Yes.. She is showing interest but why?

[nerdonarope]

So thats what Im looking for. Why is this older woman, easily 10 to 20 years older, showing interest in me. Im 40 yrs old. First it started out as wheres the milk, eggs etc etc. Then she showed up more to hangout and talk. Shes showing all the signals of crushing on me. Showing up in the grocery store talking to me for over 30 minutes. Smiling when she sees me and smiling ear to ear when we talk. I talk while I work. She seems to seek me out and show up right in front of me all of a sudden. She blocks traffic in the shopping lanes to more or less tell passer bys what a great person i am. Then again wants to spend time to more or less hangout and talk.

Help!!

 

[Fuck This]

I get a lot of interest from 50 year old women as well. Same reason we like 30 year olds.

Are you interested or not? Because you have the power. You can feed her ego if you want to pursue her. But either keep her at a distance, or be bold and ask her to join you for a drink and offer to fix dinner with her.

My experience tells me 50 year old women have less to worry about in reputation and are more to the point with their interest.

 

[nerdonarope]

I hope i did this right. Like I said its like she knows my schedule, knows where I am, leaving the conversation and then coming back for more etc. I dont mind talkingto her and lol she seems to listen.
The other day I was really backlogged with work, she again showed up outta nowhere and i sorta said to her sternly Im sorry i dont have time to talk and she walked away sorta like i was being mean to her.
Guess Ill keep talking and see where it goes.

I get a lot of interest from 50 year old women as well. Same reason we like 30 year olds.

Are you interested or not? Because you have the power. You can feed her ego if you want to pursue her. But either keep her at a distance, or be bold and ask her to join you for a drink and offer to fix dinner with her.

My experience tells me 50 year old women have less to worry about in reputation and are more to the point with their interest.

 

[Fuck This]

Those times when you are busy are prime times to cut to the chase.

"Hey, I'm slammed here right now. Can I catch up with you later tonight? I'm gonna need a drink at about 6 down at the Fireside. You are welcome to join."

Basically you are calling her hand. If she shows up, escalate. If not you weeded her out as a time waster....

 

[nerdonarope]

Yep I havent seen her now for 2 days. Thanks