about the concept of 'alpha widows'. Basically a guy that a girl had in her life who she compares every guy she dates to or can't stop thinking about.

I think a prime example is the Titanic. Rose was dating a rich man who was providing the lifestyle that she never had, yet she falls for Jack who was poor and couldn't even afford a fraction of the lifestyle she had which is the classic provider versus lover.

But what is it exactly about these lover types (like Jack) that Rose's partner had which made him the alpha widow in comparison to a guy that gave her a type of lifestyle that she couldn't with every other guy?

It's particular to girl, but in general it's basically a very high emotional episode that gets cut short either by his death or him leaving her.

The best way to become an alpha widow is to break up with the chick in the middle of the honeymoon. She has high investment and high hopes, and then the dream is taken away.

Tupac is a great example.

Chris Rock had a great bit about the woman always thinking about the one that got away. "How did I fuck up?".

The thing is, when a chick, particularly a young one, has this experience - it happens over and over again with the next guy she *instantly* falls in love with.

But that guy, the next alpha, she will see more of him, and he's no longer that dude anymore.

WIA

 

[trashKENNUT]

The best way to become an alpha widow is to break up with the chick in the middle of the honeymoon. She has high investment and high hopes, and then the dream is taken away.

Oh yea man. To be remembered, death. I have seen a real meltdown. My schoolmate was in a bike accident with her boyfriend. Her meltdown was all over my Facebook.

She was really broken for a few years. Like really broken. I'm glad she is okay now after I checked her profile this past 2 years.

TLDR:
Wanda, the Scarlett Witch in Multiverse of Madness is a perfect cultural representation of females today. The female meltdown, which we also called it as Woke-ism, is literally melting all on us, globally.

And man must 'step up' to be men, to manage this.

z@c+