Why some women say they don’t like muscular guys?

[TomInHo]

I don’t like tall guys, I don’t like short guys, you shouldn’t work out you looked better when you were fat. It’s a shit test dude, treat it like one. They are testing your confidence read my comment

It's not a shit test. A lot of them really feel like that

I've laid a good amount of girls that post sex said they never thought they would get with a guy like me. Or if I met them from Online Dating, they were very surprised that they could relate with me on a plethora of things and wasn't a total meathead

When you can connect with women on a deeper level, a lot of their rules about who they will date or sleep with magically disappear

 

[DonJuan..]

It's not a shit test. A lot of them really feel like that

I've laid a good amount of girls that post sex said they never thought they would get with a guy like me. Or if I met them from Online Dating, they were very surprised that they could relate with me on a plethora of things and wasn't a total meathead

When you can connect with women on a deeper level, a lot of their rules about who they will date or sleep with magically disappear

You don’t understand this. They like muscular guys, but their insecurity is withholding the truth only confident ones will make it known. The guy mentioned even that the women in the gym give him compliments that’s because the women in the gym are surrounded often with muscular guys, they are confident around them. Insecure ones will give a shit test like this, it’s something new for them or they can’t relate your lifestyle it’s also an attainability problem but it also means that you are higher value then didn’t you read my comment how insecure girls fake their interest? It doesn’t make sense not to like muscular guys.

 

[DonJuan..]

Book of pook resource

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I started out around 155 pounds at 6’3 height. This meant that I was very skinny. I was also considered a nice looking guy. Women loved me being tall.

At this point, I had to deal with a lot of fat chicks hitting on me. These girls were BIG and I wanted nothing to do with them. Ugly girls also would come to me. This was me not doing anything. This was what my body was attracting all alone. If I wanted to get a cuter girl, I had to work for it.

I have problems talking to women, not because I am scared or boring, but because I sense the women think I am ‘below’ them. And the truth is that they do.

I date average women.

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Already, things have changed. The fat/ugly women still go for me but they don’t think I’m as easy. They want to enter oneitis with me. The ‘unworthy’ girls category would now all be staring at me. To the beautiful women, I’m just a typical guy. Cute girls now enjoy talking to me.

I still date average women and now some cute women.

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“You are looking very good,” my older female manager told me. The fat/ugly women no longer hit on me (thank goodness!) and people (out of the blue) are asking why I don’t have a girlfriend. Average girls are beginning to stare.

I date only cute women with some very attractive ones mixed in.

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Average girls are now hitting on me. Very attractive women are checking me out. At this stage, every woman is happy to talk to me. They all secretly wonder if I’m gay.

I date more very attractive women but still have the cute ones.

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OK, when you don’t have a girlfriend at this stage, the ladies will whisper, “Is he gay?” all the time. One girl got bold about it and asked me point blankly, “Pook, you are cute and all. So why don’t you have a girlfriend?” I was stunned by her bluntness (rare among women).

Average women consider me out of their league. Cute ones try to become my ‘friend’.

I date only very attractive women. Beautiful women are still a bit of an anomaly.

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When you get to this stage, something very strange happens. All the attention and staring women gave you is gone (mostly). Ugly/Fat women will despise you as will the average women. Most girls will be scared of you (cute girls, very attractive girls)

Let me give you some examples. One Very Beautiful girl was in several of my classes. I start talking to her and she has plenty of time to leave. But she doesn’t… she stays to keep talking to me. The girls now notice me, but are a bit scared to talk and act around me.

One cute girl is like a leech to me in one of my classes. She must sit right next to me, must ‘borrow my notes’, must talk to me 20 minutes after class everyday…

One Very Beautiful woman was a fitness instructor at my gym (think ‘well muscled’ with nice strong legs (those strong thighs come in handy with her dealings with the Pook-man!)). Every time I saw this girl, she always had a ‘satellite’ boy around her. Who does she end up with? Me.

 

[ulrich]

You don’t understand this. They like muscular guys, but their insecurity is withholding the truth only confident ones will make it known. The guy mentioned even that the women in the gym give him compliments that’s because the women in the gym are surrounded often with muscular guys, they are confident around them. Insecure ones will give a shit test like this, it’s something new for them or they can’t relate your lifestyle it’s also an attainability problem but it also means that you are higher value then didn’t you read my comment how insecure girls fake their interest? It doesn’t make sense not to like muscular guys.

Dude, huge muscles is NOT a universal trigger of attraction.
Just get over it.

To a lot of people you’re not “too high value” if you are huge. You’re just unrelatable.

 

[TomInHo]

You don’t understand this. They like muscular guys, but their insecurity is withholding the truth only confident ones will make it known. The guy mentioned even that the women in the gym give him compliments that’s because the women in the gym are surrounded often with muscular guys, they are confident around them. Insecure ones will give a shit test like this, it’s something new for them or they can’t relate your lifestyle it’s also an attainability problem but it also means that you are higher value then didn’t you read my comment how insecure girls fake their interest? It doesn’t make sense not to like muscular guys.

You know man. I'm not sure what you want.

It seems like you just want to whine and complain...

Woe is me, women don't want to fuck me because I'm so beautiful and high value and they are all insecure.

It's kinda sad really but I'll tell you what you want to hear

Yes you are handsome. Yes you are smart. And the reason why women don't want to be with you is because they don't feel like they can measure up to you or your standards.

Dude, huge muscles is NOT a universal trigger of attraction.
Just get over it.

To a lot of people you’re not “too high value” if you are huge. You’re just unrelatable

@ulrich hit this on the head. OP I go to the gym and also make a living being a fitness influencer, so people literally pay me to look at my muscles

And even with that you come across as un-relatable to me,

So imagine how you make women feel

 

[DonJuan..]

Dude, huge muscles is NOT a universal trigger of attraction.
Just get over it.

To a lot of people you’re not “too high value” if you are huge. You’re just unrelatable.

According to studies, it is.
according to GC, it is.
you both are plain dumb, sorry but it’s true.

it just doesn’t make sense to deny facts, get over it you both.

 

[Rakehell]

Clearly a troll thread. @DonJuan.. ive noticed you ask for advice just to confirm your own beliefs, which means you aren’t really looking for answers.

Whether you believe truths or not they still look you in the face. What’s the point of asking questions if your only intention is to confirm things you already know?

If you were so sure you wouldn’t be asking the question in the first place.

 

[DonJuan..]

Hmmm

Don't you think it's ironic that I and @ulrich are both handsome and fit yet don't seem to have the same issues with women that you do

Quite odd isn't it.... but you are right your highness I'm sorry us peasants were foolish enough to challenge you greatness

Please forgive us for our sins

You are taking it out of context you coward narcissist.
i mentioned in the previous comments that a muscular body won’t help in the long run when you have no game and lack confidence. But you can physically attract them with your muscles just by the physical attributes

dont take advice from this guy @TomInHo
He is a narcissist and deceive helping people

 

[TomInHo]

Can we close this troll thread? It's not productive to anyone

 

[DonJuan..]

Can we close this troll thread. It's not productive to anyone

if you don’t like it you can go anytime

 

[DonJuan..]

Clearly a troll thread. @DonJuan.. ive noticed you ask for advice just to confirm your own beliefs, which means you aren’t really looking for answers.

Whether you believe truths or not they still look you in the face. What’s the point of asking questions if your only intention is to confirm things you already know?

If you were so sure you wouldn’t be asking the question in the first place.

To See whether you guys go through the same thing and it turned out I was right, meanwhile the real trolls Ulrich and tominho try to deny it, open your eyes

 

[Beck Bass]

Because they don't.
Strength is important, but brains beat brawls, is just that women judge brains in a different way we do, in fact I think everyone judge brains differently, it's part of our evolutive strategy.
In fact having strength/muscles is in fact "brains", because if you need, it's useful, and if it's useful, it's good to have it, therefore smart?! lmao

Spot on I was more successful with women when I was skinny.. it’s honestly unfair.

Part of that might be because you looked less frightening, sure, muscular guys are sexy to women, but they are also more dangerous. You will have to tweak your persona to look more approacheable, smile more, be more social and cool in a chill way. You also seem a bit aggressive from the way you write sometimes, that can be a bit turnoff to women, specially if you're muscular, because, as I said, you're scarier. You have to turn that "scared he'll murder me" into "scared he'll fuck my brains out hardcore". Honestly I just think you need to be more friendly

 

[DonJuan..]

Because they don't.
Strength is important, but brains beat brawls, is just that women judge brains in a different way we do, in fact I think everyone judge brains differently, it's part of our evolutive strategy.
In fact having strength/muscles is in fact "brains", because if you need, it's useful, and if it's useful, it's good to have it, therefore smart?! lmao

Women sleep with bunch of losers and douchebags who lack intelligence.

working out increases your mental performance, intelligence as well. Fitness is taking care of health, those who take care of their health are more likely to be mental and emotionally healthy

 

[Rakehell]

You could be arnie reincarnated…but if you don’t turn her on it doesn’t mean shit but that.

What’s the point in being super jacked if women don’t even like you. Physical attributes matter yes, but if you don’t get anything from it with women, then it doesn’t matter in regards to getting women in your case.

Every 6’7 basketball player isn’t an nba player for a reason.

 

[DonJuan..]

Part of that might be because you looked less frightening, sure, muscular guys are sexy to women, but they are also more dangerous. You will have to tweak your persona to look more approacheable, smile more, be more social and cool in a chill way. You also seem a bit aggressive from the way you write sometimes, that can be a bit turnoff to women, specially if you're muscular, because, as I said, you're scarier. You have to turn that "scared he'll murder me" into "scared he'll fuck my brains out hardcore". Honestly I just think you need to be more friendly

the latter one is true and it’s good that you mention it. I should be more conscious of it here in the forum. In reallife I’m usually warm with people. My testosterone is naturally high and lies At 1120ng/dl. So anytime I get challenged you see what happens, but that’s only with men not with women

 

[DonJuan..]

You could be arnie reincarnated…but if you don’t turn her on it doesn’t mean shit but that.

What’s the point in being super jacked if women don’t even like you. Physical attributes matter yes, but if you don’t get anything from it with women, then it doesn’t matter in regards to getting women.

Every 6’7 basketball player isn’t an nba player for a reason.

I know dude. You are just repeating what I’m saying the whole time. I’m just pointing out that a good physique attract like good looks can attract women in both cases it won’t help when you lack confidence and have no game. For the third time now.

 

[Rakehell]

I know dude. You are just repeating what I’m saying the whole time. I’m just pointing out that a good physique attract like good looks can attract women in both cases it won’t help when you lack confidence and have no game. For the third time now.

Glad we agree. Everyone in the thread posted ways to combat your issue.

 

[ulrich]

For

According to studies, it is.
according to GC, it is.
you both are plain dumb, sorry but it’s true.

it just doesn’t make sense to deny facts, get over it you both.

For fuck sake, you are deep in cognitive dissonance.

Just ask yourself, if muscles is such an undeniable trigger of attraction, why are “Men of the year” awards given to George Clooney, Brad Pitt, Michael B Jordan and guys with such skinny aesthetics?

Why are all Arnold Schwarzenegger fans male and almost no female?

Don’t fool yourself.

 

[DonJuan..]

For


For fuck sake, you are deep in cognitive dissonance.

Just ask yourself, if muscles is such an undeniable trigger of attraction, why are “Men of the year” awards given to George Clooney, Brad Pitt, Michael B Jordan and guys with such skinny aesthetics?

Why are all Arnold Schwarzenegger fans male and almost no female?

Don’t fool yourself.

Reading issues? read my and rakehell last comment. Better yet, read the comments first before you open your mouth

 

[Regal Tiger]

Bruh, like I said in a different one of your threads. You got some issues to work on. And I highly sympathize because I notice in myself agreeing with some things people like you whine about. Hell even my own journal I whine a lot, but the difference is that I'm willing to hear people out and try out shit. Even talking to people about things that I already know in depth because to say stop would be rude and I want their help. It sounds like you don't

But as far as online dating goes I've posted twice about how I could help you and I've been ignored

You've got legit seducers on here taking their time and exercising patience to try and help you and you are attacking them for it. Calling them a cowardly narcissist or what the fuck ever. No, you just don't understand that people don't like to be attacked by someone that they're trying to help. Showcasing a severe lack of common social sense at all, no wonder women don't like you

I'm a pretty nice guy and I don't like you either