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Women's frustration is a good sign

Huge Jack Man

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Why wouldn't you want your woman to be comfortable? As long as your comfortable yourself as well, I really don't see why you'd want to change that
There’s nothing wrong with being comfortable but it’s just that I don’t see much excitement from her to do certain things anymore. One major thing about this is when we are on the phone (due to certain restraints, we only see each other on weekends but FaceTime everyday during the weekdays) and I try to get the convo a bit sexual, she just replies with a like “hmmm” or “I seee”. Which is less enthusiastic of her because in the past she would like encourage it and start talking more about the deed.
 

gameboy

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There’s nothing wrong with being comfortable but it’s just that I don’t see much excitement from her to do certain things anymore. One major thing about this is when we are on the phone (due to certain restraints, we only see each other on weekends but FaceTime everyday during the weekdays) and I try to get the convo a bit sexual, she just replies with a like “hmmm” or “I seee”. Which is less enthusiastic of her because in the past she would like encourage it and start talking more about the deed.
I see. Probably not a good idea to do calls every day of the week then... Make her miss you a bit more.
 

Huge Jack Man

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I see. Probably not a good idea to do calls every day of the week then... Make her miss you a bit more.
Yeahh thanks I’ve been thinking about doing that. I’m thinking if she actually likes me, she will try and be a bit more enthusiastic but if she doesn’t, then it will just create some more distanceZ
 

Michael Chief

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I have had some relationships where this principle was true, and some where it wasn't.

Drama and frustration might be extremely useful in relationships with younger women who aren't as mature and secure. In healthy, mature relationships, I don't think it's necessary. What's more important in my experience is to keep giving her tons of orgasms. Keeps that oxytocin high.
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

POB

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What's more important in my experience is to keep giving her tons of orgasms. Keeps that oxytocin high.
Yes, that's the number one priority.
A proper D treatment let's you get away with a lot lol

But for serious relationships, it's never good to shower them with attention.
Small doses on your routine and the occasional big gesture to show how much you love them.
Let them complain a bit....like I said in the title, it is a good sign.
 
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