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Hey Guys, I'm new to the boards but been reading the articles and posts for a long time. I'm really grateful for all the quality content. Thanks.
I've had patchy success but been finding it hard to really get things off the ground. Today, however, I'm kinda stoked because I kissed a girl who is pretty much the hottest I've ever been near in my life, failed to escalate further but had a nice follow up text from her. I had Chase's recent article about Hot+Crazy=Easy ringing in my ears, which helped, but I have a couple of questions:
1. How long to wait before setting up another date?
Is it a hard rule to wait a day for her to decompress, does Tinder change anything? She's only just come online and will surely be meeting some sexy men.
2. Kissing: now I'm not sure when to start slow and when to go in fairly heavy. I went in slow with a girl once and she afterwards said she thought I was gay! With this girl the kiss didn't really take off. She accepted it for a while but then backed away.
So I'm in Aus and one of her Tinder pics had her dressed up as Dorothy from the movie. Very cute! I like this chick, she's sweet, feminine, compliant and up for fun so I want to raise my game from now and get on a roll.
I've had patchy success but been finding it hard to really get things off the ground. Today, however, I'm kinda stoked because I kissed a girl who is pretty much the hottest I've ever been near in my life, failed to escalate further but had a nice follow up text from her. I had Chase's recent article about Hot+Crazy=Easy ringing in my ears, which helped, but I have a couple of questions:
1. How long to wait before setting up another date?
Is it a hard rule to wait a day for her to decompress, does Tinder change anything? She's only just come online and will surely be meeting some sexy men.
2. Kissing: now I'm not sure when to start slow and when to go in fairly heavy. I went in slow with a girl once and she afterwards said she thought I was gay! With this girl the kiss didn't really take off. She accepted it for a while but then backed away.
So I'm in Aus and one of her Tinder pics had her dressed up as Dorothy from the movie. Very cute! I like this chick, she's sweet, feminine, compliant and up for fun so I want to raise my game from now and get on a roll.