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I have dated two women who basically lied on me, I would not go on a whole lot of detail but it's such extreme cases (i would label them) because it involves so much about her, and not about me. Maybe there's a part that it was me who is at fault, because anywhere, you always play some role in a relationship or courtship that ends up in disaster.
One thing i learn about women in general, and in extreme cases, "They care for themselves, They need to, and They always will."
Now, YOu can find this along the lines, even with Girlschase when such examples like
1) Her social reputation
2) Her ability to move on fast
3) Damsels in Distress
Her primary goal here on earth above everything else and that includes you is to find the best mate, get pregnant, and expansion. (Easy layman terms, Find somebody to Fuck and expand, because she's a natural orgasmic creature)
LEt me note here, that a man can really be bitter when he knows this, just like when most men stumble upon Girlschase. I mean you are supposedly lied by society who instill women are great, women are nice and women are pure, chaste and virgin, when all this while, it's all just wool put over your eyes.
Girl A,
I dated her when her brother got himself in a bike accident. I get to know what actually happen after about a month or two. I know very little of her, and she was always protective of her friends, would ignore me when if i see her with them. We were in school together. As a guy, a emphatic one, yes i did "White Knight" some parts when i was courting her because really, i cared for her brother. I lost my late brother a year before. but what struck me is that she use other girls i dated as a bait, and she said i can only date her while she been dating other guys behind my back. and yes, her brother is still in hospital at the time.
Lesson learnt: People don't change one bit, Primary goal i written above, "Find best mate, Get pregnant, Expansion". I am not bitter, but it just astounds me till today.
GIrl B,
I dated her when her mother was in hospital for a serious treatment that require a week for her to stay in a hospital. IT happens about a months later. Her mum was in a bad state. At that time, me and her were talking on the phone, occasionally meet up in person because our schools are apart. She told me she was single when she had a boyfriend long time ago. She usually brushes me off and sometimes be occasionally warmth to me. Talk to her, Her father died a long time ago. She would call me "dear" and we had good and bad conversations. We were in school, and her bestfriend, which is a great friend of mine were close, she tells me a lot of things about the school when i was curious to ask her friend if she was single, and then the world just shatters. (i feel like an ass that time).
I was really piss off, i really do, because partly she lied to me, Another is that i always expected families who happen to be in some dire state or some terrible state to have their family members at least have emphathy or soft period during this kind of such matter.
Lesson learnt: What happens to her family is her family. She is different, She is her, and her primary goal is "Find best mate, Get pregnant, Expansion" In this terms, she gotten bored of her boyfriend, she found me to be cool until i confronted and ask why she lied. Well i guess if she would at least be sorry one bit or be emphatically understandable on why i was angered. Women are women.
Guess life sucks for me at the time, It was a good learning experience, I never change it for anything.
Zac
One thing i learn about women in general, and in extreme cases, "They care for themselves, They need to, and They always will."
Now, YOu can find this along the lines, even with Girlschase when such examples like
1) Her social reputation
2) Her ability to move on fast
3) Damsels in Distress
Her primary goal here on earth above everything else and that includes you is to find the best mate, get pregnant, and expansion. (Easy layman terms, Find somebody to Fuck and expand, because she's a natural orgasmic creature)
LEt me note here, that a man can really be bitter when he knows this, just like when most men stumble upon Girlschase. I mean you are supposedly lied by society who instill women are great, women are nice and women are pure, chaste and virgin, when all this while, it's all just wool put over your eyes.
Girl A,
I dated her when her brother got himself in a bike accident. I get to know what actually happen after about a month or two. I know very little of her, and she was always protective of her friends, would ignore me when if i see her with them. We were in school together. As a guy, a emphatic one, yes i did "White Knight" some parts when i was courting her because really, i cared for her brother. I lost my late brother a year before. but what struck me is that she use other girls i dated as a bait, and she said i can only date her while she been dating other guys behind my back. and yes, her brother is still in hospital at the time.
Lesson learnt: People don't change one bit, Primary goal i written above, "Find best mate, Get pregnant, Expansion". I am not bitter, but it just astounds me till today.
GIrl B,
I dated her when her mother was in hospital for a serious treatment that require a week for her to stay in a hospital. IT happens about a months later. Her mum was in a bad state. At that time, me and her were talking on the phone, occasionally meet up in person because our schools are apart. She told me she was single when she had a boyfriend long time ago. She usually brushes me off and sometimes be occasionally warmth to me. Talk to her, Her father died a long time ago. She would call me "dear" and we had good and bad conversations. We were in school, and her bestfriend, which is a great friend of mine were close, she tells me a lot of things about the school when i was curious to ask her friend if she was single, and then the world just shatters. (i feel like an ass that time).
I was really piss off, i really do, because partly she lied to me, Another is that i always expected families who happen to be in some dire state or some terrible state to have their family members at least have emphathy or soft period during this kind of such matter.
Lesson learnt: What happens to her family is her family. She is different, She is her, and her primary goal is "Find best mate, Get pregnant, Expansion" In this terms, she gotten bored of her boyfriend, she found me to be cool until i confronted and ask why she lied. Well i guess if she would at least be sorry one bit or be emphatically understandable on why i was angered. Women are women.
Guess life sucks for me at the time, It was a good learning experience, I never change it for anything.
Zac
