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Prestige21

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Hello all,
Call me Prestige. I'm very new to the PUA world; I'm a 21 year old college student, quite handsome (or so I've been told), in good shape and I'm mildly successful for a guy my age. Throughout my life I've had very little luck with woman which has greatly affected my confidence with them; even approaching an attractive girl in a social setting gives me terrible anxiety and makes me so nervous that I can't bring myself to it out of fear of rejection. My game is so pathetic the only way I meet women now is almost exclusively on tinder and even then I feel like I'm absolutely wasting my time since I've only managed 2 hook ups out of 4 years of use. I've read books on how to solve this issue, however, with almost nothing to show for it. Although I am extremely grateful for the positives aspects about my life, I feel like this sexual repression is killing me on the inside. I want to stop watching my life go by and explore the sexual side of myself while I'm still young. I'm not naive enough to be expecting any overnight miracles, but I am open to any advice you guys can give me and I'm committed to improving myself in this aspect of my life because some day I'm going to be dead so I want to seize life by horns!
 

Ergon

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Hey Prestige, welcome.

Prestige21 said:
I've only managed 2 hook ups out of 4 years of use
Not too shabby :)

The newbie assignment is an excellent starting point. Read the articles, do the assignments, write as much as you can about your outings. All this should get you started.

I'd perhaps also focus a lot on my fundamentals. If you feel you could still improve your attractiveness, give them a dramatic change, and enough time for it, check out Darius's 30 days challenge. I know it had a profound impact on my image, and gave me results too (though they were definitely a lot of luck and having tried the newbie assignment before haha). Worth imo.

Those are my two cents. Go ahead and let us know how you do.
 
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