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Would getting an escort ruin my game? Drawbacks?

Sub-Zero

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I was on an escort website and i haven't seen so many fine girls at once. Im not trying to make this a habit, i just want to fuck a few. these are the best looking girls I've ever seen in my life. I never see these girls in person.

I just want to know if i do get one, will it ruin my game and Confidence In getting women?
I don't want to pay for sex and i want girls to like me for me, but to sleep with a few of those kind of girls im alright with because it won't be a habit.

As a rookie am i too new in the game to start sleeping with escorts? What are the drawbacks of it?

Thanks yall
 

ray_zorse

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I would regard it a bit like masturbation, I mean it may temporarily dampen your libido but I doubt it could do much harm. Eh, well, I suppose it could be like porn in the sense it trains your brain to have unrealistic expectations, although I'm speculating, I have never seen any actual evidence to that effect. You might also find it a bit of a sterile experience, personally I find that the thrill of dominating her adds significantly to the experience and how horny I feel, although I am told there are some great escorts out there who know exactly what to do to give you a great experience every single time... better check reviews, there are sites a bit like girlschase except composed of guys who do nothing but fuck prostitutes and post the resulting FRs (or reviews, really) online.

I want to make a suggestion, though -- you are a young guy (under 25 IIRC) and probably not totally loaded -- it costs something like $300 to $400 to fuck a prostitute (or so I gather, I have never done it myself), why don't you put that money towards an expensive cologne, or an item of jewellery, an Armani jacket or whatever floats your boat... you need this stuff... also, I have been paying attention to your posts and you seem like a sensible guy, I never see any whining or negativity, just honest requests for information and help, so I know you'll level up quickly and fuck the hot women you deserve. If it was you who was struggling with approach anxiety recently then I'm happy to try to help, but you can move past this yourself if you really, really want to...

-Ray
 

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Your name is Money, if you are going the escort route, you need to be able to afford escorts like you can afford a bottle of beer... meaning you should have lots of money. It is usually $200 - $400 per hour for very beautiful ones. If you do not have lots of money, then I would advise you to stay away from escorts.
 
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Sub-Zero

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ray_zorse said:
I would regard it a bit like masturbation, I mean it may temporarily dampen your libido but I doubt it could do much harm. Eh, well, I suppose it could be like porn in the sense it trains your brain to have unrealistic expectations, although I'm speculating, I have never seen any actual evidence to that effect. You might also find it a bit of a sterile experience, personally I find that the thrill of dominating her adds significantly to the experience and how horny I feel, although I am told there are some great escorts out there who know exactly what to do to give you a great experience every single time... better check reviews, there are sites a bit like girlschase except composed of guys who do nothing but fuck prostitutes and post the resulting FRs (or reviews, really) online.

I want to make a suggestion, though -- you are a young guy (under 25 IIRC) and probably not totally loaded -- it costs something like $300 to $400 to fuck a prostitute (or so I gather, I have never done it myself), why don't you put that money towards an expensive cologne, or an item of jewellery, an Armani jacket or whatever floats your boat... you need this stuff... also, I have been paying attention to your posts and you seem like a sensible guy, I never see any whining or negativity, just honest requests for information and help, so I know you'll level up quickly and fuck the hot women you deserve. If it was you who was struggling with approach anxiety recently then I'm happy to try to help, but you can move past this yourself if you really, really want to...

-Ray
Thanks for the advice man, this stuff makes me a lot more motivated with this stuff. I try not to ask a lot of questions, but i need to find out what i should or shouldn't be doing, and i like getting your guys opinions. And yes i struggle with approach anxiety a lot, i do have my random sober nights were i just strike up convos with girls, but there is no telling when that happens. I can't do day game for shit, it is just too foreign to me and i have a lot of weight on my shoulders, with the club it is more expected to do it and you won't look as bad. I even have a hard time doing this.

I have to get better at this.
 

Sub-Zero

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Tayo said:
Your name is Money, if you are going the escort route, you need to be able to afford escorts like you can afford a bottle of beer... meaning you should have lots of money. It is usually $200 - $400 per hour for very beautiful ones. If you do not have lots of money, then I would advise you to stay away from escorts.

I just wanted to try a few out, there is no way in hell that i would do this a lot. It's just these girls look good and i would only pay for an hour to try it out.

My stand point in asking was to see if this would mess up my game if i was to spend money on these girls. But i realize that getting those types of girls is not common, i do not see these kind of girls ever in public and i believe you have to pay for these girls because that's all they want.

I want to know though would this mess my inner game up in anyway?
 

Franco

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Money,

I personally don't think it would really hurt, but if you think it will help you with approach anxiety (if that's what your struggling with), then you need to think again. Approach anxiety is only cured by actually going out there and approaching women.

If you're a virgin, it might help you overcome any fears you have about sex for the first time, and that is usually the one thing it can be good for. Other than that, there's not really much it's going to do for you other than give you one night of quick, very expensive satisfaction (or regret, depending on how much you spend).

Either way, if you do decide to go this route once, make sure to wrap your tool up!

- Franco
 

Sub-Zero

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Franco said:
Money,

I personally don't think it would really hurt, but if you think it will help you with approach anxiety (if that's what your struggling with), then you need to think again. Approach anxiety is only cured by actually going out there and approaching women.

If you're a virgin, it might help you overcome any fears you have about sex for the first time, and that is usually the one thing it can be good for. Other than that, there's not really much it's going to do for you other than give you one night of quick, very expensive satisfaction (or regret, depending on how much you spend).

Either way, if you do decide to go this route once, make sure to wrap your tool up!

- Franco
What up franco! Im no virgin over here, i get it in!!! I wasn't using the escort as a cure to approach anxiety, it was just these girls look good and i never see girls like this in real life, so i would be willing to pay just to fuck a girl like that. And girls like that only want money anyway. I just wanted to know would it mess up my confidence or whatever because im paying for pussy amd chase does not condone that.
 

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You're young and it is normal that these beautiful women generate attraction to you. When you're older you may also enjoy. But maybe in a few years you have a wife and children. So enjoy now, do not do anything bad, just enjoy life with something you like.
 

Byron

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Lol ask them for their game secrets dude. They game guys for a living
 

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Hah, bryon put it really interesting. I'm with bryon here, do ask them if you wanna go.

Do you know willy beck!?. The dude lost his virginity by actually paying a prostitute for sex, and now he's a dating coach!

Does it hurt his game/confident? I don't think so nor does it look like he lost his game/confident. And you know what he said about it, he said - i had to do it, it was on my mind so just wanted to get it off my mind....something similar like this.

Go if you wanna (and dont forget to post it here). And if i were you i would make sure i last longer even if i had to take viagra.
 

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An Escort pretty much has a few things to offer to a guy besides the simple act of PITV....

1) Confidentiality.
2) Experience
3) Novelty
4) No emotional attachment on her part.
5) Know what you are there for and will deliver.

I think if you are in a situation where you need discreteness and lack of emotion in the act, an escort visit can give you what you need. Sometimes you can think more clearly about a situation after a little "strange".

Like Charlie says: "I don't pay 'em to sleep with me, I pay 'em to leave."

I think a guy should experience an escort to see what a professional seducer and manipulator does in a sexual transaction (for the perspective). But repeated visits I wouldn't endorse. For the price of an hour with an escort you could have a nice hotel room for the weekend and stuff a fuckbuddy multiple times if you put in the foundation work...
 
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