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Wizard of Oz meets Dorothy on Tinder. Needs noob advice.

Killer Instinct

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Hey Guys, I'm new to the boards but been reading the articles and posts for a long time. I'm really grateful for all the quality content. Thanks.

I've had patchy success but been finding it hard to really get things off the ground. Today, however, I'm kinda stoked because I kissed a girl who is pretty much the hottest I've ever been near in my life, failed to escalate further but had a nice follow up text from her. I had Chase's recent article about Hot+Crazy=Easy ringing in my ears, which helped, but I have a couple of questions:

1. How long to wait before setting up another date?

Is it a hard rule to wait a day for her to decompress, does Tinder change anything? She's only just come online and will surely be meeting some sexy men.

2. Kissing: now I'm not sure when to start slow and when to go in fairly heavy. I went in slow with a girl once and she afterwards said she thought I was gay! With this girl the kiss didn't really take off. She accepted it for a while but then backed away.

So I'm in Aus and one of her Tinder pics had her dressed up as Dorothy from the movie. Very cute! I like this chick, she's sweet, feminine, compliant and up for fun so I want to raise my game from now and get on a roll.
 

Hue

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Wassup Killer Instinct,

1).
This article helped me a ton on setting up second dates.

https://www.girlschase.com/content/3-sec ... -and-swoon

I hope you got her number, so it becomes more of a personal connection between you two and not one of the many men she's matching with on Tinder.

2).
Takes practice man. I always move my head in slow to make her long for it until plunging in with a passionate kiss, then pulling back to make her want more.

I think when you're starting off something like kissing is easy to overthink. If you know the basic motions / if you're into tongue (I'm not) / if you're into biting (I am), just focus on the connection you have while kissing her and gauge the escalation from there.

Also don't make the sole sensation be the kissing. Feel your bodies touch each other, grab her and pull her closer into you, lightly grasp her hair. squeeze dat ass, move the kiss down to the neck and other erogenous zones.



Keep swiping too man, plenty of hungry fishies out there.

Hueman
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

Killer Instinct

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Hey Hueman,
Thanks for the linked article. That really will be a good reference. Damn, I think this has to go down as a "failed mating attempt". I remember my mouth felt a bit dry and sour and this inhibited my kiss. Since I gave up alcohol I seem to be more sensitive to the taste of my mouth and the girl's. Earlier on in the date we were going well with lots of playful kino but the kiss would have made me look weak and nervous.

Ok so (before your reply) I arranged another date with her for this Wednesday. It's gonna be tough to get a big chunk of preselection as the article advises, without canceling the date (maybe I should do this) but I was going to meet her at the beach two hours before sunset where we will do some more partner acrobatic tricks which she loved and I will try to reset things by being a little more sexual and going in heavy on a high point or when she opens a window. It's a quiet beach and I will take some warm stuff. Maybe I could even explain that my mouth was really dry last time?

Anyway thanks for your reply. I get that I need to focus on arousal rather than the kiss.
 
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